Introduction: How to Get a Girl to Like You... or at Least How to Give It Your Best Shot...

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Believe it or not... most grown men don't understand how to do this and I myself am not always on point... but I figured that I would share some of my knowledge that I have learned in the past 15 or so years...

Step 1: First Impressions...

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Everybody is always told that a good first impression is important... in this situation it is crucial! Always make sure that you're presentable when you meet somebody... smelling good, nicely groomed, dressed well, etc. Also be sure to cut down on using swear words and avoid controversial or awkward subjects when striking up a conversation... girls like compliments, but be careful that the compliments are appropriate and that not all of them are about her looks... that can sometimes lead them to believe that you're only interested in one thing... which brings us to the next step...

Step 2: It's Not About You... It's All About Her...

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Once the introductions are over with and the small talk is done, then the next phase starts... which is getting to know each other. Now you want to obviously tell someone all about yourself... but I have found that it's better to just answer her questions as they come and to concentrate more on asking her about herself. It's super important to pay attention to everything she says and to start making a mental log of all her interests... food, music, movies, style, clothing... basically everything, because you're going to need to know all of these things if you aim to have any real success as time goes on. She will learn about you along the way.. and too many times people make the mistake of talking about themselves too much instead of listening and learning about her. Girls by nature seek attention, so make sure you give her yours and make it all about her...

Step 3: Showing Her You Care and That She Is on Your Mind...

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OK, so now you're at the point where you've met, started to get to know each other, and hopefully you have gathered information on her. If you have been doing things right and you're compatible, then she more than likely is showing interest in you. The more interest she shows in you than the more important it is for you to find creative ways of showing her that she is starting to mean something to you. Using the intelligence you have gathered on her. do small, simple things such as sending her a YouTube link of one of her favorite band's videos... buy her small, inexpensive gifts that reflect her interests, favorite colors, animals, candy... etc etc.. hand written notes are always a good idea. Sending her sweet texts telling her how grateful you are for meeting her. A lot of today's girls are using Snapchat, I would suggest using this to send her goofy or sweet snaps as another way to show her she means something... bottom line, get creative with it and tailor whatever you're doing to fit her... as I said before... its all about her.

Step 4: Spend Quality Time With Her...

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This isn't necessarily a step but it is more or less something that should be done to coincide with everything else... Giving her your time and attention in all actuality is probably the most important thing. Quality time is key... seeing movies together, going out to dinner... those are a given. What I'm talking about here is doing things like going shopping with her and liking it. Being attentive while you're doing things that she likes to do will really go a long way in the end. She will appreciate it and it also shows her that no matter what the activity/situation is... you want to be there because her happiness is important to you... its a sure fire way to make her heart melt when she realizes that you just totally went to a department store with her and helped her pick out the new bikini she just bought...

Step 5: Conclusions...

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The things mentioned in this instructable are all things that I have learned from my own personal experiences... through many years of trial and error. It is meant to be good advice, by no means could I ever guarantee that someone will be interested in you... but nothing mentioned here will hurt either. Doing idiotic things like sending racy pictures or having a full of yourself attitude are the worst possible things than can be done... but people are still dumb enough to do them.. good luck to everyone and I hope that I can help somebody out there by sharing my advice.

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