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Here's your foolproof guide to choosing the perfect bouquet to impress your miss. It doesn't take a lot of money or any kind of floral-knowledge to knock her socks off! A few easy-to-remember pointers is all you'll need for the rest of your life.

Step 1: Learn at least a little something about your girl

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What color does she like? If you have no idea, think about what colors she often wears or has about her. What color is her bag, her phone, her shoes, her laptop? Chances are the answers are all around you.

How would you describe her? Edgy? Nature-y? Soft and romantic? Career/goal-oriented? Delicate or bold? Shy or outgoing? Funny, quirky, serious? Even just one or two descriptors will help.

Is she allergic to flowers? Worth finding out. If you don't want to be obvious and ask, find some flowers when you're out together for her to smell. That'll give you a good idea.
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GastonP5 months ago

When it comes to knowing which flowers to buy, clueless would probably be a good way to describe me. I know that my wife likes to be given flowers, and I am happy to give them to her, but I've never known how to choose them. I think I'll try using the advice from the article to look for things about her that could help me know what kind of flowers she might like. I think she would be very impressed if I could give her the perfect flowers, without having asked her to choose them.

Gaston Parizeau | http://www.valleyfreshflowers.net

GuyG45 months ago

I am not one to know how to pick flowers out for my girl either. I usually just go with red roses no matter what to be save. Next time though, I think I should go with light blue, her favorite color.


KristiK6 months ago

Really very good guide! So i use http://www.gelesinternetu.eu/en.htm they also have something different. :)

sonnenkinder10 months ago

Very good guide :) - assuming you know the recipient well; i would also
like to add that there are loads of cultural obstacles - first i personally always send roses, but watch the following: e.g. never send
an even number of roses to someone with an Eastern background, white roses are a sensitive issue in the Asia culture, on the African
continent it is mainly about the colours - maybe see a small summary
here http://www.only-roses.com/- i use these guys in London all the time, they also have roses that last for more than one year. Happy Wife, Happy Live :)

This is a very detailed guide. We also have a similar blog post published here, for those of you who want to learn more.

AddySmith1 year ago

Girls and flowers go side by side, a flower as a gift is always welcome as it doesn’t oblige her too much as do the other costly items.

florists online

AddySmith1 year ago

I have to say that the information here was the most complete that I found anywhere. I am definitely bookmarking this to come back and read later.

urbandesignflowers made it!1 year ago

We produced quite a nice infographic about the meanings behind roses, its useful for choosing roses for an occasion if you are stuck!

We try to produce useful guides like that on our blog http://www.urbandesignflowers.co.uk/blog.cfm

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riderol1 year ago

I think it is really important to learn which
flowers girl prefers. For example, lilies are beautiful but if she doesn’t like
their smell you’ll not only waste your money but also make her uncomfortable –
she’ll have to accept gift that she doesn’t like or even is allergic to. If you
need to send flowers you can use this site http://megaflowers.com/ - they always manage to deliver
flowers as beautiful as shown on picture.

Nice guides about buying flowers. For buying a fresh and awesome
flowers, it is very essential to choose the right flower shop. For
buying luxury roses flowers, you can visit http://www.rosesonly.co.uk .
I've found a very huge collection of flowers on it when i visited.

Thoth2 years ago
Also I have found out if the flowers are very fragrant its a nice bonus.

Also based on my experience with women. Carnations rarely count as an acceptable flower even if from a florist carnation heavy bouquets tend to have a supermarket feel to them.
fatriff2 years ago
Really good, I actually picked some buttercups the other day while out walking with my girlfriend, I collected enough to make a small bunch, I thought she would think it was a bit cheesy but she really liked it. I have gone into florists and said how much i'd like to spend and they have put something together for me which has worked out well so far, I have also bought online several times, last time it was V.Day and I must admit, I left it till the last minute on v.day as it was lunch time by the time i'd found somewhere! flowers-sameday.co.uk I think. When picking online I usually just go with what I think she might like which has worked so far but after reading the article above it never occurred to me before to consider the colour of her clothes when buying flowers.. It is something I will remember next time :p
bracicot4 years ago
Most people web search for "flowers" but I've learned after building a flower website ( http://bridgewaterflower.com ) that you need to be in search of a storefront flower and gift shop or you will end up getting caught in the conglomerate confusion and also paying more.
Quinnamon4 years ago
Btw girls love it when a guy picks them wildflowers, it's onething to buy them, but picking them especially fer her is even better. It's very romantic and thoughtful. But don't pick flowers from peoples yards unless you get the owner's okay. N' make sure there's no bugs/Arachnida/bees in the wildflowers, that would not go well with the receiver XP. Trust me I'm a girl, I know wat I like better.
mrfoltz5 years ago
 Yaah! I'd like to know why guys have to always buy the flowers, the diamonds, the meals....  Even if the guy makes less money??? Ever heard of Women's lib??? What if we changed it to them buying for us for a change.... I always say  "equal work for equal pays means YOU open the door and shell out sometimes".... It should be an "equal" relationship???
I also prefer a woman who will share equally in the relationship. To me, this shows her committment to work on the relationship. If she doesn't buy, she isn't committed.
You sound single.
Dear Mr.Fotlz,

I shall buy you pretty smelling pink flowers, some day, if you so wish.

If you're in a relationship that isn't equal giving [or you know, pretty decently matched to be healthy] than that's a problem of the relationship, not so much the single spectrum social situation of valentine gift giving.

