Step 4: Tips Tricks and Notes

For Men 
Because you are not looking for a girlfriend doesn't mean that you shouldn't still be doing these things... A great confidence boosting technique that I use all the time, is to just walk up to a girl and compliment her and walk away after getting your response. 

Remember that the primary thing that the woman is looking for is confidence... this is the way that you carry yourself, the way that you talk to her, for her to think you are attractive, you must first know that YOUR attractive. Compliment baiting works well for women... not men.

Also remember.. there is a line between assertive and asshat don't cross the line... just be yourself.. just be a nice guy.. and call it the way it is. 

For Women
Guys for the most part don't like playing games... Mainly because you overestimate our intelligence. Guys are not that smart. Sorry. We don't want you to be easy.. but if you like us... giving us slightly-more-than subtle hints would be wonderful. 

Don't date a guy thinking that he will change... because we wont... both of your personalties WILL, however, assimilate into each other. However, a cheater is a cheater, he wont change... take it from me as a guy... we don't change. If you want to be with a guy who is a cheater, you better at least set up some type of open relationship until you both can settle down. 

For Everyone
This information really works, I do NOT get shut down by women.. While I am single, its because I moved out into the bush of Alaska... there are no women I am interested in. 

The only thing is you have to just do what it says... if you do not follow the guide... the guide doesn't work (crazy concept). 

Obviously this can be expanded, so if you want to provide more tips and tricks just put them in the comments and I will put them here.

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I'm in 7th grade and I like this girl, I have liked her for about 6 months and she knows but I get too nervous to talk to her. <br><br>Any help???
<p>well for me have no idea because I never have a girlfriend so anyway I need u guy help me to get a girl</p>
nothing worked for me so far.
&nbsp;Are you just going up and doing it, KNOWING she is going to say yes? Or are you over-analyzing the situation? You just have to be very personal and go up and say HI!<br /> <br /> It gets easier bud, as soon as you get it down...&nbsp;<br />
well, i did talk to several girls and none gave me their numbers.
well for me it would be just too creepy if a guy walks up to me and starts a conversation.
i look back at my comments i posted 2 years ago. i realise how socially akward i seem lol and yeah it is really random for someone to just walk up and talk if you dont know them. you kinda have to put yourself in a situation where its not so akward to just start &quot;talking&quot; to them
he did state earlier guys that you gotta look for a situation where the girl is to bored to care who she talks to lol ;)
My last Girlfriend broke up with me last Tuesday because and I quote &quot;I don't feel like having a boyfriend right now could we just be friends&quot; yet I still love her what do I do?
btw im only in the 7th grade
Ok Ok!!! The best thing to do is ask yourself if you are ready. You need to give yourself time to get to know her and for her to get to know you. Sometimes people rush into things and they find they are completely different people and don't like each other. If you are too scared to approach her when she's with friends, wait till she's alone. Just do what you think you should do.
join facebook's new dating site MingleArena.com
Facebook seems to establish their dating site as MingleArena.com
Davey you should check out <a href="http://howtoseduceawomann.com/" rel="nofollow">http://howtoseduceawomann.com/</a> you'll learn some crazy stuff about what women find most attractive.<br>
hey theres this girl at school i like im in year 7. she doenst really know me and she didnt go to my primary shool (secendary whatever you call it im aussie) word got around that i like her but im too nervous to ask her out. she isnt in any of my classes either. she might like me but im not sure and i REALLY dont want to ask her out around her friends. im WAY too nervous. im not a nerd but i havent had a girlfriend all year. please help me
I am just too squeemish to talk to a girl...
I think I'd rather be the lonely guy
WOW. if u want a girlfriend, just ask them out!!!
If the world the ratio of men to women is 1.1, why are you congratulating the men without a word for the women who would be the majority? <br /> And are you serious about &quot;near bathrooms&quot; as being a good pick-up spot?!<br /> And remember that getting <em>a</em> number may be a long way off getting <em>her phone number</em>...<br /> <br /> L
&nbsp;Because it means that the total is almost equal... and then taking into consideration the numbers of people who do not want to have relationships, number of gay men vs&nbsp;lesbian&nbsp;women, amount of men who don't have the courage to walk up to a woman and start talking, etc. &nbsp;by reading my guide and following it, there should be no reason that you don't wind up with a woman. Not only that... but as I said, in the United States and in the UK there are more women to men.<br /> <br /> I am serious about outside the bathrom to pickup women... &nbsp;As long as your not creepy about it, and you are legitimately waiting for a friend, or for something in the area. The woman does not WANT to stand out side the bathroom waiting for her friend... so by approaching her there, your chances of a successful &quot;hook&quot; (getting her to talk back to you) is higher.<br /> <br />
Ah right. Where I live women go into the bathroom together and talk to each other, they only wait outside when they're queuing (and that would not be a good time to try to chat to them)<br /> <br /> L<br />
&nbsp;&quot;Hey there cutie, I see that you are waiting to go to the bathroom, you use this bathroom often?&quot; :P<br /> <br /> ... umm no probably not a good idea.<br />
Well that made me laugh! Yes, over here women go to the bathroom in gangs, then they discuss people who have been approaching them in this way, or otherwise.<br /> <br /> L<br />
Oh I have had my fair share of women who run to the bathroom to gossip about me ;)
&nbsp;Also the point of this is to get you out talking to woman, HER number and A number in this case are the same, because eventually you *WILL* get a fake number (I can honestly say I have not, but its bound to happen)... but if you had the courage to talk to a woman, and look her in the eyes and tell her that she needs to give you her number... Then you have completed this instructable.&nbsp;

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