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Step 7: An open mouth kiss

By now, you and your partner are probably both gingerly touching each other with your tongues. If you are both comfortable, feel free to explore each other's mouths with your tongues. Keep in mind that it's always better to do a little bit at a time to get a feel for it. Remember to occasionally pull your tongue into your own mouth so you do not bombard your partner. Small, exploring French kisses are what you want for the moment.

Swallow your saliva. French kisses are bound to get a little messy, but control it as much as you can by swallowing your saliva. If you can't do this while kissing, do it when you are giving your partner a short break from the French kiss. This should be a short, momentary break and you should continue to be engaged with your hands.

Continue exploring each other's mouths. Keep a soft tongue. For most people, it is a major turn off to feel a ridged tongue in their mouth. It isn't welcoming or sensual in any way. Remember that your tongue is one of the most sensitive parts on your body and should be kissed as such. Think of licking ice cream from a soft-serve cone. You don't want a lot of pressure. Just enough to lick a small layer of ice cream off. That is the same thing to think about when kissing.

Im almost 13 and i only had my first kiss today
My first kiss is going to be a French kiss with my girlfreind on Tuesday and I'm 11 years old
<p>OMFG too young too young</p>
Bro you my homie make sure you go slow tho don't go right in the French kissing
Good luck :3
<p>21 y old and never kiss &amp; love making with girl.because im live in iran</p><p>in iran Going out with girl is illegal and police Arrested us.</p><p>f#ck to my life .im 21 and not young</p>
<p>i love you and me too منم </p>
<p>i love you and me too منم </p>
<p>try going out of city where no one can see</p><p>n just arrange few bucks to bribe polize</p><p>thats it</p><p>bst of luck bro</p>
Dude that sucks wish you best of luck on that :)
I am 13, my boyfriend Is 16... He is my friends brother (she set us up) well she gave me his Facebook name and we started talking a lot, then we fell in love... He is really shy but he said I'm the only person he really talks to or opens up to... But sometimes I force him not to be shy and tell me what he's thinking. And well he wants to kiss when we hang out next weekend (and cuddle) but idk if he just wants to kiss or make out or French kiss or what... I'm really deeply in love with him and idk what to do, and I don't wanna ruin our relationship... Any advice?
<p>n bst of luck</p>
<p>u can directly ask for frnch kiss </p><p>thats nt a prblm wid a boy</p><p>even if he iz feeling shy he will accept yr kiss</p>
I'm 14 about to be 15 on July 30 of this yr I'm &quot;popular&quot; or cool or whatever people say but I still have not kissed a girl I still have trouble talking to a girl any suggestions?????
<p>ur country ?<br>family and country is so significant to help my country is really....:(</p>
Be calm, and don't freak out <br>Mr-lonely
<p>Hey man, listen i just became 15 but trust me, im an expert in these stuff, ive been 3 months with the perfect girlfriend, and trust me its worth waiting. To find a girl you have to wait for her to come, or at least spot her looking at you in a silly way. But if your desperate, dont choose the HOTTEST girk in your class cz they might be barbies and take your money without u noticing (happened with a friend of mine), and dont choose the ugliest girl or youll be a laughing stock at school. Look for a normal girl, not to barbie-ish or ugly, bur a pretty one and become friends with her after some time if you liked her personality and how she thinks and you liked her then ask her out if she doesnt have a boyfriend, but ask her face to face so it would have a more romantic meaning. If she accepts then youd have a girlfriend. To know if she is the perfect one, you will have a feeling that you dont like her anymore or you have arguments a lot of them. And you will think of the future with her. But always remember to be yourself and dont be someone your not.</p>
<p>Hey, don't worry about it! My current boyfriend and I had our first kiss when I was 14 and he was 15 (almost 16).</p><p>Don't hurry yourself to kiss someone or even get in a relationship for that matter. The right person will definitely come along and they'll be worth the wait (trust me, I know from experience)</p>
Talk to a girl make sure she likes you and if you like her back just simply ask her out
How can you be &quot;popular&quot; and you dont know how to talk to girls... Lol :p
Hey man i know exactly how u feel ... Just be confident thats all
Just be your self and if a girl likes that then flirt a little. Get to knkw her and if you like her you could tell her in peraon,messaging,facebook or in a written note. Sometimes girls think its cute when a guy is shy. Just be yourself and you should be fine. :)
Ok so a bunch of adults will probably be like don't worry it will be all natural and stuff like that but being a girl around your age all I can say is I find it slit more attractive when a guy come over and say hi or something. Just one major tip if a girl asks you wuu2 or Wyd answer then ask her back ? seems obvious but so many guys don't do that and the conversations just get boring for the girl
<p>Me and this guy in school really like eatchother but were not going out cause he is in my cousins class. We kissed normally a couple of times and it was?. But whenever he asks me to meet him i always back down and get too scared </p><p>Is there anything to help me ASAP?</p>
If he wants to see u don't get sacred that should be a good sign
<p>Awesome instructions. I loved it! It was broken down magnificently into 10 easy steps. And it really helped me since I have kissed my boyfriend a few times and was really ready to take it to the next level, but I had never french-kissed before! I read this and instantly I felt like I could do it! Thank You! Keep 'em coming</p>
