Step 8: Remember your hands

When kissing, it is very important to remember your hands in relation to your partner's body. When you begin kissing, keep your hands gently touching your partner. Try gingerly stroking their cheek or running your fingers through their hair.

As the kiss progresses, so may your hands. Try running your hand down their back while one hand plays with their hair. Or just embrace them gently. You will find what you are most comfortable with. The important thing is to remember not to let your arms just hang there! Let your hands mirror what your mouth is up to.

Hey I am a 12 year old kid. I already had my first kiss and I wanted to french kiss her. I was wondering should I do it or should I wait. I really wanted her to tell her that she loved me in person but I only get text messages. What I mean by that
<p>My first kiss was behind a toolshed SOOO romantic</p>
<p>hands on the arse always works too</p>
ok my boyfriend wants me to kiss him and i do! its just that ...well i have never kiss someone before and im kinda of nervous :/ any help on wat to do???
Don't be nervous! Here's a good thing to know: First kisses are ALWAYS awkward. That perfect romantic-comedy movie kiss never happens. So just keep positive, and you'll get better. If he's a good guy, he'll still like you. And if he doesn't, dump him!
<p>not if its a random at a disco ;)</p>
To start off, tell him you love him. Now for the kissing part. When you guys are going to kiss be sure you two are in an environment that you guys feel comfortable in. It is also best if you guys are in a private area because you guys wouldn't want it feelin' akward for both of you. When goin in for the kiss, just STAY RELAXED and close your eyes and thank god for this wonderful moment. Its also best for you guys to take the kiss nice and slow, just make sure its a kiss you two will remember forever. (I know this is kinda late but i hope this advice will help you in the future) Good Luck ;)
Good points ... the setting is very important and you could know how to kiss well but for any sort of kissing ... especially a first kiss between two people it's good to be somewhere where you can relax, take your time, and not be in a big hurry. I would also add that it's good to start slow and build up the kissing so you start getting close, hugging, maybe a quick peck on the lips and then build to more passionate kisses. There is also good information at <a href="http://www.kissing.bz">http://www.kissing.bz</a>&nbsp; Enjoy your kissing!
just get in there girlfrieeennnddddd, the tounge and everything, maybe get him to slip the finger
<p>anyone on this site who still hasn't kissed or French kissed go to a disco and kiss randoms that's what I did and I got like 10 shifts from randoms on the night (shift is what irish people say)</p>
I'm 14 about to be 15 on July 30 of this yr I'm &quot;popular&quot; or cool or whatever people say but I still have not kissed a girl I still have trouble talking to a girl any suggestions?????
Talk to a girl make sure she likes you and if you like her back just simply ask her out
How can you be &quot;popular&quot; and you dont know how to talk to girls... Lol :p
Hey man i know exactly how u feel ... Just be confident thats all
Just be your self and if a girl likes that then flirt a little. Get to knkw her and if you like her you could tell her in peraon,messaging,facebook or in a written note. Sometimes girls think its cute when a guy is shy. Just be yourself and you should be fine. :)
Ok so a bunch of adults will probably be like don't worry it will be all natural and stuff like that but being a girl around your age all I can say is I find it slit more attractive when a guy come over and say hi or something. Just one major tip if a girl asks you wuu2 or Wyd answer then ask her back ? seems obvious but so many guys don't do that and the conversations just get boring for the girl
My first kiss is going to be a French kiss with my girlfreind on Tuesday and I'm 11 years old
Bro you my homie make sure you go slow tho don't go right in the French kissing
Good luck :3
WOW dat lewks sow ROMANTIC<3 but dat soo dont happen knoe more itz more like kissin in tha hallwayz when yu pazz em' tew go tew yur next clazz (not exactly wat i consider romantic)
It's called Derp Language, people... xD :3
<p>Pardon me, but I believe that there's a book that would help you out. It's called the dictionary. One can find it in most libraries.</p>
<p>lol this kid must not know english</p>
<p>thank you so much i really needed this!!!!!!!</p>
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Well try not to laugh...but I'm a 62 yr old Great Grandmother so needless to say, I've got a whole lot of kissing under my belt! That didn't come out right...sorry. I've read every comment and have a few of my own. Most of you are still very young and are way too young to be so concerned about kissing to begin with...but I understand, you are curiosus and probably very anxious to be 'all grown up', so naturally you want to act grown up too.<br><br>In a matter of just a few years you WILL be grown up and there's no turning back, then, within another few yrs you'll be dreaming of the good old days when you were a kid! Don't believe me? Well, imagine waking up every day for the next 50 plus years to a job you have to keep and a half dozen credit cards and a house to pay off, Rent, utilities, a mate to consider, Medical bills, car payments and car repair bills, and children of your own who want to be and try to be 'all grown up'. And trust me, that was the SHORT list!<br><br>Take your time, enjoy your youth while you have it.. FRENCH kissing almost always leads to more intimate behavior you may not be ready for but engage in anyway because you want to be popular, or your girl/boyfriend will 'leave you' if you don't etc. Remember, boys have been dreaming of 'sex' since they were about 7...and your 'kisses' stir up feelings in him that he won't know what to do with, so it's really not fair to him to get him all worked up just to send him away wanting. And guys...girls have been dreaming of 'Being in love and being loved' since they were about 7.... it is likewise unfair to them to tell them you love them if you don't...and at your age, trust me, you don't! Look around, ask questions...how many people can you find who were 'in love' at 12 or 13 and are now 40 and still together.?. because that is love! Being in it for the long haul. I know I know...you probably stopped reading after the first few sentences and a good laugh at the OLD Lady...and I think at your age I would have too. But I hope that's not the case, because believe it or not...I really do care about you.
