How to Put on a Condom

How to Put on a Condom
This Instructable explains how to properly put on a condom, where you can get condoms (for free and for purchase), and a little bit of background info on condoms for those who would like to know a bit more about them.

The entire process is shown on a foam model that was borrowed from a professional sexual educator. As a result, this Instructable contains no inappropriate photos, and is safe for anyone to view. That being said, I'll still give the following warning:

***This Instructable contains information of a sexual nature. While this information is publicly available in middle school classrooms, at local health centers, and at sexual health websites on the internet, the author recognizes that some may believe that this knowledge may not be suitable for all audiences. If you are offended by the subject of sexual health, then please, cease reading this Instructable and navigate to another website so that those who wish to view this information may do so.***
 
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Step 1Condoms 101

Condoms 101

Rather then sift through the broken pieces of fact intertwined with fiction in my head that I can remember from my days in sex ed class, I'll take most of the background information on condoms from the World Health Organization's document The Male Latex Condom, Planned Parenthood's page Condoms, Wikipedia's entry on Condoms and from the links and references contained in those documents.


Definition and usage

A condom is a device designed to prevent the passage of fluids between individuals during sexual intercourse. It provides a barrier that physically blocks the transmission of semen during intercourse. Condoms are used to prevent pregnancy and transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. 1

Condoms have been used for over 500 years. In the early twentieth century, with the invention of disposable latex condoms, they became one of the most popular methods of contraception. 2 Condoms are now used during sexual intercourse and other sexual activities where and individual or more than one individuals require an effective protective barrier between themselves and something else.

Because condoms are waterproof, highly elastic, and very durable, they are also used in a variety of unconventional applications. See below for examples:

Knit Condom
Condom Ecosphere
Novel Use for a Condom
Condom Light Party
Dual Waterproof Consumer Electronics - the condom
Creative Discontent: Part 2

Condom materials

Most condoms are made from latex, but some are made from other materials such as lamb intestines (called lamb skin condoms) or polyurethane. Lamb skin condoms prevent the transmission of semen during sexual intercourse, but do not adequately protect against sexually transmitted diseases.

Effectiveness

As a method of contraception, male condoms have the advantage of being inexpensive, easy to use, having few side-effects, and of offering protection against sexually transmitted diseases. With proper knowledge and application technique, and use at every act of intercourse, users of male condoms experience a 2% per-year pregnancy rate. 3, 4

The most frequently cited condom effectiveness rate is for typical use, which includes perfect and imperfect use (i.e. not used at every act of intercourse, or used incorrectly). The pregnancy rate during typical use can be much higher (10-14%) than for perfect use, but this is due primarily to inconsistent and incorrect use, not to condom failure. Condom failure, the device breaking or slipping off completely during intercourse is uncommon. 5

Disease prevention

Laboratory studies have found that viruses (including HIV) do not pass through intact latex condoms even when devices are stretched or stressed.

In Thailand, the promotion by the government of 100% condom use by commercial sex workers led to a dramatic increase in the use of condoms (from 14% in 1990 to 94% in 1994); an equally dramatic decline in the nation-wide numbers of bacterial STD cases (from 410,406 cases in 1997 to 27,362 cases in 1994); and reduced HIV prevalence in Thai soldiers.

The most convincing data on the effectiveness of condoms in preventing HIV infection has been generated by prospective studies undertaken on serodiscordant couples, when one partner is infected with HIV and the other is not. These studies show that, with consistent condom use, the HIV infection rate among uninfected partners was less than 1 percent per year. Also, in situations where one partner is definitely infected, inconsistent condom use can be as risky as not using condoms at all. 6

Allergy to latex condoms

Latex allergies are very rare among the general population. While 1-2 billion condoms are used per year in the USA, the FDA only received 44 reports of allergic reactions associated with condom use between October 1988 and end of 1991. The Centers for Disease Control estimate that the population risk of an allergic reaction to latex is 0.08% and the nature of the reaction tends to be very mild. Concerns about latex allergies should not inhibit sexually active people who are at risk of exposure to pregnancy and STDs using condoms, since the risks associated with unprotected sexual contact are far greater than those from exposure to latex.

