How to French Kiss by asyrith
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Ahh, the French Kiss...The timeless symbol of romantic passion that we all have seen two people engaging in, one way or another. We see it in movies, hear about it from friends, see it happening at parties, and read about it in books and magazines. Chances are, if you haven't experienced it, you want to. It is an exciting and intimate moment between two people who are attracted enough to each other to kiss. French kissing can come quite naturally to some of us, and can intimidate the rest.

If you are interested in French kissing, I also highly recommend the Intructables on the site How to Kiss and How to Make Out. Both are very informative and helpful to those curious about kissing and hit all the topics that should be addressed. Not sure how to kiss? Well, French kissing shares many of the same principles as normal kissing and making out as far as technique, but if you are interested in gaging body language or how to work up to a French kiss, take a look around.

In this Instructable, I aim to focus on the French Kiss alone. The French kiss is not a science, but rather an art that is open to interpretation for all who are interested. There is a certain amount of skill involved, but it is mostly instinct that will come naturally with time. By creating this Instructable, I hope to help you be a confident, compassionate, French kisser and alleviate your nervousness about kissing.
 
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Step 1: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

There are some standards of things that are fairly constant across the board that I will go in to depth about. The definition of a French kiss, as defined by wikipedia, is "a passionate romantic or sexual kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the other's tongue (or lips) and usually enters his/her mouth." Well, I think we all knew that much, so I hope to be able to teach how to French kiss well. We have all heard horror stories about "bad kissers" and obviously do not want to be labeled as such. Read on to find some "Do's" and "Don'ts" of French kissing.

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rapt0r30 says: Apr 9, 2013. 9:07 AM
i first french kissed when i was in grade 2 and it's my favorite now so to all those people who don't use this style you should try it!
Bleumoonx says: Mar 26, 2013. 10:18 AM
I find that me and my boyfriend are fridgits (shy to do anything), we've done the basic hug and hold hands but we haven't kissed yet. When I'm with my friends I say that I will kiss him the next time I see him but when I'm with him, it all changes I just don't have the guts to kiss him. It's been three months now and he knows I want to kiss him and I know he wants to kiss me too, please give me some answers and tips on this I find this really difficult xx
maz^_^ says: Mar 11, 2009. 4:17 PM
ooh mii lipz look juzt like dat
i muzt have gewd lips
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atleast datz wat iv been told
_ :) ;)
ElectroFlex says: Aug 3, 2012. 2:33 PM
You need to kiss a dictionary
joceyruiz98 says: Feb 15, 2013. 1:30 PM
XD LOL
InsaneReality says: Dec 22, 2011. 5:34 PM
you need to learn to spell.
jasonator001 says: Mar 8, 2012. 4:09 PM
you funny man
that make me laugh
emmiwulf says: Jan 2, 2013. 1:49 AM
Im a 13 yr old 7th grade girl and I know you think I'm to young but whatever. my first relationship is what I have now...we've been together for a year now and no kisses. she's terrified about being bullied about her sexuality (bi) so we keep our relationship a secret. I'm completely out with people, everyone in school knows I'm lez but no one knows she's bi. so I wanna kiss her soon and was wondering if anyone had some tips on how to kiss my girlfriend for the first time without the entire school knowing......
joceyruiz98 says: Feb 15, 2013. 1:29 PM
Don't worry. You aren't young. And this is coming from a 15 y.o.
joceyruiz98 says: Feb 15, 2013. 1:28 PM
I'm 15 and I want to know how to kiss. I'm not bothered by the fact that I have never kissed a guy, but I just want to know how to so that my first time isn't a sloppy mess haha. I'm the only girl in my house and out of my friends who hasn't kissed a guy yet. (I don't want to do it out of pressure btw) I need help :3
leah_babee says: Jan 23, 2013. 8:09 PM
ok so well im 11 years old and like i still havent kissed anyone yet:/ most of my friends have already kissed, even french kissed and i dont just wanna kiss some random guy... plus at my school theres not a lot of cute guys besides 8th graders and ohmygawd is this one guy cute:]
weezygirl says: Oct 7, 2012. 12:18 AM
Is it wrong to ask a guy friend, whom I am not interested in, to practice kissing because I just know i'me going to mess it up somehow. how should i ask and how close should we be? should it be a lifelong friend that might develop feelings or has had feelings years ago? or a new friend? i guess i've always had a fantacy about this, but is that normal?
country girl6999 says: Dec 23, 2012. 3:47 AM
no i dont think so any way just make sure u no who u r kissig and if u end up likeing them then go for it!
country girl6999 says: Dec 23, 2012. 3:45 AM
hey im 13 and i kissed a boy well made out with a boy befor it was with this realy hot guy last summer who was my ex boyfriends cuz we broke up 2 year befor thoe, but i dont think i did very god but maby be cauze he wanted me to spen the night with him and a fer other guys and i would of but my mom woulnt let me i was camping in my yard w 2 other friends and there were 3 guys we told them wee might smeak out and hag later if they come get us or txt us.......best summer eva!
epicfail! says: Sep 29, 2012. 11:15 PM
16 and never kissed a bloke or a chick XD
LET IT SHINE says: Mar 2, 2012. 3:46 PM
Heeey everyone,

Last night I went to a grade 9-12 dance, Im in grade 9, ive never gone out with anyone as such and ive never kissed anyone.

2 of my friends have gone out with people and kissed. last night they kept kissing random guys who they dont even know the name of within 10 seconds. Then all at once 3 of my friends were making out and i mean making out! there was lots of tongue and it lasted at least 25 seconds.

