Introduction: How to Meet Girls.

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There are several rules and ways to introduce yourself to women and i will tell you how.

Step 1: Tease.

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Remember the key is to be open. You need to hit on every girl you see that is cute or a potential girlfriend. If you fail you get the personal experience.

First of all you need to find a girl and attract her which is shown step by step here.



The best way to come up to a girl is to ask a question or as for an opinion not just say "hi". The reason for this is because if you just say hi the conversation goes no where, but if you say something like, "Me and my friend had a little argument earlier about whether girls lie more than guys and "I know its obviously girls"(this is the kind of teasing that will get the girls attention) but i wanted your thought." Then escalate from there and stay on your toes if the conversation goes dry and after maybe a minute or two say, "Could i have you email?" if she says yes then 1 point for you if she says no say, "Oh my good friend has this band i think you would like his music so i was going to send some of his stuff to you." If she says no at first if she ends up giving you her email, do not contact her and make up a fake friend. Abandon all hope, with that girl, there are many more...just look around you.

Step 2: Make the Date.

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Now you have a beautiful girls email, or maybe many. Email them and get there myspace or aim so you can have a more instant conversation. You can talk to her and make dates which can be done by simply emailing her, "Want to go for lunch on Sunday". If she says yes then begin to make details like where to eat and make sure you decide none of this "where would you" like crap. Don't make it huge, have lunch at the local diner or even a burger joint.

Step 3: 4-12 Hours.

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The 4-12 hour rule states that you must touch lip to lip with this girl within 4-12 hours of hanging which means if you chat with her on aim for 1 hour that is one our, if you go to lunch for 3 hours you are at 4. If you don't kiss her within this time frame you are in the friend zone and its for pretty much forever.

Step 4: Kiss.

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I can't stress enough that you need to be confident, even a tad cocky. There are many ways you can obtain a kiss. One is that you ask her for it but like this, "Did you want to kiss me?" and if she says no say, "Oh you were acting like you wanted me to." and drop it. But if she says yes lean in and make it a 3-4 second kiss, no tongue, just a tad long peck.

You can also put your pointer finger and point on your cheek to gesture for a kiss cheek which many girls don't mind giving. When she leans in turn your head and kiss her. This is much more cocky and if executed right the better choice.


Just like Hitch i leave you to work from here. Happy Dating.

Comments

VaanyaW (author)2017-08-19

'Remember the key is to be open. You need to hit on every girl you see that is cute or a potential girlfriend. If you fail you get the personal experience.

This sounds like a guideline for shopping or something!!! Girls do not want a guy who only looks out for 'cute' girls!!! This is a matter of the heart, we girls are not objects to pick up. Where did 'True Love' go?

Guys, this is NOT what girls want. We want someone who is sensitive, yet masculine. We do not want 'cocky'.

And I do not get the 4/12 rule. There is no set amount of time for when you should kiss. And if there is no love, a thousand kisses cannot help. If you are looking for a long-term relationship, take your time, enjoy each other's company.

I personally think that this is just a way to get sex. Not for relationships.

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4everbagelz21 (author)2014-07-29

Wow. Boys are really stupid to listen to this. This makes me sad that to get attention you tease. That's the opposite of what we (girls) want.

So What's the good idea ? you tell me ... This couple month ago i couldn't talk to any female

