Love a girl but is it too late?

So, I've had a crush on this girl for about 2 months now and I love the hell out of her but have never had the guts to tell her how I feel. I'm now on holiday and i've just heard shes got together with one of my best mates from my friend who knew my feelings about her, to be honest I feel like I've been run over by a brick wall and feel so upset and regretting not telling her how I felt.. I still love her so much but no idea what to do now as I was planning on telling her after I get back from my holidays... whaat do I do?

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seandogue3 years ago

Required Items:

1) Rubber band

2) your wrist


1) Place rubber band around wrist.

2) When you think of how much you love her, stretch the rubber band as far as possible without breaking it

3) let go.

You missed the boat. Your mission now is to

a) forget her

2) rememebr the lesson

Vyger3 years ago

Look up the terms crush (romantic) and infactuation,

rickharris3 years ago

1. You don't love her because you don't know her - You just fancy her a lot.

2. You need to strike whilst the iron's hot

3. Relationships come and go - Be a good second in the queue and you may get luck and pick up if they fall out. (be prepared to lose your friend though.

Kiteman3 years ago

Yes, you dropped the ball on this one.

You'll get over it, learn the lesson, move on.

iceng3 years ago

So, you joined instructables today to learn how to approach a girl for a date because you know you are in love, Wow........ how do you do that ?.

Maybe you will fall in love with another girl on your holiday an that's cheating !

There is a site/app called girls ask guys which is brilliant for this type of stuff, you can ask the question and then you quickly get both male and female perspectives on your problem as this is primarily the point of the site

bwrussell3 years ago

Brutal honesty: Learn the lesson and move on and besides, attraction from afar does not equal love. Also if she's started dating someone else she probably wasn't in to you. You've spent 2 months building her up in your head but you really don't know her as well as you think.

Next time make your feelings known early. It probably won't go well but it will be easier to move on when you know how she feels.

The truth can hurt, but live and learn.