I feel like all my friends are growing up faster than me because a few boys asked me if I would like to dance, i said yes and then he started leaning in for the kiss, and i turned around and pretty much RAN out the door, i feel really embarrassed but I havent had my first kiss yet... I guesss what Im trying to ask is, I should just wait for a nice guy right... rather than just kissing a random to fit in??

And if that guy that tried to kiss me just happens to be reading this I'm Sooooooo sorry, im REALLY embarrassed x 10 000!!!

Thankyou for listening to me blab on :)
jgarcia039 says: May 14, 2012. 6:49 PM
damnnnn broo i had my first kiss in like 4th grade ^.^
im 5th now and i have french kissed a boy b4 and it was more then once,and it isnt scary at all just go with the flow,and a simple kiss its the same go with the flow :)
sheema2009 says: Mar 8, 2012. 9:06 AM
Aw, your still young. I didnt have my first real kiss until I was 17. Dont rush it. Take you time and when the time is right youll know. To be nervous is okay.
LET IT SHINE says: Mar 9, 2012. 7:58 PM
thankyou! I feel much better now :) I'll just be a kid for as long as I can :)

brek says: Feb 28, 2012. 1:31 PM
i'm sixteen and my first kiss was a week before my 16th b-day the boy who kissed me was someone who i really liked and have a lot of feelings for its best to wait until you're ready...I was nervous but he made me comfortable by asking me to let him into my space and kiss my cheek and when he gradually kissed me until we kissed on the mouth it was something that made me very comfortable with him.Don't do anything you aren't sure about it took me three weeks to let him kiss me.
Ms.Packers says: Mar 1, 2012. 7:22 PM
I am 11 turing 12 and my first kiss was when i was 10 and just this year i had a french kiss with the boy and love and crush of my life he is like the best person in my life and i am noly 11 he is soo nice and its not the scarey we frist did it in front of everyone in our school and we wernt scared and being in 6th grade is hard but i can alwasy count on my boyfriend for being there and my parents dont even know i am dating someone let alone have french kissed!!!
jgarcia039 says: May 14, 2012. 6:50 PM
me to ^.^ but i just turned 11 this year but my first kiss was wen i was 10 in 4th grade
jasonator001 says: Mar 8, 2012. 4:04 PM
hey this is you father. who is this boy your dating. iwill destroy him if he touches you on anyway shape or form.
JKJKJKjkjkjk
sheema2009 says: Mar 8, 2012. 9:08 AM
Slow ya roll. You shouldnt even be on the internet let alone kissing. SLOW DOWN!
mahi13 says: May 13, 2012. 9:21 PM
hey i m juxt 16 but i ve kissed once :D
but after sme while i stated badd i felt likee k i shouldnt have done smething lyk dis :(
lalaluppsy says: Jan 26, 2012. 7:41 PM
Okayy im 12 and i never kissed a guy like french kiss but i have kissed a guy like a peeck how can i actually have a guy look at meeh and ask me out so i can french kiss? plz answer something?!
lalajulisg says: May 6, 2012. 4:41 PM
At 12 years old most guys dont french kiss. they just "make out" or peek. when you make out at 12 its like kissing over and over but never leaving the persons lips it doesnt . if your guy is old than he'll guide you in a way.
lalajulisg says: May 6, 2012. 4:43 PM
okay i just really messed that up a little. heres what i ment to say "At 12 years old most guys dont french kiss. they just "make out" or peek. when you make out at 12 its like kissing over and over but never leaving the persons lips, its not as scary as french kissing.if your guy is old than he'll guide you in a way."
HaNnAh_FeEnEy says: Apr 6, 2012. 12:26 AM
well im only 15 and i always use this technique.
reverse siychology or how eva u spell it anyway i flirt with the guy for about a week then i stop nd start flirting with another guy. thats always how i findout if they like me nd if they come running bak then u rapp them around ur finger until they ask u out

have fun xx <3
YellowBlu Co. says: Mar 12, 2012. 7:56 PM
Slow down, and wait for the right moment. You're still too young. Enjoy your childhood.
SupremeAT says: Apr 2, 2012. 2:10 PM
I have the urge now to write an instructable for overall kissing dating etc. because I probably have made out and kissed quite few times and I have away with relationships an such. the funny part is....I'm only 14 :D But keep trying.
latifah17 says: Mar 16, 2012. 1:46 PM
I am 17 and i never kiss a boy b4
sswanzy says: Sep 24, 2011. 12:21 PM
am 18 and have never ever kissed a gal !
YellowBlu Co. says: Mar 12, 2012. 7:55 PM
You are now my IDOL!
meowcat says: Feb 11, 2012. 10:46 AM
wow

jasonator001 says: Mar 8, 2012. 4:24 PM
what the f***
i wasnt expecting to see this today
X.ILoveeYoou.X says: Nov 12, 2010. 12:40 PM
I am 13 an haven't had my first kiss yet. There is one boy who knows I haven't and he said he can make it different, but I am really nervous as I don't know how to do it :S Please help.
meowcat says: Feb 11, 2012. 10:47 AM
same here
pmalepe says: Aug 6, 2011. 11:09 PM
hey.. im Palesa im also 13 turning 14 soon.. i havent done it yet but i have had so so so many chances to .. but i want it 2 be special but im nervous.. so have u done it yet
tetheredcat says: May 17, 2011. 10:43 AM
If you're that nervous about it, you probably aren't ready yet.. take your time and stop stressing. It's supposed to be fun. and if you're worried, then it won't be!
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