Long distance relationship help

My girlfriend lives in Florida, I live in New Jersey. How can I see her cheap and often? Any cheap airline tickets? Any legal and plausible suggestion is appreciated.

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beeface10 years ago
if you have a strong enough connection, i don't think you should be too worried about cheating on each other, or the aesthetics of being a couple. everyone's different, all circumstances vary. if you like each other enough then you do what you gotta do to see each other. if you're just in a long distance relationship to be in a relationship and it's not worth it, that's another story. just follow your gut. can you alternate who goes to see who? can you meet somewhere in between?
sugg22 (author)  beeface10 years ago
i really appreciate your support. she might come up to jersey sometime soon, we're working on it. but there isn't really anything halfway - that would probably be somewhere in North or South Carolina, and thats still a two hour plane ride for me. but for now, its working. i completely trust her, and i'm pretty positive that she trusts me not to cheat. plus, as of now, when i see her, its more satisfying then if i could see her every day
beeface sugg2210 years ago
if you are happy, then cheers to you =) every relationship has tweaks. and yours seems to be an exception to the "long distance relationships usually don't work" thing. ;)
well, as with the majority of people I can't and won't change your mind. but for my personal satisfaction can you PM me to let me know when I can say "I told ya so" if not, because you probably won't I hope you hear me in your head when it happens. "I told ya so" not trying to be a dick, just once again left irritated and frustrated by another person who can't accept good advice. Many may disagree but I haven't seen anyone in here say "I met my wife of 20 years in a long distance relationship" they all say, I had a long distance relationship ONCE (past tence) or my "First" wife (implying a second wife) have fun, if your idea of fun is hurting from being away from her and always wondering what she's up to when she stops calling as much (it'll happen) if you idea of bliss is one night with her and 30 nights alone whatching the plausable relationships pass you by then by all means ........Enjoy!!
you can't predict someone else's life. everyone is different..
It is true that the odds can be against one in such a relationship, but since we don't live "according to the odds", it is always advice left to be considered after the fact, sadly. Someone once said something like: I never give advice, wise men don't need it and fools don't heed it; so to give it is just a waste of breath. :-)
chaoscampbell10 years ago
break up with her........ it won't work out unless one is willing to move or your loaded............ don't wast your money dude
yeah, I mean long distance relationships are for wimps, you'll rarely see her, you waste money, and she could be cheating behind your back! Ever think of that? huh? Ever think that your a joke to her? If you're going to have a relationship at least have the guts to talk and be with her in real life, everything is easier long distance, theres no consequences to any of your actions. If she's just living out there for a month or something like that, otherwise why bother?
sugg22 (author)  guyfrom7up10 years ago
well, i really disagree with you guys. I'm a sophomore in high school and she's a junior. so moving out to be with her isn't in the cards at the moment. but I just saw her last week and spent thanksgiving with her, and I'm probably spending New years with her. so, please don't post stuff like that. also - have either of the two of you ever been in long distance relationships? or are you just speculating?
beeface sugg2210 years ago
i've been in a long distance relationship before, and it actually turned out to be a lot better than living in the same town. we enjoyed seeing each other more...if you trust each other and respect each other, then you should see what happens. don't let these guys get you all freaked out. none of us know how you feel about each other, so we really can't tell you what to do. but i'm just telling you my experience with that kind of thing--good luck
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