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Have you ever spotted a girl from across the room and wondered what you had to do to get her to go out with you? Maybe you sit by a great girl in one of your classes and just aren't sure how to progress with things. Have you had some unlucky breaks in the pass? Whether you've been out on a couple of dates but feel like you’re doing something wrong, or you’re trying to get that first ever first date, we can help you out! By following the five simple steps below and paying attention to what to do and what not to do, we can get you on a first date and have you well on your way to a second. You never know, these steps could even help you go on a date with the girl you’ll marry someday!

Step 1: Gauge Her Interest

The first step is to gauge her interest. Did she notice you when you walked in the door? Did she make eye contact with you and smile? Positive expressions such as laughter, smiling, and open body language are great indicators that she is interested in you. If she seems annoyed, busy, or closed off, chances are you should leave her alone and wait for another girl to come along. If she’s always trying to find a reason to talk to you then this is good news!! Why else would an A student ask you for help on a math problem? She’s interested in you! Now we can move onto step 2 and get to know her a little bit better.
<p>Well this girl work for me on reception, she seems interested in me. The other day she gave me a hug. She also scratched my head once. I do not want to lose her as employee but I want to be with her. She has a boy friend and I have a wife. My wife is sleeping in other room for last 4 years and there is no intimacy. I am willing to leave my wife for this girl. This girl is only 22 and know that I am very well off. How should I proceed ?</p>
I have a big crush on this boy and I accidently made him think I'm super mean but I do think he kinda likes me how can I ask him out ps I'm a girl and I think this is super sweet
Most of the time a guy will say yes if he seems to show any sort of affection towards you go for it but you have to be careful
I'm also thinking about asking her to the Halloween dance but I have to be fast because there is another guy who likes her
Oh and I forgot to mention we talk pretty much as well but I don't have the guts to ask her out
I am in a terrible situation I really like this girl but I don't know if she likes me.we have been friends since preschool and now we're in grade 7 and I want to ask her out but she is always hanging out with other guys, please give me advice
I am in such a bad situation i like a girl and i want to ask her out but my bestfriend wants to aswell
I am in the worst situation right now because i want to ask this girl out and im to nervous but theres also a twist if i dont ask the girl out in a little bit a kid named logan might ask here out
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<p>Hi guys i am currently in 9th grade and i like a girl who is in 10th what should i do</p>
<p>hi guys, I need help because iam still in primary school in yr4 and this girl likes me and I like her back and I want to ask her out on a date! What should I do?</p>
<p>Go for it bro</p>
<p>Ask her out</p>
<p>Hello, I'm currently in high school this girl i know is in year ten and we see each other every day i am really shy but i REALLY REALLY like this girl what should i do?</p>
<p>Just do it, you have absolutely nothing to lose. email me if you need to talk. milesnicholson98@gmail.com </p>
<p>There is this girl i have know for work for a month. I have been recently just been talking to her alot for the past week. She says im funny and I make her laugh alot. I want to ask her out on a date but maybe one week is pushing it. Im scared to ask girls out because i asked one time and got denied. Soooo i dont want to get denied. Maybe im over reacting but i am terrified. I love her but i dont know if she would like me back Im not that bad looking i dont think.</p>
So there's this girl on Twitter that I know well and she tweeted &quot;I want to go on a date to the zoo ?&quot; What should I say or how should I approach her?
<p>How do you get a girl on her own to ask her? She always seems to have one or other of her girlfriends with her</p>
I have a crush on this girl that i sit next to in ss and i am planning on asking her out tommarow what should i say ? ( were in fifth grade)
<p>First up, I'm a girl, and I think this is super sweet. As a matter of fact, I'd say all of my friends would think it's sweet too. I think the concept of getting to know a girl is great because then she knows that the guy likes who she is as well as what she looks like. Personally, I think it's important to date a girl in person because it can wear down on the couple if they can't see each other. Another thing to all the guys out there who are afraid to ask a girl out, have courage! It speaks a lot for a guy to man-up and face possible rejection, and good girls will recognize it. Good luck you guys!</p>
