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Ahh, the French kiss . . . a timeless expression of romantic passion that we have all seen others engage in. We see it in movies, hear friends (or the people they are dating) wax anxious about their technique, catch glimpses at parties, and read tips in books and magazines. A French kiss is an exciting and intimate moment between two people who are attracted to one another, and a symbol of that passion. Chances are, boy or girl, if you haven't yet experienced a French kiss, your lips long to.

Not sure how to kiss? Well, French kissing shares many of the same principles and techniques as normal kissing and making out, so be sure to also check out the Instructables How to Kiss and How to Make Out. Both are very informative and helpful to those curious about kissing, and both touch on all the topics that should be addressed. But if you are just interested in learning about French kissing and you want to know how to gage body language and work up to kissing that involves the tongue, then you’re in the right place! In this Instructable I will focus on the French kiss alone.

The French kiss is not a science, it is an art that is open to the interpretation of all who partake. It comes naturally to some of us but is intimidating to others, and while there is a certain amount of skill involved, it is mostly instinct that will develop naturally with time.

By creating this Instructable, I hope to help you become a confident, compassionate, French kisser and to alleviate your nervousness about kissing — and possibly to improve your experience! All I ask is that you try to be safe by making sure you are healthy before you start kissing. Your partner won’t appreciate it if you get them sick.

Don’t be left with just a peck on the cheek. Read on to learn how to be forward and go for it!

 
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maz^_^6 years ago
WOW dat lewks sow ROMANTIC<3 but dat soo dont happen knoe more itz more like kissin in tha hallwayz when yu pazz em' tew go tew yur next clazz (not exactly wat i consider romantic)
zzoella maz^_^1 year ago

Pardon me, but I believe that there's a book that would help you out. It's called the dictionary. One can find it in most libraries.

lol this kid must not know english

Mr-lonely4 months ago
I'm 14 about to be 15 on July 30 of this yr I'm "popular" or cool or whatever people say but I still have not kissed a girl I still have trouble talking to a girl any suggestions?????
How can you be "popular" and you dont know how to talk to girls... Lol :p
Hey man i know exactly how u feel ... Just be confident thats all
Just be your self and if a girl likes that then flirt a little. Get to knkw her and if you like her you could tell her in peraon,messaging,facebook or in a written note. Sometimes girls think its cute when a guy is shy. Just be yourself and you should be fine. :)
Katexxm Mr-lonely4 months ago
Ok so a bunch of adults will probably be like don't worry it will be all natural and stuff like that but being a girl around your age all I can say is I find it slit more attractive when a guy come over and say hi or something. Just one major tip if a girl asks you wuu2 or Wyd answer then ask her back ? seems obvious but so many guys don't do that and the conversations just get boring for the girl

Essa é a maldita coisa mais estúpida que eu já vi aqui!

BoHoChick2 months ago
Well try not to laugh...but I'm a 62 yr old Great Grandmother so needless to say, I've got a whole lot of kissing under my belt! That didn't come out right...sorry. I've read every comment and have a few of my own. Most of you are still very young and are way too young to be so concerned about kissing to begin with...but I understand, you are curiosus and probably very anxious to be 'all grown up', so naturally you want to act grown up too.

In a matter of just a few years you WILL be grown up and there's no turning back, then, within another few yrs you'll be dreaming of the good old days when you were a kid! Don't believe me? Well, imagine waking up every day for the next 50 plus years to a job you have to keep and a half dozen credit cards and a house to pay off, Rent, utilities, a mate to consider, Medical bills, car payments and car repair bills, and children of your own who want to be and try to be 'all grown up'. And trust me, that was the SHORT list!

Take your time, enjoy your youth while you have it.. FRENCH kissing almost always leads to more intimate behavior you may not be ready for but engage in anyway because you want to be popular, or your girl/boyfriend will 'leave you' if you don't etc. Remember, boys have been dreaming of 'sex' since they were about 7...and your 'kisses' stir up feelings in him that he won't know what to do with, so it's really not fair to him to get him all worked up just to send him away wanting. And guys...girls have been dreaming of 'Being in love and being loved' since they were about 7.... it is likewise unfair to them to tell them you love them if you don't...and at your age, trust me, you don't! Look around, ask questions...how many people can you find who were 'in love' at 12 or 13 and are now 40 and still together.?. because that is love! Being in it for the long haul. I know I know...you probably stopped reading after the first few sentences and a good laugh at the OLD Lady...and I think at your age I would have too. But I hope that's not the case, because believe it or not...I really do care about you.

