Ahh, the French kiss . . . a timeless expression of romantic passion that we have all seen others engage in. We see it in movies, hear friends (or the people they are dating) wax anxious about their technique, catch glimpses at parties, and read tips in books and magazines. A French kiss is an exciting and intimate moment between two people who are attracted to one another, and a symbol of that passion. Chances are, boy or girl, if you haven't yet experienced a French kiss, your lips long to.

Not sure how to kiss? Well, French kissing shares many of the same principles and techniques as normal kissing and making out, so be sure to also check out the Instructables How to Kiss and How to Make Out. Both are very informative and helpful to those curious about kissing, and both touch on all the topics that should be addressed. But if you are just interested in learning about French kissing and you want to know how to gage body language and work up to kissing that involves the tongue, then you’re in the right place! In this Instructable I will focus on the French kiss alone.

The French kiss is not a science, it is an art that is open to the interpretation of all who partake. It comes naturally to some of us but is intimidating to others, and while there is a certain amount of skill involved, it is mostly instinct that will develop naturally with time.

By creating this Instructable, I hope to help you become a confident, compassionate, French kisser and to alleviate your nervousness about kissing — and possibly to improve your experience! All I ask is that you try to be safe by making sure you are healthy before you start kissing. Your partner won’t appreciate it if you get them sick.

Don’t be left with just a peck on the cheek. Read on to learn how to be forward and go for it!

Step 1: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

There are some standards of things that are fairly constant across the board that I will go in to depth about. The definition of a French kiss, as defined by wikipedia, is "a passionate romantic or sexual kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the other's tongue (or lips) and usually enters his/her mouth." Well, I think we all knew that much, so I hope to be able to teach how to French kiss well. We have all heard horror stories about "bad kissers" and obviously do not want to be labeled as such. Read on to find some "Do's" and "Don'ts" of French kissing.

