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How to French Kiss

How to French Kiss
Ahh, the French Kiss...The timeless symbol of romantic passion that we all have seen two people engaging in, one way or another. We see it in movies, hear about it from friends, see it happening at parties, and read about it in books and magazines. Chances are, if you haven't experienced it, you want to. It is an exciting and intimate moment between two people who are attracted enough to each other to kiss. French kissing can come quite naturally to some of us, and can intimidate the rest.

If you are interested in French kissing, I also highly recommend the Intructables on the site How to Kiss and How to Make Out. Both are very informative and helpful to those curious about kissing and hit all the topics that should be addressed. Not sure how to kiss? Well, French kissing shares many of the same principles as normal kissing and making out as far as technique, but if you are interested in gaging body language or how to work up to a French kiss, take a look around.

In this Instructable, I aim to focus on the French Kiss alone. The French kiss is not a science, but rather an art that is open to interpretation for all who are interested. There is a certain amount of skill involved, but it is mostly instinct that will come naturally with time. By creating this Instructable, I hope to help you be a confident, compassionate, French kisser and alleviate your nervousness about kissing.
 
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Step 1The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
There are some standards of things that are fairly constant across the board that I will go in to depth about. The definition of a French kiss, as defined by wikipedia, is "a passionate romantic or sexual kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the other's tongue (or lips) and usually enters his/her mouth." Well, I think we all knew that much, so I hope to be able to teach how to French kiss well. We have all heard horror stories about "bad kissers" and obviously do not want to be labeled as such. Read on to find some "Do's" and "Don'ts" of French kissing.

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Feb 28, 2012. 1:31 PMbrek says:
i'm sixteen and my first kiss was a week before my 16th b-day the boy who kissed me was someone who i really liked and have a lot of feelings for its best to wait until you're ready...I was nervous but he made me comfortable by asking me to let him into my space and kiss my cheek and when he gradually kissed me until we kissed on the mouth it was something that made me very comfortable with him.Don't do anything you aren't sure about it took me three weeks to let him kiss me.
Mar 1, 2012. 7:22 PMMs.Packers says:
I am 11 turing 12 and my first kiss was when i was 10 and just this year i had a french kiss with the boy and love and crush of my life he is like the best person in my life and i am noly 11 he is soo nice and its not the scarey we frist did it in front of everyone in our school and we wernt scared and being in 6th grade is hard but i can alwasy count on my boyfriend for being there and my parents dont even know i am dating someone let alone have french kissed!!!
May 14, 2012. 6:50 PMjgarcia039 says:
me to ^.^ but i just turned 11 this year but my first kiss was wen i was 10 in 4th grade
Mar 8, 2012. 4:04 PMjasonator001 says:
hey this is you father. who is this boy your dating. iwill destroy him if he touches you on anyway shape or form.
JKJKJKjkjkjk
Mar 8, 2012. 9:08 AMsheema2009 says:
Slow ya roll. You shouldnt even be on the internet let alone kissing. SLOW DOWN!
Mar 2, 2012. 3:46 PMLET IT SHINE says:
Heeey everyone,

Last night I went to a grade 9-12 dance, Im in grade 9, ive never gone out with anyone as such and ive never kissed anyone.

2 of my friends have gone out with people and kissed. last night they kept kissing random guys who they dont even know the name of within 10 seconds. Then all at once 3 of my friends were making out and i mean making out! there was lots of tongue and it lasted at least 25 seconds.

I feel like all my friends are growing up faster than me because a few boys asked me if I would like to dance, i said yes and then he started leaning in for the kiss, and i turned around and pretty much RAN out the door, i feel really embarrassed but I havent had my first kiss yet... I guesss what Im trying to ask is, I should just wait for a nice guy right... rather than just kissing a random to fit in??

And if that guy that tried to kiss me just happens to be reading this I'm Sooooooo sorry, im REALLY embarrassed x 10 000!!!

Thankyou for listening to me blab on :)
May 14, 2012. 6:49 PMjgarcia039 says:
damnnnn broo i had my first kiss in like 4th grade ^.^
im 5th now and i have french kissed a boy b4 and it was more then once,and it isnt scary at all just go with the flow,and a simple kiss its the same go with the flow :)
Mar 8, 2012. 9:06 AMsheema2009 says:
Aw, your still young. I didnt have my first real kiss until I was 17. Dont rush it. Take you time and when the time is right youll know. To be nervous is okay.
Mar 9, 2012. 7:58 PMLET IT SHINE says:
thankyou! I feel much better now :) I'll just be a kid for as long as I can :)

May 13, 2012. 9:21 PMmahi13 says:
hey i m juxt 16 but i ve kissed once :D
but after sme while i stated badd i felt likee k i shouldnt have done smething lyk dis :(
Jan 26, 2012. 7:41 PMlalaluppsy says:
Okayy im 12 and i never kissed a guy like french kiss but i have kissed a guy like a peeck how can i actually have a guy look at meeh and ask me out so i can french kiss? plz answer something?!
May 6, 2012. 4:41 PMlalajulisg says:
At 12 years old most guys dont french kiss. they just "make out" or peek. when you make out at 12 its like kissing over and over but never leaving the persons lips it doesnt . if your guy is old than he'll guide you in a way.
May 6, 2012. 4:43 PMlalajulisg says:
okay i just really messed that up a little. heres what i ment to say "At 12 years old most guys dont french kiss. they just "make out" or peek. when you make out at 12 its like kissing over and over but never leaving the persons lips, its not as scary as french kissing.if your guy is old than he'll guide you in a way."
Apr 6, 2012. 12:26 AMHaNnAh_FeEnEy says:
well im only 15 and i always use this technique.
reverse siychology or how eva u spell it anyway i flirt with the guy for about a week then i stop nd start flirting with another guy. thats always how i findout if they like me nd if they come running bak then u rapp them around ur finger until they ask u out

