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How to French Kiss

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Ahh, the French Kiss...The timeless symbol of romantic passion that we all have seen two people engaging in, one way or another. We see it in movies, hear about it from friends, see it happening at parties, and read about it in books and magazines. Chances are, if you haven't experienced it, you want to. It is an exciting and intimate moment between two people who are attracted enough to each other to kiss. French kissing can come quite naturally to some of us, and can intimidate the rest.

If you are interested in French kissing, I also highly recommend the Intructables on the site How to Kiss and How to Make Out. Both are very informative and helpful to those curious about kissing and hit all the topics that should be addressed. Not sure how to kiss? Well, French kissing shares many of the same principles as normal kissing and making out as far as technique, but if you are interested in gaging body language or how to work up to a French kiss, take a look around.

In this Instructable, I aim to focus on the French Kiss alone. The French kiss is not a science, but rather an art that is open to interpretation for all who are interested. There is a certain amount of skill involved, but it is mostly instinct that will come naturally with time. By creating this Instructable, I hope to help you be a confident, compassionate, French kisser and alleviate your nervousness about kissing.
 
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hey this is you father. who is this boy your dating. iwill destroy him if he touches you on anyway shape or form.
JKJKJKjkjkjk
Slow ya roll. You shouldnt even be on the internet let alone kissing. SLOW DOWN!
Heeey everyone,

Last night I went to a grade 9-12 dance, Im in grade 9, ive never gone out with anyone as such and ive never kissed anyone.

2 of my friends have gone out with people and kissed. last night they kept kissing random guys who they dont even know the name of within 10 seconds. Then all at once 3 of my friends were making out and i mean making out! there was lots of tongue and it lasted at least 25 seconds.

I feel like all my friends are growing up faster than me because a few boys asked me if I would like to dance, i said yes and then he started leaning in for the kiss, and i turned around and pretty much RAN out the door, i feel really embarrassed but I havent had my first kiss yet... I guesss what Im trying to ask is, I should just wait for a nice guy right... rather than just kissing a random to fit in??

And if that guy that tried to kiss me just happens to be reading this I'm Sooooooo sorry, im REALLY embarrassed x 10 000!!!

Thankyou for listening to me blab on :)
damnnnn broo i had my first kiss in like 4th grade ^.^
im 5th now and i have french kissed a boy b4 and it was more then once,and it isnt scary at all just go with the flow,and a simple kiss its the same go with the flow :)
Aw, your still young. I didnt have my first real kiss until I was 17. Dont rush it. Take you time and when the time is right youll know. To be nervous is okay.
thankyou! I feel much better now :) I'll just be a kid for as long as I can :)

mahi131 year ago
hey i m juxt 16 but i ve kissed once :D
but after sme while i stated badd i felt likee k i shouldnt have done smething lyk dis :(
lalaluppsy2 years ago
Okayy im 12 and i never kissed a guy like french kiss but i have kissed a guy like a peeck how can i actually have a guy look at meeh and ask me out so i can french kiss? plz answer something?!
At 12 years old most guys dont french kiss. they just "make out" or peek. when you make out at 12 its like kissing over and over but never leaving the persons lips it doesnt . if your guy is old than he'll guide you in a way.
okay i just really messed that up a little. heres what i ment to say "At 12 years old most guys dont french kiss. they just "make out" or peek. when you make out at 12 its like kissing over and over but never leaving the persons lips, its not as scary as french kissing.if your guy is old than he'll guide you in a way."
well im only 15 and i always use this technique.
reverse siychology or how eva u spell it anyway i flirt with the guy for about a week then i stop nd start flirting with another guy. thats always how i findout if they like me nd if they come running bak then u rapp them around ur finger until they ask u out

have fun xx <3
Slow down, and wait for the right moment. You're still too young. Enjoy your childhood.
SupremeAT2 years ago
I have the urge now to write an instructable for overall kissing dating etc. because I probably have made out and kissed quite few times and I have away with relationships an such. the funny part is....I'm only 14 :D But keep trying.
latifah172 years ago
I am 17 and i never kiss a boy b4
sswanzy2 years ago
am 18 and have never ever kissed a gal !
You are now my IDOL!
meowcat sswanzy2 years ago
wow