Sexual Education
(why this Instructable is important)

One argument used against condom education and condom distribution programs is that providing condoms and condom education will increase condom use among teens and those groups targeted with the education programs. Many feel that condom distribution and education is a "license to have sex" especially for teens. Studies are surveys about the subject prove otherwise.

  • Five U.S. studies of specific sex education programs have demonstrated that HIV education and sex education that included condom information either had no effect upon the initiation of intercourse or resulted in delayed onset of intercourse.
  • Five studies of specific programs found that HIV/sex education did not increase frequency of intercourse, and a program that included development of skills to negotiate safer sexual behaviors actually resulted in a decrease in the number of youth who initiated sex.
  • A World Health Organization (WHO) review cited 19 studies of sex education programs that found no evidence that sex education leads to earlier or increased sexual activity in young people. In fact, five of the studies cited by WHO showed that such programs can lead to a delay or decrease in sexual activity.
  • In a recent study of youth in Los Angeles, an HIV prevention program focusing on condom use did not increase sexual activity or the number of sex partners. But condom use did increase among those who were already sexually active.

The data is clear and plentiful. Condom education is effective in decreasing STDs and HIV and did not give teens "a license to have sex" as opponents claim.

References

(Any information included in this step that is not cited below came from the the World Health Organization's document - The Male Latex Condom.)

[1] Condom. Planned Parenthood (April 2004). Retrieved on 11/19/2007.
[2] A History of Birth Control Methods Planned Parenthood (June 2002). Retrieved on 7/5/2006.
[3] Hatcher, RA; Trussel J, Stewart F, et al (2000). Contraceptive Technology, 18th Edition, New York: Ardent Media. ISBN 0-9664902-6-6.
[4] Wikipedia entry on condoms Retrieved on 2/26/2008.
[5] Effectiveness of male latex condoms in protecting against pregnancy and sexually transmitted infections The World Health Organization. Retrieved on 2/26/2008.
[6] Ibid.
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Dec 9, 2011. 10:38 PMFlatLinerMEDIC says:
haha I thought your foam was a glass.....connection interrupted.
Mar 12, 2009. 11:54 AMMillenniumMan says:
For my first time, it was a lot of trial and error. I wanted so bad to ask the female clerk at the pharmacy counter "Is there a fitting room I can try these on at?" Then all sorts of images popped into my head, mostly of the girl at the counter helping me try them on to get a proper fit ;) BTW, it turns out I have to wear Trojan Magnum XL because of my girth (just average length :( )
Sep 16, 2011. 2:17 PMrricu says:
it would be easier when producers would print out the condom size on the packaging and not make us guess or try to find out fit with trial and error

I try to gather sizes of all kinds of different condoms. here is the list, it may be helpful to others as well:

http://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-size-chart/condom-size-chart
Oct 28, 2009. 2:16 AMredneckjaybyrd says:
If you get a good condom, you only need a regular size condom, no matter how big you are.  You can put a regular sized good condom on your arm even. Condom busts are cause by cheap and or defective condoms.
Mar 1, 2010. 11:17 PM23yearoldsexoligist says:
true
Mar 18, 2009. 3:37 PMnohopcicle says:
hahahahahahahahaha nice
Jul 8, 2011. 8:26 AMhossweightlifter says:
lol at u having a dildo
Mar 20, 2011. 3:47 PMSuper_pride1146 says:
Also, apply slight pressure in the center to assure that there is still an air bubble--that means that theres no tears in the package and thusly, the condom.
Mar 1, 2009. 12:40 AMDevilDriver666 says:
how do you know what size you are? or is it just trial and error? and are free condoms just as effective as bought ones?
Mar 1, 2010. 10:49 PM23yearoldsexoligist says:
free condoms are not as trustable as bought ones,  remember you get what you pay for, if its free then its cheap
Mar 1, 2010. 11:16 PM23yearoldsexoligist says:
i had this happen to me 6 times. a condom that i got from the health clinic for free broke, and i only got a condom from there 7 times! ive bought and 200 condoms over the last 4 years and the ones that i bought, only 6 of them broke. put the condom on befor you use it, and give it a stress test. put it on and stretch it pull it and slide it around to see how strong it is, dont worry about breaking it when it only cost 75cents for a condom and a child cost you about 30,000 once there about 3-4 years of age.
Mar 20, 2011. 3:41 PMSuper_pride1146 says:
I have to wonder if you're using them correctly. What health clinic? Planned Parenthood uses trust, approved brands.
May 6, 2010. 12:53 AMTiktaky says:
 Latex allergies are uncommon however an Intolerance is common (especially in australia with it being nearly 1 in 100)