15 goin on 16, girlfriends never been kissed before... Shes had a thing for me a while now and i had too and we didnt realize we had the hots for each other, i would like to try a normal lip kiss but i dont know how she would react. Shes freshmen 14 yrs and never dated or any of it.. Im confused, not trying to rush in to anything with her but i just dont know how to go about it due to her never being kissed.
I'm 15. And, I haven't had my first kiss yet. I do have crushes, and there's this one boy that I really like but, I don't know if he likes me back. But, any way, even though I don't have a boyfriend. I want to know how to kiss when that time comes. Cause, if I don't know how to that would look bad. That's what I'm afraid of, when I kiss a boy and the kiss i horrible on my part.
Hi, ESV04.<br>I was in the same boat as you at 14 and I was freaking out. What I learnt is that you need to be calm dont get all flustered and freak out. Make sure your first kiss is with someone you want it to be with. And as long as your calm, ready and the person your kiss is going to be with is calm and ready then you will not be bad and you will get better and more comfortable at kissing as you go along in life.<br>Hope I helped<br>Xx
Last year i was crazy about a guy in school and finally he likes me. So this year we kissed and tbh it was really good . He would always text me and send me little love qoutes every day and he would always say that he loved me. But the worst part was he was in my cousins class and my cousin would tell my mom so i could never go out with him. Only last week i found out that he didnt like me anymore and i was heartbroken. Yesterday he asked me would i meet him and i havent replied back what should i do??
<p>hey man ill be 15 in march and im a guy just dont rush it me and her were cuddling i asked here what she would do if i kissed her she said i dont know lets find out so then i was happy it happened last night too and me and her are like best friend and last night was when i had my first kiss so yeah let it just happen dont rush it you'll find the one bro</p>
Hey I am a 12 year old kid. I already had my first kiss and I wanted to french kiss her. I was wondering should I do it or should I wait. I really wanted her to tell her that she loved me in person but I only get text messages. What I mean by that
<p>Tbh at 12 I wouldn't be too fussed about French kissing. Just take your time.</p><p>Also if you want her to say that she loves you in person, try saying it first. She'll probably say it back :)</p>
<p>girls love it when you run your fingers lightly thought their hair, and do not grab her ass. We don't like that, but hold where her ribs are we think it's sexy and like it.</p>
Yo I'm 13 just try taking it easy the first time and let your girlfriend ajust to how you kiss and you ajust to how she kisses
Hey am 12 and I just had my first kiss and it was a peck. The next day my boyfriend said he wanted me to give him a French kiss him but I am nervous and scared
<p>If you don't want to French kiss him, then don't. If he forces you then he clearly doesn't respect your boundaries and you should probably have a serious discussion with him or leave him altogether. Only do what you're comfortable with doing</p>
So I want to French kiss my girlfriend but I haven't asked her yet so when we go on our next private date should I ask her if we could French kiss or should I do it cause I am worried that if we just do it she won't French kiss me<br>
<p>Definitely ask her! If you feel comfortable enough to ask, then you're probably ready. Make sure she's comfortable with it too. Have fun</p>
I'm 13 and I want to French kiss but I am so nervous about it, I feel like I will mess up, does anyone have any tips that will help me?
<p>My advice, in all honesty, is just don't rush it. Build up to it with your partner and make sure you discuss it before you just stick your tongue in their mouth. If you find it too awkward to discuss, you should probably wait.</p><p>Also, I find it's something that just comes naturally. You figure it out as you go along and no one can really teach you, but make sure you're gentle. Good luck :)</p>
Honestly the main things for me to have an amazing kiss is <br>1. Grab my waist and pull me slowly to you<br>2. Look at my eyes then my lips and bite your lip<br>4. Rub your hand on my face<br>5. Kiss me slowly
<p>hands on the arse always works too</p>
<p>Honesty, a lot of girls don't like that. Instead grab where her ribs are. It'll turn us on..</p>
<p>My first kiss was behind a toolshed SOOO romantic</p>
ok my boyfriend wants me to kiss him and i do! its just that ...well i have never kiss someone before and im kinda of nervous :/ any help on wat to do???
Don't be nervous! Here's a good thing to know: First kisses are ALWAYS awkward. That perfect romantic-comedy movie kiss never happens. So just keep positive, and you'll get better. If he's a good guy, he'll still like you. And if he doesn't, dump him!
<p>not if its a random at a disco ;)</p>
To start off, tell him you love him. Now for the kissing part. When you guys are going to kiss be sure you two are in an environment that you guys feel comfortable in. It is also best if you guys are in a private area because you guys wouldn't want it feelin' akward for both of you. When goin in for the kiss, just STAY RELAXED and close your eyes and thank god for this wonderful moment. Its also best for you guys to take the kiss nice and slow, just make sure its a kiss you two will remember forever. (I know this is kinda late but i hope this advice will help you in the future) Good Luck ;)
Good points ... the setting is very important and you could know how to kiss well but for any sort of kissing ... especially a first kiss between two people it's good to be somewhere where you can relax, take your time, and not be in a big hurry. I would also add that it's good to start slow and build up the kissing so you start getting close, hugging, maybe a quick peck on the lips and then build to more passionate kisses. There is also good information at <a href="http://www.kissing.bz">http://www.kissing.bz</a>&nbsp; Enjoy your kissing!