your clique

what clique are you in? im a gangster/skater/ninja/mexican/prep but i mainly am an outkast i could fit in with any group... ...i choose not to

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I'm in the Muffin clique..... Not too many muffinators around me, though v_v
~DaDawg~ (author)  T3h_Muffinator8 years ago
 muffinators are bacc! so whatcha bacc! haah sorry it took a year for a respond but i went through some stuff, anyway, have a good day!
Well, there's Muffy the vampire slayer....oh wait, that Buffy, sorry.
Umm, the nerdy one? Everyone I hang out with is a nerd of some sort - everything involves references for us. That's what happens when you make friends through your jobs - most of mine have been bookstores or game shops. :P Though I have recently made some female (!!!) friends, and yay for that! First female friends I've had since middle school.
I have recently made some female (!!!) friends,

Weird. Where do you find those?
Through work, actually. I think I've figured out the secret: Befriending intelligent, confident girls (and it my case, older) in a steady relationship! Well, it's not foolproof, I suppose. But this has worked for me so far. I always ran away from female friends because I always felt there was some sort of competition for attention going on and I hated it. It's so awkward hanging out with my male friends with a female friend that acts that way. :|
I generally find that women who are "socialized as males" (annoyingly this turns out to be society's definition of women who are smart, confident, secure, engaged, willing/able to stand up for themselves) work out just fine. It's just unfortunate that many women are, from a young age, encouraged to be insecure and passive-aggressively manipulative. (Actually, this sounds like the beginning of a rant, so I'll stop now.)
Goodhart canida9 years ago
No need to rant, I agree. I find intelligence to by a very attractive trait in women. It is VERY sad that it is not encouraged more (of course, I grew up "insecure, and passive-aggressive, so I know the devastation of this path in life)
westfw9 years ago
I always figured there was a difference between the groups of people you ended up hanging out with just because of what you were or what you did (not sure what to call those), and the groups you ended up CHOOSING to be with (those would be the cliques.) So nerds aren't really a clique (just a personality type), and not all athletes are "jocks" (some sports don't seem to qualify!) The closest thing to an actual clique is probably "SF Fandom", filking, costuming, "reader", and "boffer war" sub-cliques (used to be "science", but it got a bit repetitive and failed to adequately cover the pieces of science that were actually moving along.) Oh yeah; I'm also a "parent", which lets me in to certain clique-like ... things.
I fly in the face of cliques most of the time and this is kinda why all the popular people at my old school hated me, think rich kid school with highly tiered social system. That and I was pretty poor compared to the less well off ones so that sucked... means they think they can do what they want to you (and don't expect a good kicking) I was very good friends with anybody who I wanted to speak to, I knew most of the 'nerdy kids' (they're usually much more fun than jerks), the art crowd (being an artist of sorts), the sport crowd (not jocks and popular ones but the guys who do good stuff like climbing and mountain biking), girls (I get on really well with girls so I knew nearly all the girls in our year depsite not being *socially acceptable), the scary ones (I fat in well with the category of people that don't beat people up every day but you're best off not making mad, all becasue of one incident involving the schools premier jock smart alec, his little bout of racism and me) You could think of any group and I can get along with except 'popular' ones becasue they have their head so far up the asses. Also i'm in the killer clique, which is a bit notorious on it and the jackalope clique which is chiefly the crop framer cliques worst enemy
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