I suffer from a rubber intolerance, this includes Latex, Polyurethane and Vynal. Meaning Sheepskin condoms are my only option.

With non-latex condoms the expiration date is vital, as some rubbers can break down, and polyurathane is more brital.

Never store condoms in a wallet, direct sunlight or high heat area's (such as in your car) 
Mar 20, 2011. 3:40 PMSuper_pride1146 says:
Either trojan or Durex has a new brand of condoms, SKYN, that aren't rubber based if memory serves.

May 6th is also my birthday :)
Mar 12, 2011. 7:37 PMFreeshka says:
is that a styrafome penis?!... if thats what your in to than who am i to judge?
Jul 20, 2010. 5:47 PMJohnJY says:
Very, very well written Instructable, with pictures of clarity. But sex is not for "fun", it is for love, and therefor should never be done before marriage.
Mar 12, 2011. 7:36 PMFreeshka says:
unless you love someone before marrige.
Feb 24, 2011. 7:45 PMjester_5123 says:
i mean no offense to you or your beliefs, 94, but i believe that there can be love without marriage and that if two people know they love each other, they should be free to make that decision themselves...without me or you or anyone telling them what they "should" or should not do. thats a very personal decision and i would hope that most people prefer it to stay that way...i know i would...and again, i mean no offense...just stating my personal opinion....maybe trying to protect those who feel pressured by what other people want them to do...:-)
Mar 14, 2011. 4:41 PMJohnJY says:
I see your point, but it's better in this modern society where birthrate in teenagers is on the rise, I believe anyway, that it would be better to inform people more boldly to not cause those numbers to rise any farther. So to a teenager "If you love someone it's ok to have sex," it's like saying, to a teenager anyway, "Have sex with anyone you think you love at that point." Although there beliefs and customs are different, my opinion, even though biblical rooted, is based on fact as well. In English, television should stop advertising sex...
Jun 26, 2011. 1:47 PMm4l1n says:
Love is never predictable. I think having "sex with anyone you think you love at that point." is always applicable, since even if you're married you can't know for sure if you'll love each other and be together/married for the rest of your lives. So, and this is my point, live a little more in the present and have sex with the one you love - before marriage.
Mar 15, 2011. 10:07 AMjester_5123 says:
also a good point and i cant deny the validity of that statement. i know how teens are these days (mostly because im still dealing with them lol) and it would do our society much good to take a more active role in educating teenagers and doing everything possible to make sure teens today understand the risks and, if things go wrong anyway, the responsibilities that come with the results.as far as not causing those numbers to rise further, im realistic. i kow that we cant get rid of pregnancy or std's and i know that teens wont completely stop having sexual encounters. i do however know the results in studies show that teen pregnancy and s.t.d. transmission levels have been reduced since the institution of sexual-education classes, but i, for one, can testify to the ineffectiveness and the overall lacking of the program. i realize that every school and every nurse is different, but the funding of this program is inadequate i believe. the program should be revised to provide more information, resources, and take more time with the students on THEIR level. im sure that we can lower those pregnancy and std transmission rates even further through proper education and support of our youth..
Mar 15, 2011. 4:29 PMJohnJY says:
Your comment is of my complete support.
Mar 17, 2011. 10:00 AMjester_5123 says:
thank you :-) too many people these days just dont take the time with their kids or they just dont care. its nice to know there are still level-headed, THINKING adults out there...
Jan 6, 2011. 7:51 PMParrhesia says:
Really glad to see this here! Major props for putting this together. The following is directed at some of the sillier comments, not the author:

When I was in high school (long ago, when Aqua Net and ghetto blasters roamed the earth), I was a member of an HIV/AIDS peer education group. One of the common excuses we heard for not wearing a condom was that they were too small, to which a friend of mine would respond by quietly putting one on his head and pulling it down over his nose.

If you're that big, you don't need a condom. You need a doctor.

Jun 26, 2010. 4:04 PMEarly_Age says:
uhm, ya. me and my boyfriend had sex a year ago, and even though we were both ready to... "Do it" He said he was aroused but when he went to put the condom on, he barely had an erection. Is that because he was nervous, or was it because of me?
Nov 30, 2010. 2:33 PMknuffe says:
It was just nervous i think. XD
Jun 6, 2010. 10:53 PMspooky2012 says:
Another potential problem is if the guy isn't circumcised, since condoms were designed for men who are. You might want to look into solutions for that, since it isn't something that can be resolved with practice.
Nov 30, 2010. 2:33 PMknuffe says:
Not true, what a silly thing to say! Condoms are made for everyone. I be not circumstanced and I don't have problems with them. Neither do anyone I know.

Tip: A good way for men to train putting on condoms is while masturbating. No spills and it wont be so strange.

Have a nice day and blessed be.
Jul 25, 2010. 3:26 PMkonger says:
According you the inventor of condom was also circumcised? You must be missing the important part of skin that protects the P***s or might not know the size of of it that does not make any difference in wearing a condom.
Jun 7, 2010. 12:37 PMspooky2012 says:
I live in the US where most men are circumcised (my boyfriend isn't one of them, and we have problems with them staying on right.)
Oct 28, 2010. 7:55 AMmisspopularityxxx says:
puttin on a condom is so easy all you gotta do is stay calm
and breath slowly i always have to help my boyfriend with it !!!!
Mar 28, 2010. 1:38 PMjaguar2101 says:
so my girlfriend and i have had sex several times....and ive tried many different types of sizes and kinds of condoms....it doesnt seem to matter whether the condom is to big or to small, or what kind it is, it never wants to stay on the base of my penis...it always slides up.....any advice??
Mar 1, 2010. 11:22 PM23yearoldsexoligist says:
he did that wrong, your supposed to squeez the tip of the condom with your fingers so theres no air in there, that can make the condom slide off easily if theres an air pocket.
Jul 15, 2008. 3:34 PM123456789115 says:
am I bad for getting a condom and putting it on? I just wanted 2 no how it fit and i put 1 on and threw it away...so am i bad?
Feb 19, 2009. 10:12 PMbug on fire says:
well if u were bad that means that i will be bad i will try this some time it's just what very keri said practice makes perfect i want to know how to put on a condom fast because if I'm making out with my girlfriend and don't know how to put on a condom then that would be embarrassing and worse i might do it with out a condom. So back to the original question NO YOU WERE NOT BAD YOU WERE ACTUALLY INTERESTED SO THAT IS GOOD
Oct 19, 2008. 4:38 AMVery Keri says:
Practice makes perfect.
Oct 19, 2008. 2:48 AMtaraist says:
No, that was smart! Now you will be more comfortable with them!
Oct 17, 2008. 2:12 PMCrash Plague says:
................. What? No, you're not "bad", whatever that is supposed to mean :P
Feb 19, 2009. 11:22 PMsimpson420 says:
hey mygirlfriend and me had sex and it was my firs time and i guess i didnt put it on right and i came out without it and i had to like go in and grab it after and she as mad about me not putting it on right and it was real awkward and we havent realy talked since wht did i do rong
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