my life is crap help!

ok this is a better version of ahhhhhhhhhh! but im getting yelled at for every little thing i do and i missed 1 day on 09-14-09 i was sick and i would of gone today(15) but i needed books for school and the libary was open till 8:00 and my dads like oh well ill just take you to the f***ing libray and not karate and i felt bad a little and i asked him if he wanted me to get my gear on and then go i would of been a few mins late but who cares and now he will yell at me later "why did ya mis that day" and i would tell him and he would get mad at me i do like karate but i go every day hes there and i dont wanna go every day so in the end how can i tell my dad with out getting him mad i wanna lay back on the karate a little?

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caitlinsdad8 years ago
Are you that kid in the "Karate Kid" movie where the sensei tells him to beat up the Karate Kid? I'm guessing your dad wants you to be a champ or living his dream through you. Just tell your dad that you enjoy doing karate but there is a lot of pressure building up to do it every day. He may not realize you are getting pushed too hard and it is best to be open and talk about it. Just be honest and let him know. Good luck.
yeah its alot of prussure i have school karate and chores and more junk
Don't we all. Either suck it up or deal with it. Just complaining does nothing but reinforce your frustration. Make a plan the work your plan. Step back from this particular issue and see if you spend too much time in bed, play computer games for too many hours, etc. The way you lead your life may hold some clues to taking charge. Those who commented on your grammar were right even if they were a bit harsh in their expression of it. Slow down and ease into things and you will enjoy other stuff too. Good Luck
craftyv6 years ago
Where's your mother in all this? (Sorry if this is a sensitive subject). It seems to me that there will never be a good raport as long as the language and atmosphere is so charged between you and your dad.
Point 1. Never try and negotiate whilst your dad is angry or het-up. Wait till he's had dinner and feeling relaxed and say" Dad, I need to ask your advice. You want me to come to Karate with you and sometimes Iv'e let you down because I have other commitments, like the library and class. What do you think I could do to sort this out, I'm feeling very stressed. This may sound a bit twee but this approach will be at least a lot calmer. I wish I could intercede for you. Good Luck.
fukin go kamakaze on your dad and tell im that you do what ever u want so dont care wat he thinks about it
Doctor What7 years ago
Of course, you have to realize that parents are out to get you, and help you in no way, shape, or form.  Maybe you should have tolerated the sickness and gone to school, because your basic grasp of punctuation and capitalization are in need of severe help.
I knew it!
And besides, not everyone has perfect grammar when stressed out.(Not saying that to make fun of you or something)
I'm stressed out, but you don't see me slamming my fists into the keyboard while trying to type basic sentence structures.
Well like I said, not everybody has that much self control. (Again, not making fun or you)
*sniffle*  STRESS OVERLOAD.  GGGRAAAAHHHHH!  *kills cat*

There, I'm good again.
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