what the f***
i wasnt expecting to see this today
I am 13 an haven't had my first kiss yet. There is one boy who knows I haven't and he said he can make it different, but I am really nervous as I don't know how to do it :S Please help.
same here
hey.. im Palesa im also 13 turning 14 soon.. i havent done it yet but i have had so so so many chances to .. but i want it 2 be special but im nervous.. so have u done it yet
If you're that nervous about it, you probably aren't ready yet.. take your time and stop stressing. It's supposed to be fun. and if you're worried, then it won't be!
Its ok im only 11 and I've had my first kiss its not hard and not embarrassing that u haven't had it yet. you really dont pucker u just touch lips the first time.
xPandalovex2 years ago
so im not sure what snogged is..but! im like 13 and i have kissed plenty of guys. im not to young in my book. i have kissed them on the mouth, cheek and french kissed. some have been very akward, slimy, bad, and rarely awesome. but according to these guys my lips are so soft they are mushy. ;o
your lips are never mushy i havent kissed a guy well like french kiss!
taraaaa2 years ago
okayy,,im 16 and ive never kissed a guy before but the other night i kissed a guy who is older so he has kissed a lot of girls and im worried that he may have thought the kiss was bad,,he must have been comparing me to the other girls he kissed! also,,when i kissed him he immediatly started putting the tongue in and i did the same so our tongues were like forced together,,,how do i prevent this from happening again?! what are you supposed to do if both of us are pushing our tongues out?!?!
SSSSSSooooooooooooooo, would anyone suggest french kissing a 13 year old girlfriend for the first time??
Pera Bozic2 years ago
I am 21, and I have never kiss a girl. So...
Don't be like 'i'm 21 and i haven't had my first kiss yet' The best comes to the ones who wait! You'll know when its the right time, and it'll be the best. When your young, you can be silly, and kiss anyone, and its not that nice, but when your older, you know who you really love, and it will be the best first kiss ever!:) I wish i waited till i was older:/
kitty02362 years ago
Don't be like 'i'm 21 and i haven't had my first kiss yet' The best comes to the ones who wait! You'll know when its the right time, and it'll be the best. When your young, you can be silly, and kiss anyone, and its not that nice, but when your older, you know who you really love, and it will be the best first kiss ever!:) I wish i waited till i was older:/
im in sixth grade and i have never kissed a guy and almost all of my friends have i feel like the young one who never does anything social
leecopp102 years ago
I found it hard to learn how to french kiss, til i found this post thanks, but if you want to learn how to seduce at the same time check this out i found!
sfancov2 years ago
you know kiss second communication between lovers you can take it easy without
violation ways or in embarrassing ways .... but i think she is cute female hhhhhh
lgloria2 years ago
i was bit conscious about the kiss but your ice cream idea really help me out.. in dos and donts during the kiss
gverma12 years ago
again many thanks to you for posting steps by step guide.
your article is really informative.However i was looking out for French Kissing Videos. and i found here on this site. French Kiss Guide.
i am engaged. and want to try this on my partner. let see how it goes ;) . wish me luck. :)
rdobski2 years ago
Hah im not braggin at all,i had my first kiss when i was 11,which wasnt too long ago,see it was just like a kiss a simple one.
The reason why im not bragging is because it was at school.I wanted it to be more romantic like a second stage kinda kiss or third,I mean my first kiss is by the guy i love,and he loves me to death,hes promised every single way,so theres this fair soon so.. i have to try and get his lips locked on mine.. :)
pmalepe2 years ago
people im 14 soon i havent done it yet,, i want it 2 be extremly speacial.. theres this boy Devon his in grade 11 dammit his good looking i want 2 do with him but not sure
NotYou112 years ago
okayyy so having your first kiss isnt even weird jus dnt kiss in some awkward place..for example kissing at the movies is the best place. thats where i had my first kiss n yes it was a french kiss jus make sure that the dude knows how to!
jc20103 years ago
ok my boyfriend wants me to kiss him and i do! its just that ...well i have never kiss someone before and im kinda of nervous :/ any help on wat to do???
bstanger jc20102 years ago
Don't be nervous! Here's a good thing to know: First kisses are ALWAYS awkward. That perfect romantic-comedy movie kiss never happens. So just keep positive, and you'll get better. If he's a good guy, he'll still like you. And if he doesn't, dump him!
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