jjordor (author)2012-10-13

ask for the 'give me cheek kiss' then go for the lips is a better idea

Lovemybeats (author)2012-08-26

I read alot of the comments, and there all great but here is what I do and how it works for me. "1st I find a nice girl who is probably around a guy or 2 but mainly with a couple of her ladies friends, this way I can do something I like to call -Dominance Control- and what this is, is just me being assertive not aggressive to the other males in the group. All this does is give a natural feel of a leader to the girls of the group, this does alot for you! To introduce your self to the group simple do the first tip, like ask "Where is the other mall" if there is one, or "I'm new here do you know where the coolest spot to hangout is like a bar or club?" When they explain to you how or respond in general, find something to take the conversation to another. If you lose the conversation just go "nice talking to you, later!" and walk away, walk around a bit if you see her and she notices you and responds to your presence in anyway, your good, go for it, if not just let it be. Another thing is when you go for the question, don't ask it. Better yet give her your number before you leave! This shows that your assertive in a nice way, that you still take control even over them, but your not a douche. When you give them your number just say, "Call me later we will go do something" or anything along the lines of that. When the girls get a hold of that number its like a kid with a new toy because once they get the new toy they wanna try it out and see what all it can do! So they WILL call you. I do these few starters and end'ers and EVERY time so far it has worked! I have dated 7 girls in 4 years, and I'm just now turning 19. I went from being the guy who was the guy who everyone didn't mess with, to being the guy who talked to everyone and every girl. I became Popular. Being popluar helps also attract women because they see you as a leader and like i said women always want a leader. Just so they can show you off! :D The most important thing of all of this, just to keep everything good, is SMILE. If you don't everyone who sees you will feel that you are confident and average. You don't want this, so follow my bit of advise, I hoped it helps, and stay out there never give up. No one is meant to be alone!

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mole_0 (author)2011-11-26

i dont really get the 4-12 rule that he is talking about, can someone please explain that for me?

zwige (author)2011-07-13

It's kind of sad that I'm looking up on how to meet girls haha. But I've never been in a relationship at 22 years old. I'm still a virgin but I don't really care about that honestly. I just want a relationship and whatever happens from there, happens. I've tried so much over the past few years but nothing for me works. About 90% of the time, a girl tells me I'm too short. I'm 5'3 and that is short for a guy but what do I do?
Any advice would be appreciated but I've tried a lot. Going up to a girl and asking a question like in the example. I just get a cold hard stare and she walks away. I don't get it.

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ramuravi (author)2011-03-05

ho i like this

2ManyProjects (author)2010-10-29

Not my Instructable, but we are talking about WOMEN here, not girls. 4 to 12 hours of dating time has been studied by sociologists and psychologists. The clock starts at the first date. If you miss your window you put yourself in the 'Friend Zone'.

Ask yourself. If a guy hasn't made a move in six trips to the movies is he interested in you? As an adult sleeping together on the third date is considered the norm. You better get the kiss in early.

First kiss, best tutorial in the movie 'Hitch'. Don't ask, ever. You come off as weak and insecure.

0.775volts (author)2008-07-20

just about verbatim in the game, except he had better strategies. this is basically paraphrasing one of its main points.

flymudpie (author)0.775volts2008-07-20

What is "the game?"

0.775volts (author)flymudpie2008-07-21

are you trying to be cute or something? or are you honestly claiming that you are completely original in this, and not blatantly ripping off a national best seller?

flymudpie (author)0.775volts2008-07-21

No i am dead serious i have no clue...i think i have heard of it. This movie?
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0119174/
and if its not i am not being cute i seriously dont know anything other than tht movie...i saw it once when i was like 8

0.775volts (author)flymudpie2008-07-22

no, this one. The Game and I don't belive that you haven't heard of it before.

shadowyblade (author)0.775volts2010-10-29

I haven't heard of it either....

flymudpie (author)0.775volts2008-07-23

ok

shylock (author)flymudpie2008-10-13

I haven't heard of it before...

HURTprone (author)0.775volts2008-07-24

I agree. This is like a basic "routine" from a pick up artist...and the rabbit hole gets WAY deeper than this.

leeellis (author)2008-11-07

wow boys sooo un-true i only date boy's who were my friends first.dotn listen to him.wow

2ManyProjects (author)leeellis2008-11-18

You are the exception, not the rule. The women I have known think you aren't interested enough or are weak if you don't make a move in this time period. The bright side is, you are probably be a better girlfriend than most females. Good for you.:)

No, all the women I know follow what leeellis wrote. If they get kissed in the first 4-12 hours, they likely will think of you as a "creeper" or "stalker," even if you aren't.