<p>Comme vous avez raison.... que la vie passe vite.</p>
Its true that we boys ask for sex and you girls ask for love, but then ofcourse both of them (sex and love) fall under the same category which is emotion, so remember that we are simply satisfying one another and there's nothing wrong about its... As long as you know your lLIMITS.
Lol :p that's some true shit ?
Of course much of what you say is correct, but ''as long as you know your limis'', well...therein lies the rub. Although teen pregnancies have gone down over the past ten years, there are still far too many...an indicator that a very many do NOT know their limits..get caught up in the moment, or rely on birth control which at best is only 99% effective..that other 1% could occur the FIRST time. Satisfying one another in ways that can not result in pregnancy is best of course, yet even that can be probmatic...teens have the highest growing rate of gonorrhoea of the throat..(thank you President Clinton, for saying oral sex is NOT sex)...it is. In fact anything that results in orgasm can be considered sex.<br>My advise was based on experience and the wisdom that comes with age...as well as a genuine concern for your futures and well being... take it or leave it. That's fine too.
U are very wise thank u for ur advice I wish I would have had it b4 I went to touge with my bf
Susan, I replied to your comment, but I entered it as a new comment in error... thank you for your words..they are much appreciated. Please read my latest comment to see my reply to you.<br>:-)
Im a sad kinda human, I read all of that and I may only be 15 but I completely agree with you, when I read that I was like woah eye opener, I just finished my yr ten exams and now am awaiting yr eleven, but I am so much more mature than I was expecting when I was 13 and this time does fly by, I know im banging on but I agree with your entire point so much because I had to grow up fast when my mum got ill, ive never &quot;fallen in love&quot; and now I have and i wanna do it right, but what you said made me realise that if I mess up its not the end of the world and i can carry on living, thankyou so much xxx
Thank you Hunnybee22 (adorable name):-)<br>It's true, life goes on in spite of the mistakes we make...I'm proof. I gave birth to my first son just a few months after my 16th birthday. If I had it to do over...for HIS sake, I would have waited until I was mature. <br>One thing I hear young people say again and again is, (and yes, I said it myself)...'' I want to make my OWN mistakes!'' Take the words ''my own'' out of it and what you are left saying is ''I want to make mistakes!''<br>....it's an absurd statement when you think about it...when the real trick...the mature trick is...NOT to make mistakes to begin with. Those who follow that path are the happy people later in life. There can be no greater satisfaction than to live a life of no regret... the feeling of ''guilt'' is the hardest feeling to live with...it leads to most suicides.. it robs us of our ''JOY''.<br>So, again I urge you..take the experiences of those who have gone before you...learn from THEIR mistakes, choose a better course for you.. and Bee happy!
<p>Don't Do Things Your Way, God Knows The Right One For you... Its already happening to those who have been saved &quot;but don't act in religion but as a relationship with Jesus&quot; so erase that from your heart ... (its excuses to not to accept Jesus into our heart) </p>
Don't go around the internet trying to spread your religious beliefs unsolicited. That's just being am ashore
Okay I'm 14 and I've already kissed m boyfreind but he wants to French... Idk what to do. This helps but what if I mess it up?
Just take it easy girl!! And also, you might be ready for sex if you are ready for the French kiss, all you have to do it ask. Can we have sex??? Take advice from this 34 year old woman
Really.... U think she is ready for sex.... Shame on you for telling young ppl to have sex... Thats dumb....
oh girly I know how you feel. but take it slow, Hon. French kissing may seem interesting, but be safe.
<p>wowow nice :)</p>
One other thing.. Susan, it's never too late until it's too late. If you would rather not continue doing something with your bf, then stop.. He'll survive.
Alright, I have been dating my girlfriend for three months and fourteen days now, and we are kissing on a regular basis. I feel like I am ready to take this step and take our relationship to the next level, and I feel like she is sending off vibes that she is ready too. The only problem is that I don't know how to go about taking this major step. Any suggestions?
Go with it if you both sending the same vibes it will be chilled because the feeling is mutual and it means both of you are ready to take this next step and you're both ready to tackle the problems on the way to the top
And also I'm 13 - Mara ek het nie seun om te lief nie - I still watch adventure time
All these 12 year olds already kissed someone and I haven't even had a bf ? like bishh whet
Eish - the struggle is real ?✊?
Hi, im 13 but i had my first kiss at 10. I have never french kissed anyone in my life but my 14 year old boyfriend has gone all the way before.. We've been dating for almost a month and im scared he will want to french kiss me.. Anyone have any suggestions?