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I've told my friend that I like her more than a friend, but she does not like me more than a friend.?


I told my friend that I like her more than a friend, but she does not like me like the way I do to her......
I no that she still likes me as a normal friend, but i just want more than that.......I've tried so many ways to impress her, even though I was publishing her photo on my facebook.....and she was angry at me....and of course I had to delete that photo.
She said that she does not want a boyfriend right nw....and maybe she will think about me if she does want one in the future...
I also thought that was because I'm Aisan and she's white......so we can never be together........but she said no......
I'm really really stuck now.......Can some body help PLZZZZZZZZ??????? What I should do to make her like me more than a normal friend??????

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Respect her decision. You can pursue her for sometime, do what you can to make her feel the same. But after you've done everything and she still doesn't want you, maybe it's time to just give up.
Diana7475 years ago

Well, the truth is, there's no way to make a person like you in a certain way, if they don't.  Any feeling this girl has for you right now, was something that was generated naturally, and not by anything you consciously did.  If you force yourself on her, she'll like you even less.

The answer to your problem is to just be yourself, so that you can attract people who are like you (...and I'm not talking about nationality here. I'm talking about character traits.) Some place out there is a girl who will love who you are; a girl who wants to be with you all the time, and respects you for everything that makes you special.  But it's not this girl.  This girl is just meant to be a friend, and you two just aren’t compatible as lovers.  If you were, you would have been naturally drawn to each other already, and you wouldn’t be asking this question, right now.

Please don't waste your time on people that aren’t compatible to you. Just live your life, being happy, creative and helpful, and sooner or later, your true love will cross your path. Good Luck!

Chirpoff5 years ago
You might try praying about it, God's got it all under control, He has a plan, and He cares about your feelings. Have a good evening!
NachoMahma6 years ago
.  You can't. :(
.  Give her some space and maybe she will see what a catch you are.
+1 (or plus about a thousand, actually). If you push it, you will lose her as both possible love interest AND as friend.

Back off. Just be a friend. Either something will eventually happen or it won't. If it doesn't, you'll find someone else, or they'll find you.
lkahuy1191 (author)  orksecurity6 years ago
Hey, it wasnt my fault…….U no this morning her coach txted me that her training is on as normal…..coz last week she borrowed my fone to txt…..but her coach didnt reply at that time…..n I sent an email to tell her that (I didnt say anyfing about our relationships any more) but she was asking me that I’m ok or not coz she thought that I seem really depressed lately. Do u think this could be a gud move?
No "fault" involved. At least, not yet. If you don't give her space and respect her decisions, that *does* become your fault.
Best answers! Be glad she's your friend. Sometimes a friend becomes more or you find someone else you feel this way about.
lkahuy1191 (author)  NachoMahma6 years ago
Hey, it wasnt my fault…….U no this morning her coach txted me that her training is on as normal…..coz last week she borrowed my fone to txt…..but her coach didnt reply at that time…..n I sent an email to tell her that (I didnt say anyfing about our relationships any more) but she was asking me that I’m ok or not coz she thought that I seem really depressed lately. Do u think this could be a gud move?
.  Unfortunately, I am an Ugly American and only speak English. :(
lemonie6 years ago

Stop caring, forget about it. One day you will, and the sooner the better.

L
lkahuy1191 (author)  lemonie6 years ago
Hey, it wasnt my fault…….U no this morning her coach txted me that her training is on as normal…..coz last week she borrowed my fone to txt…..but her coach didnt reply at that time…..n I sent an email to tell her that (I didnt say anyfing about our relationships any more) but she was asking me that I’m ok or not coz she thought that I seem really depressed lately. Do u think this could be a gud move?

I don't know, but you can be polite and friendly without being hung up on "more than a normal friend".
Some things we can do, others are beyond our control.

L
lkahuy1191 (author)  lemonie6 years ago
Should i talk to her, chat with her on MSN or email her?

Do what you think is right - you'd know best. But don't try to make a person be what you want them to be (or be bothered that they're not).

L
onrust6 years ago
Start to pursue other women....... with her help. Pick another girl and go to your friend for pointers. Girls are great to have just as friends and some relationships grow with time.......... even as friends!
acidbass6 years ago
like orksecurity said just be a friend for now and then something might happen but then again you also need to explore your options and there is always someone better until you find the right person (you feel like you just died and had gone to heaven)