Comme vous avez raison.... que la vie passe vite.

Its true that we boys ask for sex and you girls ask for love, but then ofcourse both of them (sex and love) fall under the same category which is emotion, so remember that we are simply satisfying one another and there's nothing wrong about its... As long as you know your lLIMITS.
Of course much of what you say is correct, but ''as long as you know your limis'', well...therein lies the rub. Although teen pregnancies have gone down over the past ten years, there are still far too many...an indicator that a very many do NOT know their limits..get caught up in the moment, or rely on birth control which at best is only 99% effective..that other 1% could occur the FIRST time. Satisfying one another in ways that can not result in pregnancy is best of course, yet even that can be probmatic...teens have the highest growing rate of gonorrhoea of the throat..(thank you President Clinton, for saying oral sex is NOT sex)...it is. In fact anything that results in orgasm can be considered sex.
My advise was based on experience and the wisdom that comes with age...as well as a genuine concern for your futures and well being... take it or leave it. That's fine too.
SusanH8 BoHoChick2 months ago
U are very wise thank u for ur advice I wish I would have had it b4 I went to touge with my bf
BoHoChick SusanH82 months ago
Susan, I replied to your comment, but I entered it as a new comment in error... thank you for your words..they are much appreciated. Please read my latest comment to see my reply to you.
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Im a sad kinda human, I read all of that and I may only be 15 but I completely agree with you, when I read that I was like woah eye opener, I just finished my yr ten exams and now am awaiting yr eleven, but I am so much more mature than I was expecting when I was 13 and this time does fly by, I know im banging on but I agree with your entire point so much because I had to grow up fast when my mum got ill, ive never "fallen in love" and now I have and i wanna do it right, but what you said made me realise that if I mess up its not the end of the world and i can carry on living, thankyou so much xxx
Thank you Hunnybee22 (adorable name):-)
It's true, life goes on in spite of the mistakes we make...I'm proof. I gave birth to my first son just a few months after my 16th birthday. If I had it to do over...for HIS sake, I would have waited until I was mature.
One thing I hear young people say again and again is, (and yes, I said it myself)...'' I want to make my OWN mistakes!'' Take the words ''my own'' out of it and what you are left saying is ''I want to make mistakes!''
....it's an absurd statement when you think about it...when the real trick...the mature trick is...NOT to make mistakes to begin with. Those who follow that path are the happy people later in life. There can be no greater satisfaction than to live a life of no regret... the feeling of ''guilt'' is the hardest feeling to live with...it leads to most suicides.. it robs us of our ''JOY''.
So, again I urge you..take the experiences of those who have gone before you...learn from THEIR mistakes, choose a better course for you.. and Bee happy!
BryanB53 months ago

Don't Do Things Your Way, God Knows The Right One For you... Its already happening to those who have been saved "but don't act in religion but as a relationship with Jesus" so erase that from your heart ... (its excuses to not to accept Jesus into our heart)