My first kiss is going to be a French kiss with my girlfreind on Tuesday and I'm 11 years old
<p>In my county we call this kissing. I remember back in the day, when i was a young lad, on the prowl. Looking for my love. I had known her since i was young and we had our first kiss at 16. Unfortunately, she moved away soon after and I have spent 10 years of my life searching for my one true love. I can't get this girl out of my head. If anyone has any information on Bonnie Scotswomen, Please contact me at HotFrenchStuff996@French.de. Thanks for taking your time to read my sad sad story, please don't feel depressed, Peace and love &lt;3 Bonjour my lads. </p>
<p>OMG HOT FRENCH STUFF! Is it really you? i remember those days, skating at the beach, hanging out with our friend on the front porch, i remember when you took me to go see blink 182 and you didn't let me go the entire time. I remember the time you beat the guy up when he said that green day were a better band. I loved getting pizza with you in the shape of a heart. That was the best summer of my life and I've wanted to search for you for ages but you never gave me your last name. At long last, we can be together again, forever and always &lt;3 </p>
<p>OMFG too young too young</p>
Bro you my homie make sure you go slow tho don't go right in the French kissing
Good luck :3
Im almost 13 and i only had my first kiss today
<p>21 y old and never kiss &amp; love making with girl.because im live in iran</p><p>in iran Going out with girl is illegal and police Arrested us.</p><p>f#ck to my life .im 21 and not young</p>
<p>i love you and me too منم </p>
<p>i love you and me too منم </p>
<p>try going out of city where no one can see</p><p>n just arrange few bucks to bribe polize</p><p>thats it</p><p>bst of luck bro</p>
Dude that sucks wish you best of luck on that :)
I am 13, my boyfriend Is 16... He is my friends brother (she set us up) well she gave me his Facebook name and we started talking a lot, then we fell in love... He is really shy but he said I'm the only person he really talks to or opens up to... But sometimes I force him not to be shy and tell me what he's thinking. And well he wants to kiss when we hang out next weekend (and cuddle) but idk if he just wants to kiss or make out or French kiss or what... I'm really deeply in love with him and idk what to do, and I don't wanna ruin our relationship... Any advice?
<p>n bst of luck</p>
<p>u can directly ask for frnch kiss </p><p>thats nt a prblm wid a boy</p><p>even if he iz feeling shy he will accept yr kiss</p>
I'm 14 about to be 15 on July 30 of this yr I'm &quot;popular&quot; or cool or whatever people say but I still have not kissed a girl I still have trouble talking to a girl any suggestions?????
<p>ur country ?<br>family and country is so significant to help my country is really....:(</p>
Be calm, and don't freak out <br>Mr-lonely
<p>Hey man, listen i just became 15 but trust me, im an expert in these stuff, ive been 3 months with the perfect girlfriend, and trust me its worth waiting. To find a girl you have to wait for her to come, or at least spot her looking at you in a silly way. But if your desperate, dont choose the HOTTEST girk in your class cz they might be barbies and take your money without u noticing (happened with a friend of mine), and dont choose the ugliest girl or youll be a laughing stock at school. Look for a normal girl, not to barbie-ish or ugly, bur a pretty one and become friends with her after some time if you liked her personality and how she thinks and you liked her then ask her out if she doesnt have a boyfriend, but ask her face to face so it would have a more romantic meaning. If she accepts then youd have a girlfriend. To know if she is the perfect one, you will have a feeling that you dont like her anymore or you have arguments a lot of them. And you will think of the future with her. But always remember to be yourself and dont be someone your not.</p>
<p>Hey, don't worry about it! My current boyfriend and I had our first kiss when I was 14 and he was 15 (almost 16).</p><p>Don't hurry yourself to kiss someone or even get in a relationship for that matter. The right person will definitely come along and they'll be worth the wait (trust me, I know from experience)</p>
Talk to a girl make sure she likes you and if you like her back just simply ask her out
How can you be &quot;popular&quot; and you dont know how to talk to girls... Lol :p
Hey man i know exactly how u feel ... Just be confident thats all
Just be your self and if a girl likes that then flirt a little. Get to knkw her and if you like her you could tell her in peraon,messaging,facebook or in a written note. Sometimes girls think its cute when a guy is shy. Just be yourself and you should be fine. :)
Ok so a bunch of adults will probably be like don't worry it will be all natural and stuff like that but being a girl around your age all I can say is I find it slit more attractive when a guy come over and say hi or something. Just one major tip if a girl asks you wuu2 or Wyd answer then ask her back ? seems obvious but so many guys don't do that and the conversations just get boring for the girl
<p>Me and this guy in school really like eatchother but were not going out cause he is in my cousins class. We kissed normally a couple of times and it was?. But whenever he asks me to meet him i always back down and get too scared </p><p>Is there anything to help me ASAP?</p>
If he wants to see u don't get sacred that should be a good sign
<p>Awesome instructions. I loved it! It was broken down magnificently into 10 easy steps. And it really helped me since I have kissed my boyfriend a few times and was really ready to take it to the next level, but I had never french-kissed before! I read this and instantly I felt like I could do it! Thank You! Keep 'em coming</p>
15 goin on 16, girlfriends never been kissed before... Shes had a thing for me a while now and i had too and we didnt realize we had the hots for each other, i would like to try a normal lip kiss but i dont know how she would react. Shes freshmen 14 yrs and never dated or any of it.. Im confused, not trying to rush in to anything with her but i just dont know how to go about it due to her never being kissed.
I'm 15. And, I haven't had my first kiss yet. I do have crushes, and there's this one boy that I really like but, I don't know if he likes me back. But, any way, even though I don't have a boyfriend. I want to know how to kiss when that time comes. Cause, if I don't know how to that would look bad. That's what I'm afraid of, when I kiss a boy and the kiss i horrible on my part.
Hi, ESV04.<br>I was in the same boat as you at 14 and I was freaking out. What I learnt is that you need to be calm dont get all flustered and freak out. Make sure your first kiss is with someone you want it to be with. And as long as your calm, ready and the person your kiss is going to be with is calm and ready then you will not be bad and you will get better and more comfortable at kissing as you go along in life.<br>Hope I helped<br>Xx
Last year i was crazy about a guy in school and finally he likes me. So this year we kissed and tbh it was really good . He would always text me and send me little love qoutes every day and he would always say that he loved me. But the worst part was he was in my cousins class and my cousin would tell my mom so i could never go out with him. Only last week i found out that he didnt like me anymore and i was heartbroken. Yesterday he asked me would i meet him and i havent replied back what should i do??
<p>hey man ill be 15 in march and im a guy just dont rush it me and her were cuddling i asked here what she would do if i kissed her she said i dont know lets find out so then i was happy it happened last night too and me and her are like best friend and last night was when i had my first kiss so yeah let it just happen dont rush it you'll find the one bro</p>
Hey I am a 12 year old kid. I already had my first kiss and I wanted to french kiss her. I was wondering should I do it or should I wait. I really wanted her to tell her that she loved me in person but I only get text messages. What I mean by that
<p>Tbh at 12 I wouldn't be too fussed about French kissing. Just take your time.</p><p>Also if you want her to say that she loves you in person, try saying it first. She'll probably say it back :)</p>
<p>girls love it when you run your fingers lightly thought their hair, and do not grab her ass. We don't like that, but hold where her ribs are we think it's sexy and like it.</p>
Yo I'm 13 just try taking it easy the first time and let your girlfriend ajust to how you kiss and you ajust to how she kisses
Hey am 12 and I just had my first kiss and it was a peck. The next day my boyfriend said he wanted me to give him a French kiss him but I am nervous and scared
<p>If you don't want to French kiss him, then don't. If he forces you then he clearly doesn't respect your boundaries and you should probably have a serious discussion with him or leave him altogether. Only do what you're comfortable with doing</p>
So I want to French kiss my girlfriend but I haven't asked her yet so when we go on our next private date should I ask her if we could French kiss or should I do it cause I am worried that if we just do it she won't French kiss me<br>
<p>Definitely ask her! If you feel comfortable enough to ask, then you're probably ready. Make sure she's comfortable with it too. Have fun</p>
I'm 13 and I want to French kiss but I am so nervous about it, I feel like I will mess up, does anyone have any tips that will help me?
<p>My advice, in all honesty, is just don't rush it. Build up to it with your partner and make sure you discuss it before you just stick your tongue in their mouth. If you find it too awkward to discuss, you should probably wait.</p><p>Also, I find it's something that just comes naturally. You figure it out as you go along and no one can really teach you, but make sure you're gentle. Good luck :)</p>
Honestly the main things for me to have an amazing kiss is <br>1. Grab my waist and pull me slowly to you<br>2. Look at my eyes then my lips and bite your lip<br>4. Rub your hand on my face<br>5. Kiss me slowly
<p>hands on the arse always works too</p>
<p>Honesty, a lot of girls don't like that. Instead grab where her ribs are. It'll turn us on..</p>
<p>My first kiss was behind a toolshed SOOO romantic</p>
ok my boyfriend wants me to kiss him and i do! its just that ...well i have never kiss someone before and im kinda of nervous :/ any help on wat to do???
Don't be nervous! Here's a good thing to know: First kisses are ALWAYS awkward. That perfect romantic-comedy movie kiss never happens. So just keep positive, and you'll get better. If he's a good guy, he'll still like you. And if he doesn't, dump him!
<p>not if its a random at a disco ;)</p>