How to Kiss

Step 3The Kiss

The Kiss
Ok, it's time for THE KISS. Take all the elements from steps 1 and 2 and put them together. It's good to be methodical while practicing to kiss, but when it's time to do the real thing it should flow smoothly and come naturally. That means less step-by-step instructions, and more videos of the real thing.

Just a simple kiss.



Put a few of them together.



You can also touch your tongue to your partners lips ever so slightly. (This is not a French Kiss - just one method of placing the tongue towards the front of your mouth so you can just lightly brush your partner's lips upon contact.)


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33 comments
Jan 18, 2012. 7:53 PMJozef_14 says:
Alright so, I've got these girls that like me and I like one of them too. And we always start these conversations but they never seem to last?
Jan 26, 2012. 10:11 PMmadame2068 says:
well ask the girl you like out and see if you 2 hit it off if the conversation thing happens well do your best to keep going and to have fun!
Sep 10, 2010. 12:58 PMtink99 says:
omg! i want to be kissed so bad!
Nov 4, 2011. 5:42 AMDaviktion says:
Join the club! i haven't even been on a date yet. :'( 13 yrs.
Jan 26, 2012. 10:08 PMmadame2068 says:
Don't worry about it one day you will.
Nov 30, 2011. 7:35 AMjasonator001 says:
i went on a dateand kissed her but she didnt want anyone to know is that bad
Jan 26, 2012. 10:12 PMmadame2068 says:
well not really she just might not be ready 4 people 2 know yet she might be shy about it.
Nov 21, 2011. 9:17 PMatalerico says:
18 here and I'm still holding out. The sad thing? I found the right girl and I've told her how I feel, but I can't bring myself to asking her out. Gotta love that Long Unresolved Sexual Tension.
Nov 22, 2011. 12:33 PMDaviktion says:
Dude, all you need to do is ask her out. your problems will be completely resolved, as long as she likes you too. if you are a little nerd asking out a cheerleader, than maybe not, but if you're both at about the same height on the social ladder, you'll do great.
Nov 22, 2011. 1:24 PMatalerico says:
(And yes, we did still go to her Homecoming and it was amazing.)
Nov 22, 2011. 1:23 PMatalerico says:
That's not the problem. She actually asked me out a while back (to her school's Homecoming dance) and I said yes, but we're so perfect as friends that at the time I felt any more intimacy would ruin it, and I told her. I have since realized that I was wrong, but saying so would make me look like a jerk. THAT is the issue, it is something that I plan to deal with on my own.
Jan 29, 2012. 10:38 AMf5mando says:
Getting over our concern of 'looking bad' AKA 'not looking good', is the key to moving forward. Too many missed opportunities and a change of this mindset really set me free.
*When I was a youngster I never asked a girl out for fear of rejection (not looking good). I was almost out of my teens before I kissed a girl.
Nov 23, 2011. 7:51 AMDaviktion says:
okay then, good luck!
Jul 27, 2007. 4:55 PMg10tto says:
Wow. Very sweet, but at the same time kind of awkward. You two did it very maturely though, and...hey, you're both pretty hot AND kissable. Cool beans!
Jul 15, 2009. 9:12 AMPeacechick95 says:
My bf really wants to kiss. I really want to kiss him but im so scared and worried! Im scared about my parents. They r very strict. And they dont know that im dating someone. He and i hav been going out for 3weeks. But weve gone out before. Itll be 4 on tuesday. And im scared becuz im sure ill mess up and i dont how its going to happen. I just want lip to lip but idk wat he wants. Please help!!!!
Jul 15, 2009. 4:20 PMJustThatGuy says:
If it feels right then go for it! And i think youll know if the moment is right.
Jul 15, 2009. 5:29 PMPeacechick95 says:
Thanx. Hopefully i get alone time with him tomorrow or some other time.... Im just super nervous and worried that, like i mentioned before, that my parents will find out. I really care for my bf. Sometimes i cant help thinking about him being "Mr.Right." -sigh- Y r things so complicated? But all i really want to know is how to approach the kiss and how to kiss. Thxx for replying though :)
Jan 26, 2012. 10:06 PMmadame2068 says:
wow i have the same problem. its not that i dont want to kiss him or i havent kissed anyone b4, its that im to shy and iv tried everything to show him that i wanted to kiss him i even told, what should i do now?
Jul 16, 2009. 2:54 PMJustThatGuy says:
No prob
Dec 28, 2011. 12:19 AMlittledaisyxx says:
Who cares if you're 13 and haven't had a kiss? I'm almost 13 and I haven't kissed anyone either! I've had boyfriends, but no kisses. I really don't care.


By the way, nice article(: {thing hehe} :]
Dec 31, 2011. 8:52 PMcailynmarie97 says:
I love the comments like yours! KEEP YOUR FREEDOM AND INDEPENDENCE FROM THE KISSING SCENE!!!!! :D
Apr 4, 2009. 11:33 PMbennett012 says:
ive never foundt kissing all that complicated
Jun 15, 2010. 11:58 AMSophieeeMxx says:
same i find it quite easy actually and the guys i kiss seem 2 like it so i must be doin it right
May 1, 2010. 12:09 PMstykzorz says:
 lol.. me neither
May 10, 2009. 2:36 PMandresrosario says:
hell yea its easy az 123
May 9, 2009. 9:43 PMcodwell4life says:
dude im 13 and i kiss my girlfirend like average 30 -40 times a day and not just peck or butterfly i mean like deep throut the tongue man... its great XD
Jul 9, 2010. 4:59 AMbernaaaa says:
i have kissed like that lots of times dude and it is fun aye
May 2, 2010. 8:13 AMdudeguy1234 says:
 COOL STORY BRO
May 17, 2009. 1:51 PMblondieheartssoccer says:
cool...?
May 16, 2009. 9:26 PMqballcat says:
omg...penno?
May 16, 2009. 10:08 PMcodwell4life says:
sup kearan
May 16, 2009. 10:25 PMqballcat says:
lol nice,check out my gun ible.. its my BIG one
Apr 6, 2009. 7:13 PMmg0930mg says:
Some people like you or me, may be gifted with what some people call, BORN TALENT. lol. I'm jk, but I don't find it hard either.
Apr 7, 2009. 8:29 PMGoodhart says:
Yes, as long as you don't try to imitate the BIG SCREEN kissing (in movies).....most of that is just awkward. ;-)
Apr 9, 2009. 1:16 PMmg0930mg says:
lol. Goodhart you are awesome....
Apr 9, 2009. 4:46 PMGoodhart says:
Thanks :-) I did hear some actress once say that movie kissing is not very, um, pleasant....much of the time :-)
Apr 9, 2009. 6:19 PMmg0930mg says:
hah. That stinks. You still get paid for it, though...
Jun 6, 2010. 5:58 PMzascecs says:
..thats what she said... =P ...or he...
Feb 12, 2010. 8:58 PMbubbles=D says:
ok i tried to use this to kiss my beau the other day and we smacked forheads! it was so embarrassing i didnt know what to do i thought i was gonna die!
Sep 24, 2009. 9:56 AMcalliewantstokiss says:
jesus needs to be in the middle of this! break it up young ones!

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