have fun xx <3
Mar 12, 2012. 7:56 PMPinksalamander says:
Slow down, and wait for the right moment. You're still too young. Enjoy your childhood.
Apr 2, 2012. 2:10 PMSupremeAT says:
I have the urge now to write an instructable for overall kissing dating etc. because I probably have made out and kissed quite few times and I have away with relationships an such. the funny part is....I'm only 14 :D But keep trying.
Mar 16, 2012. 1:46 PMlatifah17 says:
I am 17 and i never kiss a boy b4
Sep 24, 2011. 12:21 PMsswanzy says:
am 18 and have never ever kissed a gal !
Mar 12, 2012. 7:55 PMPinksalamander says:
You are now my IDOL!
Feb 11, 2012. 10:46 AMmeowcat says:
wow

Mar 8, 2012. 4:24 PMjasonator001 says:
what the f***
i wasnt expecting to see this today
Mar 11, 2009. 4:17 PMmaz^_^ says:
ooh mii lipz look juzt like dat
i muzt have gewd lips
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atleast datz wat iv been told
_ :) ;)
Dec 22, 2011. 5:34 PMInsaneReality says:
you need to learn to spell.
Mar 8, 2012. 4:09 PMjasonator001 says:
you funny man
that make me laugh
Nov 12, 2010. 12:40 PMX.ILoveeYoou.X says:
I am 13 an haven't had my first kiss yet. There is one boy who knows I haven't and he said he can make it different, but I am really nervous as I don't know how to do it :S Please help.
Feb 11, 2012. 10:47 AMmeowcat says:
same here
Aug 6, 2011. 11:09 PMpmalepe says:
hey.. im Palesa im also 13 turning 14 soon.. i havent done it yet but i have had so so so many chances to .. but i want it 2 be special but im nervous.. so have u done it yet
May 17, 2011. 10:43 AMtetheredcat says:
If you're that nervous about it, you probably aren't ready yet.. take your time and stop stressing. It's supposed to be fun. and if you're worried, then it won't be!
Apr 4, 2011. 5:36 PMederusha says:
Its ok im only 11 and I've had my first kiss its not hard and not embarrassing that u haven't had it yet. you really dont pucker u just touch lips the first time.
Jan 9, 2012. 1:51 PMxPandalovex says:
so im not sure what snogged is..but! im like 13 and i have kissed plenty of guys. im not to young in my book. i have kissed them on the mouth, cheek and french kissed. some have been very akward, slimy, bad, and rarely awesome. but according to these guys my lips are so soft they are mushy. ;o
Jan 26, 2012. 7:43 PMlalaluppsy says:
your lips are never mushy i havent kissed a guy well like french kiss!
Jan 4, 2012. 11:22 AMtaraaaa says:
okayy,,im 16 and ive never kissed a guy before but the other night i kissed a guy who is older so he has kissed a lot of girls and im worried that he may have thought the kiss was bad,,he must have been comparing me to the other girls he kissed! also,,when i kissed him he immediatly started putting the tongue in and i did the same so our tongues were like forced together,,,how do i prevent this from happening again?! what are you supposed to do if both of us are pushing our tongues out?!?!
Dec 21, 2011. 12:29 AMInstructable04 says:
SSSSSSooooooooooooooo, would anyone suggest french kissing a 13 year old girlfriend for the first time??
Oct 8, 2011. 3:28 PMPera Bozic says:
I am 21, and I have never kiss a girl. So...
Dec 10, 2011. 9:20 AMkitty0236 says:
Don't be like 'i'm 21 and i haven't had my first kiss yet' The best comes to the ones who wait! You'll know when its the right time, and it'll be the best. When your young, you can be silly, and kiss anyone, and its not that nice, but when your older, you know who you really love, and it will be the best first kiss ever!:) I wish i waited till i was older:/
Dec 10, 2011. 9:20 AMkitty0236 says:
Don't be like 'i'm 21 and i haven't had my first kiss yet' The best comes to the ones who wait! You'll know when its the right time, and it'll be the best. When your young, you can be silly, and kiss anyone, and its not that nice, but when your older, you know who you really love, and it will be the best first kiss ever!:) I wish i waited till i was older:/
Nov 28, 2011. 2:16 PMshortywillruletheworld says:
im in sixth grade and i have never kissed a guy and almost all of my friends have i feel like the young one who never does anything social
Sep 28, 2009. 11:40 AMxPaRaMoRE.RoCKeR.T_Tx says:
lol im onle 12 and iv already snogged 2 boys xD
im not even that popular!
its weird cuz the most popular cutest boy in my year loves me like
crazy
and we go out xD
everyone is so jealous C;
im so lucky.
hopefully im gonna french kiss him like this tomoz
so
wish me luck!! :D lol
p.s. dont say im too young
Nov 4, 2011. 5:28 PMautumn_hardin says:
SWEET! i snogged a girl >.<
Jun 29, 2010. 7:27 AMprincessrad111 says:
;A; im 13 and i never kissed a guy..
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