Do you think it's good to have a girlfriend very young like age of 11 years old?

I have a crush on this girl at school and we both are still pretty young so I not sure if I can go and u know date her or something? Please give me advices!!!

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lorogan2 years ago

Friends. Best thing you can ever be.

I don't really know how mature you are so I can't really answer but i'll try. Your still a kid so live your life as a child to it's fullest. You can ask her if you want but make sure that you and her parents are okay. Keep it age appropriate. also its great to have a girlfriend its like a best friend but better. Just remember that all good things will eventually come to a end. I'm not implying that it will end now, or soon but, eventually it will end. Also keep in mind theres a difference between a crush and true love.

It depends on the situation. The girl might not be allowed to date, for one thing. You will need her parent's permission. I am assuming you have your parent's permission to date. And it will depend on her opinion about dating too. She might not be ready.

My personal opinion is that you are much too young to be thinking about dating seriously. You should try just going out as friends, to the movies or whatever you like to do. Get to know each other well first and see what happens. Maybe it will turn into a relationship in time, and maybe it won't. Just take it as it comes.

Triclaw2 years ago

it is fine to have a girlfriend a 11 ask her to a movie but your 11 so be 11 and have fun and don't get serious have fun go on dates and be good friends

rickharris2 years ago

I don't know you or her, I don't therefore know how mature you are, how responsible you are or how your emotional development has progressed.


With none of that I can't give you a real answer BUT in general NO your too both young to commit, you are setting to get hurt or to be used (either side).

Be friends. IF that's what you actually mean then Ok go ahead.

Kiteman2 years ago

Be friends, hold hands, go for a soda together. All fine.

Just remember to keep things age-appropriate (those rules are there for very good reasons), and not to be too heartbroken when all good things come to an end.

Burf2 years ago

Its good to have a friend who happens to be a girl. But, its not good to have an 11 year old girlfriend!!

iceng2 years ago

Just be a friend and in time a smart pyromaniac like you will get introduced to her friends and enjoy a rewarding relationship with a woman.

No Dating Now !

I enjoyed your blow torch vid on Youtube :)

Vyger2 years ago

"no"

"why not"

"because"

"because why"

"because your to young to have your own kids and support them now"

A crush is just temporary, that is the definition of it. The results of acting on a crush can last for most of your life.

(Proverbs 27:11, 12) 11 Be wise, my son, and make my heart rejoice, So that I can make a reply to him who taunts me. 12 The shrewd person sees the danger and conceals himself, But the inexperienced keep right on going and suffer the consequences.

Be friends and get to know her first. You have plenty of time for dating later when you don't have to have your parents taking you 2 out.