How to Kiss

Step 3: The Kiss

Ok, it's time for THE KISS. Take all the elements from steps 1 and 2 and put them together. It's good to be methodical while practicing to kiss, but when it's time to do the real thing it should flow smoothly and come naturally. That means less step-by-step instructions, and more videos of the real thing.

Just a simple kiss.



Put a few of them together.



You can also touch your tongue to your partners lips ever so slightly. (This is not a French Kiss - just one method of placing the tongue towards the front of your mouth so you can just lightly brush your partner's lips upon contact.)

Comments

[tink99]

omg! i want to be kissed so bad!

[Daviktion]

Join the club! i haven't even been on a date yet. :'( 13 yrs.

[january632572]

Oh my god get over it you're 13

[madame2068]

Don't worry about it one day you will.

[jasonator001]

i went on a dateand kissed her but she didnt want anyone to know is that bad

[RheaWright]

If she's embarassed about you two, i suggest you confront her to fnd out what's up.

[madame2068]

well not really she just might not be ready 4 people 2 know yet she might be shy about it.

[atalerico]

18 here and I'm still holding out. The sad thing? I found the right girl and I've told her how I feel, but I can't bring myself to asking her out. Gotta love that Long Unresolved Sexual Tension.

[Daviktion]

Dude, all you need to do is ask her out. your problems will be completely resolved, as long as she likes you too. if you are a little nerd asking out a cheerleader, than maybe not, but if you're both at about the same height on the social ladder, you'll do great.

[atalerico]

(And yes, we did still go to her Homecoming and it was amazing.)

[atalerico]

That's not the problem. She actually asked me out a while back (to her school's Homecoming dance) and I said yes, but we're so perfect as friends that at the time I felt any more intimacy would ruin it, and I told her. I have since realized that I was wrong, but saying so would make me look like a jerk. THAT is the issue, it is something that I plan to deal with on my own.

[f5mando]

Getting over our concern of 'looking bad' AKA 'not looking good', is the key to moving forward. Too many missed opportunities and a change of this mindset really set me free.
*When I was a youngster I never asked a girl out for fear of rejection (not looking good). I was almost out of my teens before I kissed a girl.

[Daviktion]

okay then, good luck!

[xFighTxFaiRx]

My Best Guyfriend and I were talking. I have a secret crush on him and from what I can tell, it's pretty hidden. So while he ws talking, I looked over his shoulder and I spotted this crazy girl who has a HUGE open crush on him. She hates all the girls he hangs out with, me especially, so it's fun to mess with her. I cut him off mid-sentence and hissed "Don't overthink this and play along." He was clueless. I just all of the sudden kiss him. He was REALLY surprised but soon as he saw the crazy girl walk near us he immediately caught on. It was AMAZING! And we were class couple in the yearbook :)

[Jozef_14]

Alright so, I've got these girls that like me and I like one of them too. And we always start these conversations but they never seem to last?

[madame2068]

well ask the girl you like out and see if you 2 hit it off if the conversation thing happens well do your best to keep going and to have fun!

[g10tto]

Wow. Very sweet, but at the same time kind of awkward. You two did it very maturely though, and...hey, you're both pretty hot AND kissable. Cool beans!

[Peacechick95]

My bf really wants to kiss. I really want to kiss him but im so scared and worried! Im scared about my parents. They r very strict. And they dont know that im dating someone. He and i hav been going out for 3weeks. But weve gone out before. Itll be 4 on tuesday. And im scared becuz im sure ill mess up and i dont how its going to happen. I just want lip to lip but idk wat he wants. Please help!!!!

[JustThatGuy]

If it feels right then go for it! And i think youll know if the moment is right.

[Peacechick95]

Thanx. Hopefully i get alone time with him tomorrow or some other time.... Im just super nervous and worried that, like i mentioned before, that my parents will find out. I really care for my bf. Sometimes i cant help thinking about him being "Mr.Right." -sigh- Y r things so complicated? But all i really want to know is how to approach the kiss and how to kiss. Thxx for replying though :)

[madame2068]

wow i have the same problem. its not that i dont want to kiss him or i havent kissed anyone b4, its that im to shy and iv tried everything to show him that i wanted to kiss him i even told, what should i do now?

[JustThatGuy]

No prob

[littledaisyxx]

Who cares if you're 13 and haven't had a kiss? I'm almost 13 and I haven't kissed anyone either! I've had boyfriends, but no kisses. I really don't care.


By the way, nice article(: {thing hehe} :]

[cailynmarie97]

I love the comments like yours! KEEP YOUR FREEDOM AND INDEPENDENCE FROM THE KISSING SCENE!!!!! :D

[bennett012]

ive never foundt kissing all that complicated

[SophieeeMxx]

same i find it quite easy actually and the guys i kiss seem 2 like it so i must be doin it right

[stykzorz]

 lol.. me neither

[andresrosario]

hell yea its easy az 123

[codwell4life]

dude im 13 and i kiss my girlfirend like average 30 -40 times a day and not just peck or butterfly i mean like deep throut the tongue man... its great XD

[bernaaaa]

i have kissed like that lots of times dude and it is fun aye

[dudeguy1234]

 COOL STORY BRO

[blondieheartssoccer]

cool...?

[qballcat]

omg...penno?

[codwell4life]

sup kearan

[qballcat]

lol nice_{,check out my gun ible.. its my BIG one}

[mg0930mg]

Some people like you or me, may be gifted with what some people call, BORN TALENT. lol. I'm jk, but I don't find it hard either.

[Goodhart]

Yes, as long as you don't try to imitate the BIG SCREEN kissing (in movies).....most of that is just awkward. ;-)

[mg0930mg]

lol. Goodhart you are awesome....

[Goodhart]

Thanks ^_:-) I did hear some actress once say that movie kissing is not very, um, pleasant....much of the time :-)

[mg0930mg]

hah. That stinks. You still get paid for it, though...