ONLINE LOVE

hey guys iam 15 , and i love a girl whom i found in a online gaming community
i dont know her age !!!...and i only know she talks english and bahasa indonesian language and i have only one girl friend but she has an another old boy friend whom she sometimes talk , and i really really love her i met her this valentines day and i was feeling something in my mind i cant take it anymore and i have school i promised her to meet her tommrow in the game and she is not giving her facebook address how to make her trust me????????????

i neeed help .....and it is the first love that struck me ever!!!!!!!1!!!

CIARA_YOUNG2 years ago

i think you need alot of guidance if you wanna make things work with her! remember love is not a priority and we take it for granted

you must tell her how you really fell about here and you need to show her that you really love her. show her how you fell and what ever you do try to not piss her off or make her mad at you. I remember my first love struck me it was a wounderful felling.and see if she loves you?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? and try to be as romantic as you can possibly be.

Your advice as a single person is to go really emotionally-heavy and submissive on a first date?

Trying not to piss a person off can actually piss them off, if you avoid saying or doing things because of it. E.g. you tell someone that you love them, at a young age and they don't want to hear that. Then you avoid saying how you feel again because your initial approach pissed them off (remember, what ever you do you try to not piss her off or make her mad at you...?)

Replace this with "be decent and do right things". If you don't really do anything that should annoy someone, and apologise where appropriate, you're OK.

Feelings need to be limited to what is right and appropriate. If you don't know a person, you'll sound like you don't know what you're talking about (because you don't know who it is you have feelings for). This comes across as immaturity, because it usually is.

If you stick to sincerity and say "it was good to meet you I'd like to do this again" for example, it's easier for a person to accept than e.g. "I love you more than anyone else in the world and I want to spend the rest of my life with you"...

Yes?

L

Kiteman6 years ago
The only way to make her trust you is to be trustworthy.

If you make a promise, keep it.

It takes time.

But, a word of caution, if you only know her through an online game, then you do not *really* know anything about her at all.

She may not be trustworthy, she may not be interested in a relationship, she may not even be a she!