So I went to a Super Bowl party at one of my dads friends(let's just call him bill) house that he's known for a really long time and bill's daughter has had a boyfriend for quite awhile that I'm not sure if they just broke up or not. But during half time me and my cousin went to play darts and foosball and her and her sister followed us out and we decided to play a game of foosball so me and my cousin were on a team and her and her sister. She kept bragging she was really good and I'm also pretty good too so my cousin and her sister decided to let us play offense while they played defense. As we were playing she kept trying to shoot the ball by me but I kept blocking it(for the most part) and when I did she gave me this look like she was maybe impressed at how good I was or something. Me and my cousin ended up losing cause he sucks (lol) so she was kinda teasing about it. So we all decided to play darts and when I went up to throw she kept giving me the same look that was like a half smirk with a tad bit of wonder in it. I ended up winning and we went back inside to finish watching the game and we really didn't talk that much because I'm a tad bit shy and her and my family was in there watching. Also right after my dad was in a rush to get out so we left pretty fast and I didn't get a chance to talk to her. So I added her on Facebook later that night and was trying to figure out if I should message her or not. I keep thinking it's kinda weird because we're a little different (shes more into country stuff and I'm more into rap/hip-hop culture). Another thing is that she's about 2 years older then me (I'm 19 and she's 21). What do y'all think should I go for it? Our parents are really good friends and I don't want it to be weird when we see each other. If y'all think it's a good idea any tips on what I should say?
<p>Just thought id let you know to be careful with facebook chat for stuff like that. ive had really bad luck in the past with it. If you can connect in person always choose that method, im a shy guy too but its worth the effort. Like today i met a girl at the gym.. MAYBE i'd try finding her on facebook if i don't run into her for a couple weeks... and even then it owuld just be to see her schedule to meet up at the gym again. So i say go for it 100 percent but do it in person. </p>
<p>Addendum:</p><p>If you're (young and) inexperienced in the dating game, then <em>practice</em> is helpful. Before taking the plunge and asking a girl out, do a dry run or two with a sympathetic older female -- a sister, an aunt, or (horrors!) even your mother. This is a good way to get past the jitters and improve your technique.</p>
Hey guys honestly i have been thinking on how to go on with these. I just found a girl my heart beat for. When she's not there i can't breaths, i don't want to ask her out and turn me down. What do i do
<p>If I were you, tell her how you feel. If she doesn't like you then just be friends, and try to engage interests then she may think again about saying &quot;no&quot;. If she says yes then I would ask for her number and get to know her for about a week, and see how things are going. If it goes well, ask her out. If its akaward between you guys, then just wait a few more weeks until she &quot;warms up to you&quot;. hope this helped :)</p>
<p>so I need help! There's this girl that I like and am fairly certain she likes me but I'm not so sure. The problem here is I will see here at college every day for the next 3 years so if I as her out and she says no then there's that awkward tension between us the rest of our time at college. What do I do? </p>
<p>I would wait until the end of the collage class then if she says no you dont have to see her again, but if she says yes then ask for her number or ask when you guys could meet. hope this wasn't too late :)</p>
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Theres this girl on our school she is cute and she stares at me sometimes but im shy to ask her out and I dont know if she has a boyfriend any advice?
<p>Ask her if she is in a relationship, if so, ask to be friends, if not go for it.</p>
Their is this one girl I knew since 4th grade and we r best friends show should I ask her out or just be freinds
I would go for it the worst thing she could is say no but most girls like confidence so yes you should
There is this girl I liked since 6th grade but now we're at different schools should I ask her out over the phone or go for someone else?
<p>Hey everyone, I like this girl in my class but I don't how to ask her out cause i'm shy and she hangs out with a lot of guys but I like her a lot and I need Help.</p>
Hey guys, so there's a new girl that just moved in next door and when ever she sees me she lightly insults me (something like &quot;oh hey stupid&quot;) and I don't know if that's good or bad. I've never had a girlfriend before and I get nervous is this insults thing good or bad? thanks, Ethan
<p>sometimes its good</p>
<p>I'd start saving for an engagement ring if I were you..........</p>
Good sometimes
I have a cute girl in my program and I'm going to ask her out. I'm really nervous cause this is my first girlfriend. I have 1 day till I ask her, any more tips?
<p>Be confident and don't pause between words or talk to fadt </p>
<p>fast*</p>
She's not your girlfriend. If she hasn't said yes
I have a girlfriend but I tried giving her a gift and she just walked away can someone tell me why that happens
<p>Maybe she isn't interested anymore, or didn't like the present, idk man some girls can be hard to figure out</p>
It's probably just a little embarrassing for her
Women are like that sometimes, my friends and I have had that happen before

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