Presumably, you'd agree, there's more to a gift and more ways to give a gift than through traditional monetary avenues.

Sorry i made that complicated, at first I only wanted to snarkly offer you flowers
 Why thank you...I like purple roses... but wait until after "V" they'll be half the price... lol
-chase- mrfoltz5 years ago
18 years together - hats off to you. And here i thought you were just crying like most guys about stuff about women... turned into an emotional wreck etc etc..

but witht this added statedment of assurtiveness - letting them know what color roses you like... i must retract my previous post...

But you weakened with your sale comment... Let Kinnishain know - You would like purple roses and hope they come in timem for V day...  if they come in time you know the relationship has a foundation... if they don't we'l  perhaps it's timem to move on.

But you don't need me to give advice - you've been with someone for 18years... between the two of you you must have one heck of a V-Day garden by now.

For moderate clarification,
I am not mrs.foltz.
Hey - that's between you and mr foltz.... ;0) my lips are sealed and I pass no judgments - and who am i to get in between a love triangle... especially when smelly purple roses are at stake.

♫ Love is int he air ... purple roses if you dare... ♫
mrfoltz -chase-5 years ago
 Hey I appreciate someone who can find a good deal and am willing to wait for sales.... "That" to me is a present in itself..... ANd no she's not Mrs. Foltz...just being nice...
-chase- mrfoltz5 years ago
LOL - yeah if they spend your money to get your present mrfoltz i can see why you don't mind waiting... ;0)

Well -  i'd say that pretty much seals the deal Kinnishian...
He's willing to wait - and you can spend his money getting his purple roses.

a match made right here on Instructables...
it's so cute... aaaawwwhh... ;0)

On a more serious note - i've got some loving  to tend to myself....so....

Happy V-Day to you and yours everyone.! ;0)
 Nope, I've been with the same wonderful person for 18 years now...
shaunak5 years ago
Just want to say a big thank you for this guide.
-chase-5 years ago
does a pack of seeds count ?
Those have their own meaning, which is a reference to the blending of two seed lines from two families joining. That exchange of seeds might be perceived as a subtle proposal for, Marriage. Are you certain you desire that level of commitment?

lol - Interesting analogy brentpiecznski - however since it is a "packet of seeds" which is many seeds in a confined area - not just one sole seed - ie: more than one in a contained area -  a group of seeds if you will. One could also percieve it as a subtle proposal for "group sex".

Perception would be as well dependant on the individual giver of packet of seeds personas. and how anilytical or over analytical the reciever is of the jesture.

any miss-perceptioon could easily be thrwarted by an additional token of say... a condom or ring... or a trowel and a bag of dirt.

Wouldn't you agree?
Azayles -chase-5 years ago
Or "I want to have lots and lots of children with you" lol
jet_ski -chase-5 years ago
 I'd be happy with that, would be better if it was a carrot!
-chase- jet_ski5 years ago

No carrots - just cucumbers... maybe that is why all my girls smile so much... hmmm...?

mrmath5 years ago
I know I'm late joining this party, but I've always just gone to the florist, told them what I need flowers for (a birthday, anniversary,....), if there is a color preference, and the date I need them.  It's always worked.  Maybe I just have a good florist. Or an understanding wife.
dilinger5 years ago
 Another tip: try to get pesticide-free flowers.  Cut flowers from places like mexico are notorious for having tons and tons of pesticides applied.  It's horrible for the workers who grow, cut, and process the flowers, and it's not particularly good for you to keep on your dining room table.


thepelton5 years ago
In the Victorian era, flowers could send a different message to the recipient just by their color and variety.  You wouldn't send Forget-me-nots to a girl if you intended to break up with her.
sheoguey6 years ago
Totally right on ALL counts!! Would someone send this to my DSH? The only thing I'd recommend is on step 2, suggestions for which flowers have special meanings... i.e. violets are beautiful and delicate... like the beginning of a relationship... that sort of thing. any ideas?
Nyxius sheoguey5 years ago
 Right on...
I also heard that there is a "Color Code" where the different color mean different things. (i.e. white - Purity, Red - Passion, Yellow - Innocence, etc)

Those three are the only ones I know, but I also know that there are a lot more.
merpius5 years ago
I think this step may not always be the best idea. One of the times I bought flowers for my wife, I removed the plastic (for the same reasons stated in this step) and arranged them in a simple vase. She was upset at me for taking them out of the plastic. Were she is from, if it is still int he plastic that is considered fancier than out of it.
Oh well, at least she was already married to me, so she couldn't just dump me for a BF who knew better.
m1middleton5 years ago
As a thought, the flowers are nice.  They'll not look so nice after a couple of weeks when they get thrown in the compost bin.  May not be as "romantic" for the first 6 months, but after that consider getting a plant in a nice pot (think around the same lines with colors, hobbies, etc.) that she can look at and think of you.  Or throw it at you during those special moments.
dylpirate5 years ago
 When ordering flowers, "Designer's Choice" is a good phrase to know if you aren't sure what you want. What this means is instead of a flower arrangement that is pictured on a website or in a flower book, you will get a custom and original arrangement from your florist.  Using this phrase with the florist makes you seem more knowledgeable and will often mean a nicer arrangement than you would otherwise get (it's also more fun for the florist to make so they will usually put more into it!).  However it does help to give them just a little direction such as color, general feel (ie: fun, silly, romantic...) and a price range.  Enjoy! 
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