cd41 (author)leeellis2009-01-02

hmm interesting (im not here for advice wanna see what this guys says

SmartyPants101 (author)2009-01-03

You never ask a girl for a kiss. The cheek is okay. But if your going for lip action, don't ask for it. But also don't go for it unless it is the right time.

how do you really know when it is the right time to kiss someone?

chica305 (author)2010-08-02

DO NOT try to kiss the girl within 4 -12 hours or you will get slapped. Definitely not the brightest advice I've heard and "friend zone" is not for ever, you can totally hit if off later after you know each other a bit longer.

pancho del rancho (author)2009-08-01

yea but im not trying the turn your head one ive seen people get slaped

I tried the turn your head one, worked beautifully. Sometimes you gotta take the risk!

Acepilot42 (author)2010-02-04

the food looks good

ro000258 (author)2009-06-26

Yes, Neal Strauss and Mystery (another dating guru) both have full (college like) courses on meeting women (look up the Mystery Method). You learn how to get a girl to take interest in you, how to escalate that interest into touching, kissing and bonding with a girl and eventually closing the deal all within a few hours (4-12 hours). You also learn to become a real man. If you're into meeting beautiful women and having them take interest in you, learning from these guys is a good start, however they are not the final word on this subject.

Yerboogieman (author)2009-02-20

Or, "Nice shoes, wanna f*ck?" can help get the girl.

im just bored and replying to stuff dats really old and kinda typing random stuff exept now now its not random or is it maybe it is IDK can someone help me?

DragonX777 (author)2009-04-16

I wonder wat would be a best way to ask them out

how about this, "hey, I really like you. Wanna be my girlfriend?" it's so easy, you're just making it seem hard by adding to your fear of rejection... it's not that hard

sdfive (author)tape.worm.girl2009-06-09

If you go up to a stranger and say that, the answer will ALWAYS be no. Even if they're desperate. But if you know them then Right-O.

yellowsushimustard (author)2009-03-04

very good stuff. if you want her to go farther than just kissing all you have to do is get her to go in for a kiss and than turn your head so she only gets your cheek. aka play hard to get, works almost everytime

maybe if you're a jerk. i wouldn't go after a guy who did that to me. I would be torn apart if someone did that to me

SmartyPants101 (author)2009-01-03

Not even close to what want. I wouldn't date a guy that needs to make a move that early in the relationship. A girl wants to be respected. With the advice you have, the girl is going to turn the guy down.

truth be told, I think more girls are like you than this example. I gotta admit though, he is making it sound like more of a way to be a very easy lay. He is right about one thing: the friend zone is an awful place to be if you are really interested in sex. However, I think it is a lot easier to get out of the friend zone than it is the "you are just like my sister" zone.

this guy knows what he's talking about... once you're in the "older/ younger or just plain brother category" you will NEVER get out. you're better off in the "friend" category, you at least have a chance of getting out

you are totally right, man. i'm on the 'you are just like my sister' zone and it's horrible man. it's so hard to get of that zone!

mr_briansmart (author)2009-03-06

Very beautiful advice Smarty i like your sugestion Lol

stephen2 (author)2009-02-20

that's all good and dandy, I'm not so sure about getting just an email. whatever happened to good old fashioned phone numbers?

tommylovesjamie (author)2009-02-09

this is very bad advice. you should consider looking into other ways of "hooking up" with girls because this is something relatively few girls would go for.

KingColeman (author)2009-01-11

I don't know about this strategy, Forget the email dude, go for her number, as a matter of fact f**k her number and give her yours That 4-12 hours can work, but it can also get you slapped. How about you all go check out my original series. "HOW TO: get a girlfriend" parts 1, 2, and 3 yours truly King

lil jon168 (author)2008-08-15

well instead of just strait up asking for her email before you ask start telling her about the band or what ever you had in mind then dont lie about the band or what ever tell her the truth cuz if you lie then she wont go out with u =(