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aripent BryanB51 month ago
Don't go around the internet trying to spread your religious beliefs unsolicited. That's just being am ashore
Beckie_taken4 months ago
Okay I'm 14 and I've already kissed m boyfreind but he wants to French... Idk what to do. This helps but what if I mess it up?
Just take it easy girl!! And also, you might be ready for sex if you are ready for the French kiss, all you have to do it ask. Can we have sex??? Take advice from this 34 year old woman
Really.... U think she is ready for sex.... Shame on you for telling young ppl to have sex... Thats dumb....
oh girly I know how you feel. but take it slow, Hon. French kissing may seem interesting, but be safe.
BoHoChick2 months ago
One other thing.. Susan, it's never too late until it's too late. If you would rather not continue doing something with your bf, then stop.. He'll survive.
harold20003 months ago
Alright, I have been dating my girlfriend for three months and fourteen days now, and we are kissing on a regular basis. I feel like I am ready to take this step and take our relationship to the next level, and I feel like she is sending off vibes that she is ready too. The only problem is that I don't know how to go about taking this major step. Any suggestions?
Go with it if you both sending the same vibes it will be chilled because the feeling is mutual and it means both of you are ready to take this next step and you're both ready to tackle the problems on the way to the top
And also I'm 13 - Mara ek het nie seun om te lief nie - I still watch adventure time
Kenziek13803 months ago
All these 12 year olds already kissed someone and I haven't even had a bf ? like bishh whet
Eish - the struggle is real ?✊?
Lol
MissyM2 months ago
Hi, im 13 but i had my first kiss at 10. I have never french kissed anyone in my life but my 14 year old boyfriend has gone all the way before.. We've been dating for almost a month and im scared he will want to french kiss me.. Anyone have any suggestions?
Izzy Sykes MissyM2 months ago
Yeah im a guy but susan is right he will do most work just like anything else when it comes to physical activities but never to much tounge just a lil because to much tounge can feel gross and once you get a feel for a lil tounge just continue to go more little by little until the guy falls in love with your kiss just dont go to far good luck
SusanH8 MissyM2 months ago
Hey Ik it can be nerve wracking I'm 13 to and also have a 13 year old boyfriend who had kissed other girls and I hadn't ever kissed a boy and we kissed once and then we French kissed all u really have to do is stick u tounge into his mouth he'll do the rest
BoHoChick2 months ago
Oh...and Ccarthur... coming online and announcing personal information (City and State), as well as what may be your name C. Carthur, and advertising that you are interested in ''Anyone out there'' to be a girlfriend to is VERY irresponsible and DANGEROUS! There's a world of old perverts surfing the web 24/7 seeking 13. Yr old lonely girls...they pretend to be 14 or 15 yr old boys to gain more personal info, then next thing you know your face appears on a milk carton or store bullitin board. I can only hope you are really an undercover Vice Officer putting out bait in an attempt at catching one of those sick B's!!!
And to the author of this Ible...Very well written! The. Pictures were great too and you added just the right amount of humor... WELL DONE!
BoHoChick2 months ago
Oh...and Ccarthur... coming online and announcing personal information (City and State), as well as what may be your name C. Carthur, and advertising that you are interested in ''Anyone out there'' to be a girlfriend to is VERY irresponsible and DANGEROUS! There's a world of old perverts surfing the web 24/7 seeking 13. Yr old lonely girls...they pretend to be 14 or 15 yr old boys to gain more personal info, then next thing you know your face appears on a milk carton or store bullitin board. I can only hope you are really an undercover Vice Officer putting out bait in an attempt at catching one of those sick B's!!!
And to the author of this Ible...Very well written! The. Pictures were great too and you added just the right amount of humor... WELL DONE!
BoHoChick2 months ago
Oh...and Ccarthur... coming online and announcing personal information (City and State), as well as what may be your name C. Carthur, and advertising that you are interested in ''Anyone out there'' to be a girlfriend to is VERY irresponsible and DANGEROUS! There's a world of old perverts surfing the web 24/7 seeking 13. Yr old lonely girls...they pretend to be 14 or 15 yr old boys to gain more personal info, then next thing you know your face appears on a milk carton or store bullitin board. I can only hope you are really an undercover Vice Officer putting out bait in an attempt at catching one of those sick B's!!!
BoHoChick2 months ago
Oh...and Ccarthur... coming online and announcing personal information (City and State), as well as what may be your name C. Carthur, and advertising that you are interested in ''Anyone out there'' to be a girlfriend to is VERY irresponsible and DANGEROUS! There's a world of old perverts surfing the web 24/7 seeking 13. Yr old lonely girls...they pretend to be 14 or 15 yr old boys to gain more personal info, then next thing you know your face appears on a milk carton or store bullitin board. I can only hope you are really an undercover Vice Officer putting out bait in an attempt at catching one of those sick B's!!!
Ccarthur3 months ago
I'm 11 I've kissed a boy with a lil tongue but not much I live in Sebastopol Mississippi does anyone need a girlfriend I like guys older than me or same age
BryanB53 months ago
Heroes3214 months ago
What happens if you mess up I'm only 13 and my boyfriend wants to French kiss and I'm a very nervous person and if I mess up he will probably break up with me?
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