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Have you ever spotted a girl from across the room and wondered what you had to do to get her to go out with you? Maybe you sit by a great girl in one of your classes and just aren't sure how to progress with things. Have you had some unlucky breaks in the pass? Whether you've been out on a couple of dates but feel like you’re doing something wrong, or you’re trying to get that first ever first date, we can help you out! By following the five simple steps below and paying attention to what to do and what not to do, we can get you on a first date and have you well on your way to a second. You never know, these steps could even help you go on a date with the girl you’ll marry someday!

Step 1: Gauge Her Interest

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The first step is to gauge her interest. Did she notice you when you walked in the door? Did she make eye contact with you and smile? Positive expressions such as laughter, smiling, and open body language are great indicators that she is interested in you. If she seems annoyed, busy, or closed off, chances are you should leave her alone and wait for another girl to come along. If she’s always trying to find a reason to talk to you then this is good news!! Why else would an A student ask you for help on a math problem? She’s interested in you! Now we can move onto step 2 and get to know her a little bit better.
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tboy02021 month ago
I have a cute girl in my program and I'm going to ask her out. I'm really nervous cause this is my first girlfriend. I have 1 day till I ask her, any more tips?
Ejcrusher3 months ago
Hey guys, so there's a new girl that just moved in next door and when ever she sees me she lightly insults me (something like "oh hey stupid") and I don't know if that's good or bad. I've never had a girlfriend before and I get nervous is this insults thing good or bad? thanks, Ethan
Good sometimes
WhateverH1 month ago

Very wise article, I fully agree. Just do be kind and patient, make small steps to conquer her. Love takes no hurries, it's for patient and thoughtful people. Nice guys are just the type to find real love! You may find many lonely hearts, friends, dates and years may pass till you chose the one among them. Just don't give up, be cheerful, communicate easily, be open-minded, talk on Tinder, https://kovla.com/datings/us/dover/, MeetUp, be forever young! And may God help you! Good luck!

AngelaCook2 months ago

I've been looking so a useful articel like this. All men should learn from this!

SilasH2 months ago

Im very happy

SilasH2 months ago

I did it and the girl said yes

ScottZ43 months ago
So i have know this girl for awile and i really like her but i dont know if she really likes me back
lleyton05 ScottZ42 months ago
Have somone on the inside that u trust and ur crush trusts
trav8973 months ago

I would just be yourself

DanielC195 months ago

Asking her out on last day of school

Very good idea, this technique almost always works

Does it...here I sit wondering why I never really said anything and now that the last day of school is tomorrow...I feel that I might have just screwed myself out of something wonderful.

Alanshkop5 months ago
I have a girlfriend but I tried giving her a gift and she just walked away can someone tell me why that happens
Women are like that sometimes, my friends and I have had that happen before
WREPIC4 months ago
Hi, I just got a love note that actually says "I Love You", I just dont know if I just need to build up my courage or what, I just need help on asking her out. Thanks in advance☺
bulusemmanuel4 months ago

Hi guys, i met a girl online in my city, i asked her out on a date and she said she's doubtful on going out, what does that mean and what should i say?

i think you are too embarrased by this question!=) It's easier, than you think=) If girl likes you, that it doesn't matter all this "tips"/ I think guestion must be not " how to ask her out" , but " how to make a girl like you" !! I'm use one dating site https://kovla.com/datings/us/columbus

and i like one guy there, but he didn't ask me to go out yet. And i can say, that if we asked me , i wouldn't care about many aspects. So the main issue is to hit it off! So don't be so unsure=) Just do it!!))

Hey I got a girl to kiss me and so yeah. How I did it I just invited her over to a movie and we ended up playing spin the bottle and I set rules who gets the bottle gets to pick between kiss or sexual relation I kept picking 2
Treknology2 years ago
"If she doesn't say no, then that must mean she said yes!"

In today's world, that's a big reach.

"Remember when you asked me out, and I said I would rather be found dead in a ditch? Well, tonight I find myself unexpectedly free, and there are no convenient ditches nearby, so would you like to meet for coffee?"

I enjoyed reading your i'ble and find both it and the comments, an interesting overview on how society is changing.

My own advice to people is don't stop yourself with the thought, "s/he's way out of my league and would never go out with someone like me." There are many nice and lovely people left out in the cold because everyone else thinks the same thing! The worst answer you can get for asking is, "No."
Well, "no" then she goes off and tells everybody that you hit on her (then adds in whatever to make you sound creepy) and to avoid you. In turn you end up looking like a fool to everyone just because you took a risk with one. (Yes, I've had this happen a couple times.)
well that may have happend because of the fact you havent got to know her enough try and compare yourself to them and sooner or later you will be able to just tell if they are gonna say no or yes to you
I don't understand what you mean by "compare". Trying to get to know someone just results in being "just friends". Even in getting to know them, it is impossible to just be able to devine a no or yes without asking....with usually just weirds them out.
Gadget93 Gadget936 months ago
...which usually...
Haha so true ive done it twice:(
I'm just saying that the particular thought alone should not be enough to stop you. As detailed elsewhere, there may be other evidence that puts a person off your "potential" list. If s/he has already made someone else look like a creepy fool, then you know that person isn't even desirable.
loveyomom91116 months ago

i just got dumped over a text gonna curl up and die in a corner

No worries mate, you'll come to terms with it over time. I just got out of a tough breakup for a year-long relationship. Watch some comedy shows and think of it as a chance to step back and take stock in life.
marcell208 months ago
1. Compliment them
2.start conversation of trending topic
3. Get name
4.tell her how You feel
5.ask her out
Wessyboy8 months ago
Step 1: Akwardly stare across rooms at her, breathing loudly. Look away whenever she looks at you.
Step 2: Attempt to ask her out, but instead get nervous and mumble gibberish. Change the subject to the weather.
Step 3: Go home and cry in your bedroom, telling yourself that "I was too cool for her anyways".
Step 4: Pretend it never happened, listen to Linkin Park all night and pretend that it doesn't even matter in the end.
Step 5: Repeat the following day.
This is how I have landed all of my girlfriends (all none of them), hope it helps you too!
sconner12 years ago
One: don't ask them out.
If they get a whiff of you're interest, they'll cast you aside or keep you wrapped around her pinky as an obedient pet she uses to impress other girls.

Two:Treat all girls like you don't care, let them seek you out.
But don't be an easy catch. Nothing makes a girl want something more than the fact that it can't be gotten.

Three: When you finally "let her go out with you" treat her like you're killing time until something better comes along. nothing keeps a girl like feelings of inadequacy and fear of losing the unattainable.
ChelsieS sconner110 months ago

You don't get laid a lot, do you?

QuentinS ChelsieS8 months ago

haa they must not lmao. dis guy right here all the time. #confidence

i get the feeling you like to try new things and that makes me feel comfortable and at ease.

ok that's why we girl's cry don't do that. don't overthink it just go 4 it

QuentinS8 months ago

this site is pathetic beyond reasoning. I have never once asked a girl out and I have ad 8 gf through out my high school career. you all make things sound so difficult, and tell people to go do this stuff you say and they get rejected. for real let them be themselves and just pop the question and get it done with

FranciscoW9 months ago

you make it sound so easy...

ElijahF19 months ago

This doesn't make that much since i just talk to them and i don't want to push her away from her friends... i just ask her its just a question.

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