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Is 11 old enough to have first kiss? Very mature!?

I am a mature 11 year old girl and I want to have my first kiss with a boy 11-13. A lot of people will like me on the curise I'm going on... I want to kiss somebody! I may seem desperate but I am just a pre-teen with hormones!

DalekS1yesterday

I'm 11, just like you, and I want my first kiss. I'm maturing, but I really want that kiss with my girlfriend, who 11 also. What to do!?

You're old enough to kiss but I'd be better to just wait. I'm 5 years late, though. :-P

hottzyboy3 months ago

wow this was so great until stupid parents or adults came in and strted saying talk to a gardian. shut up. 90% of us arent even allowed to date i know im knot but i still do and im reading this caus i want to get my first kisss this week were taking crts and then it will be all chill so i can get her im 11 and amolst 12 and im dating.

You don't even need a girlfriend in the first place. All you're going to do is be semi-friends and kiss.

im an 11 year old boy. I think you can be able to kiss just not for a really long time. I think if you are going out with this boy for 4 weeks or more you can kiss him on the cheek then he'll want to kiss you back maybe not at the moment, but maybe later

I had my first kiss when I was nine and I'm 11 now, just be gentle , I'm taken and yeh we kiss everyday and hug just be gentle , and u know what , I wasn't excepting a kiss from him but he held my hand and hugged me and kissed me , and were only 11 , just do it , u will like it ❤️?
XD wow so many little kids trying to kiss others...wow...so sad how our generation has grown so hurried to get in relationships... :P yeah sure lady go for it :P ._.
Ok so I had my first kiss on THE LIPS today and im 11,ITS AWESOME!
Do it don't worry!If you really like him and he really likes you it won't matter!!!
Im 11 and my boyfriend kissed me in front of alot of people by my locker. i was scared at first but after a couple of times i got used to it. You should go for it good luck.
I had mine when i was 7, im 11 right now so maybe i guess its ok?
sepbabe965 years ago
i think you should go for it! if u like this gujy and wont to kiss him. do it! i had my first kiss this year well actully make out session. i was scared at first but youll be glad u did!
thats true but i she had to dump me cuz she moved to joberg
Hardk0rr2 years ago
Should I kiss my gf I hav been with her for a wile I wanted to know if she's ready I'm 12and she's 11
dude i mean chill out sit at a chilled place and just go stear her in the eyes go closer and itl happen hommie just wait 4 one of those momments
loveumorgan2 years ago
well i think that 11 is a good time 2 have ur first kiss. im 11 and a girl and had my 1st kiss with my boyf infront of every 1 im now not afraid 2 kiss him x but make sure that u r ready and dont rush it! i would also make sure that u now them and its not just a random guy! xx lu
awe thats kwl im a 11 year old dude by the way i had my frikken first kiss at 5 propper kiss ay my mom allowed it dame thats kwl
Hey i am 10 should I kiss my girlfriend haow should I do it
hey! well if u really want 2 kiss her then go ahed! but b4 u do make sure she is redy cuz 1 of my friends at scool is thinking of dumping her boyf cus hes do mad bout kissing and shes just not ready. but if u want 2 know how 2 do it i wuldent do it in public cos it qiute embarassing the 1st time and just go ahed and kiss her! xx lu
Thanks that helps alot but should I wait a little until i know she is ready
good 4 u x my freind still hasnt kissed her boyf but now that shes redy there going 2 kiss in there own time
Adjuster-X2 years ago
So wait for a day like valentines and if you have a middle school dance which I have in two days walk to him ask him to dance he puts his arms around you waist then you step up close to him and depending on Hightower you can either look into his eyes and lean in a little and if he does smooch it up or you can rest you head on his chest and um what's your name
Adrian31173 years ago
Im also 11 (boy) and if i really wanted to kiss someone i would wait for the right time and not some person you dont like just to get it over with i would make sure its somewhere out of school! And make it passionate and memorable.
what if you really liked someone from school
Just ask them out or if your to shy have a friend ask him or her
I don't think one can really judge whether or not they are mature, maybe you are, maybe you aren't. It doesn't really matter. If you like the boy, and the time is right, then do it. If not, then don't. Don't spoil your first kiss on someone who you don't care about. Hope this helped.
rich_moe5 years ago
Are you sure you want a bunch of strangers answering such a personal request? I'd rather you talk to one/both of your parents or a guardian(s) for this, as each person's background is going to have values different from those your family has. They know you best, anyway. I think that such an important step is best left to you being able to talk to them about this.
a12h34 rich_moe3 years ago
why would u do that
I think that talking to parents is valuable, but I also think that our collective consciousness isn't necessarily worse than the parents'. I've met plenty of people whose parents wouldn't be the best people to go to for values.
why would u want to talk to ur parents about kissing? how un comfortable
JohnJY3 years ago
I'm really late! Don't do it! Save it for someone, if you don't; then what was the point?!
acidbass4 years ago
 pre teen with hormone related urges that is what you are experiencing right now dont worry about it though it will come in good time
Yo I Had MY First Kiss To Day And How I Did it I Told her to meet at a place where no one will go then you u I want to tell u a secret and then Kiss Him/Her On The Check u can do it on the lips but it a bit to far for me
Dr.Bill5 years ago
Try it you'll like it. Just don't kiss and tell.
yerjoking5 years ago
11 really isn't too old. BUT. Depends on the person. If you feel you are mature enough, go for it, if you feel you are not ready, clearly, you shouldn't. However, someone could answer my question as to why I am attempting to answer this question when I am only 14 myself...
110100101105 years ago
if you are old enough to get a really painful slap then you are old enough to kiss
thats weired!!
Kiteman5 years ago
As a teacher, I spend a fair amount of time untangling pre-teen romance problems.

The best advice I can think of is to wait and see - don't kiss somebody just because you want to know what kissing is like. They may expect more from you (I mean commitment-wise, not physically). Wait until you find somebody who attracts you, and who is also attracted to you.

You're going on a cruise? I guess holiday romances are as good a time as any to learn the basics, but remember to respect yourself and the other person. Be aware that whoever you hook up with will probably not want to carry on the relationship after the cruise, especially by email/msn. I believe you are probably old enough for kissing, but going any further is not wise, and probably not legal.

And take your gum out before you kiss.