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There are several instructables on lighting a fire, and there are lots of good ideas in them. Mostly, however, they utilize the "tepee" method, and I've never been able to make that work out very well. My main problem is that it just isn't very stable -- it's difficult to build, difficult to light, and even more difficult to keep burning without it falling over into a random pile of sticks. It's also best suited to medium-sized sticks, not larger pieces of wood.
Also, I don't like gathering wood, I think it's hard on the forest, so I wind up buying one of the bundles of wood that are on sale at every campground, on the assumption that at least that wood is somewhat more ecologically harvested. Unfortunately the wood you get in these bundles is too short and stubby to make anything like a decent tepee. But I've come up with a technique that works very well with the typical cuts of wood you get in one of those bundles.
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This is the typical motley assortment you get when you buy one of those firewood bundles. A couple of fairly large pieces, several mid-size pieces, some plastic wrap to bundle it (I wish they'd use a couple of pieces of twine instead!), and in my area they usually put a paper label inside the plastic. There isn't much you can do with the plastic except recycle it, but the paper label makes a great starter and even the rope "handle" they staple onto one of the pieces is combustible.
However, I've been experimenting with making my own firestarters out of (free) dryer lint (which is mostly broken cotton fibers) and (very cheap, and renewable) soy wax, with terrific results. The soy wax has high energy content, so it burns for a long time, while the lint lights very quickly (especially if you keep some dry on top, with no wax) and essentially forms lots of tiny wicks for the wax to climb up and burn.
I'm feeling a new instructable comin on! Look for it.
If I've left the impression anywhere that I advocate the use of lighter fluid as an eco-friendly solution to starting a fire, I apologize. It isn't, and using it is just a bad habit of mine. As I said in the instructable, it's a cheat.
I'd encourage you to do what I intend to do, and experiment with some of the very good firestarter instructables. I'm sure we can both find something that's much more eco-friendly than the lighter fluid, cheaper, nearly as convenient (with some advance preparation) and works nearly as fast.
Just my two cents...
There are people who say that even removing dead matter from the forest weakens it, and I tend to agree. That dead matter decomposes back into nutrients which feed further growth. Removing one fire's worth of fuel isn't going to have a huge effect, but it adds up if everyone does it.
Do me a favor and try it this way, just once, before deciding it's not going to work. Believe me, it breathes beautifully.