Introduction: How to Befriend a Cat

Cats are strange creatues, but they have weaknesses.
Hold out your hand and let the cat sniff it.
Then rub the back of the cat's ears.
Use both hands on the cat's ears.
When the cat starts enjoying your attention tickle it under the chin.
Hold onto the cat's tail, without pulling, allowing the cat to pull against you. They almost invariably lie down and become ameanable to belly-tickling. They then tend to gnash you with their teeth & scratch... But you've got'em.

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Insh%C3%A4Z made it!(author)2016-06-27

hold out your hand so the cat can scratch it.

I scare away the cat, so I'm going to give this ago. Thanks!

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TamaraT10 made it!(author)2016-06-02

I assume when you say "hold on to the cat's tail" doesn't mean to actually hold it but barely surround it with your hand with a light "grasp" then let it gently slip out as the cat walks away. Not quite sure how to explain but I *do* get it and it does get their attention in a non-threatening way.

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aartcritique made it!(author)2015-11-29

I recommend not grabbing the cat's tail... Unless, of course, you'd like to get scratched... Also, don't try to pet the cat until it allows you to pet it. Let the cat approach you, and crouch down to show that you don't want to hurt her. Be quiet and still if she rubs against you, then gently pet its back.

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AndyGadget made it!(author)2009-09-18

OK, this is going to sound pretty weird, but it does work. It's a method I've developed for attracting cats from a distance of up to 50 yards or so and very rarely fails. 1) Make what I can only describe as a 'hissy whistle' by opening your lips very slightly and slowly sucking in air. This sound is rich in ultrasonic harmonics which attract the cat's attention. 2) Look at the cat then squint and look away for a few seconds. Make the noise again and do the look, squint, look away again. Keep doing this and the cat will pretend to ignore you, but will slowly sidle in your general direction. 3) Look as if you've lost interest, but occasionally make the noise and do the looks again until the cat comes close to you. 4) As it approaches, look away, but leave your hand hanging down. The cat will come and start rubbing against it. You can then start with Lemonie's methods, although I'd be very wary of touching the tail or tickling the tummy of a cat I didn't know - You can get a lot of puncture wounds that way ;¬) Looking directly at a cat wide-eyed is an aggressive move, hence the squint and look away. If you watch two cats who know each other, they will do exactly this. You are befriending a cat by using it's own body-language.

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aartcritique made it!(author)2015-11-29

It's not weird at all. In their language, a slow blink or wink indicates non-threatening behavior. It is often used by cats to say 'I love you' to their people or to fellow cats. I might not be what you'd call a 'cat whisperer', but I am slowly learning the meanings behind their actions and vocalizations.

Here's an interesting fun fact: cats can make over ninety more distinct noises than dogs, but adult cats generally use body language to 'talk' to other cats. This means that a cat's mews are usually aimed towards humans or the kitten's mother, rather than its fellow felines.

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meowzebub made it!(author)2009-11-13

never tried a hissy whistle, but the "squint" (in my case, a slow blink while gently staring into the cat's eyes) is really good for connecting with a strange cat.  I've heard people who fancy themselved to be "cat whisperers" call it "kitty kisses".  whatever. I find it helps to relax my facial and shoulder muscles with a conscious effort (if that makes sense).

Basically, try to mimic the kitty Buddha-gaze that dog people find so annoying. lmao

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Tamaresque made it!(author)2009-10-16

I must try both methods.  My bf has a cat that initially dislikedme (he's a real momma's boy) but once I got my chihuahua cross becameactively hateful.  He will bite and scratch me when my friendleaves the room!!!  Had to stop bringing the dog over, too, coz thecat would lie in ambush for him and have him screaming in fear. Now we have a stand-off situation but I do tend to try and starehim out!  

Thanks guys!

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lemonie made it!(author)2009-09-19

Interesting. I've been thinking of deteting / removing this for a while. L

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AndyGadget made it!(author)2009-09-19

I just came across your Instructable in the side-bar when I was answering a question.
Give the method a try and let me know if it works for you. The 'hissy whistle' should vary a bit, with squeaky bits and sort of mew-ey bits in it.
(Of course this may all be tosh and it's just my animal magnetism which attracts them ;¬)

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AndyGadget made it!(author)2009-09-18

P.S. Best not to do this in public places otherwise the men in white coats may be paying you a visit.

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Phoenix+Flare made it!(author)2014-10-03

Opps I mean neat!

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Phoenix+Flare made it!(author)2014-10-03

Cute! My cat is prone to tail injuries, so might not do the tail thing! Meat!

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catlily made it!(author)2014-09-26

Very good! Does this make your cat noticeably friendly, or just make it not just well...... Hate you anymore?

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nutsandbolts_64 made it!(author)2010-07-03

Explain why our cat is just semi-wild which actually has her territory in our territory which is our house, and she's extremely friendly. That includes her kittens. We keep her outside because, well, she's semi-wild. Besides, her kittens need looking after. Also explain why she understands human language (weird right?). Only one of her kittens survived though :(

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lemonie made it!(author)2010-07-04


(Old thing, old thing - 2007)
I'm not knowledgable enough, to give you a good answer, but how did you come to have your cat?
Domestic cats learned how to manipulate humans a long time ago, most of it involves being cute and little...

L

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nutsandbolts_64 made it!(author)2010-07-04

Let's see. That was years ago, before I even joined this site... Oh yeah, we just found her in our garage, still a kitten.

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lemonie made it!(author)2010-07-04


I'll guess that she has the natural instincts a cat has, but that you have effectively domesticated her.

L

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Esmagamus made it!(author)2008-08-19

You can also let a cat with good taste listen to Opeth. Instant purring.

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Tamaresque made it!(author)2009-10-16

What's Opeth?

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Goodhart made it!(author)2009-11-25
This is Opeth....

 
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Father+Christmas made it!(author)2008-10-26

alas, not too many of our feline friends have such impeccable tastes lol

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xxlcamlxx made it!(author)2009-10-30

Purrr-fect =)

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Violet_blue made it!(author)2009-10-26

Meww awesome !  ^..^                                  

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musicalbee2003 made it!(author)2008-05-09

My cat does the same thing with anything she catches. She once brought a live baby mouse to my little sister, to teach her to "hunt." She must have been so confused when my sister scooped it up into a bowl out of the cat's reach!

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paravou made it!(author)2009-10-21

Aww thats cute 'lets teach the human to hunt'

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bowmaster made it!(author)2007-09-02

Cats Rule!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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lemonie made it!(author)2007-09-02

If you're a mouse (or a bunny for that...) L

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musicalbee2003 made it!(author)2007-09-09

Or a chihwauwau (my cat stlaks them)

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Tamaresque made it!(author)2009-10-16

It's chihuahua!  One of my goggies is 1/2 chihuahua.  (I justthink of chi + hua + hua!)

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downwithwikihow made it!(author)2009-01-03

icanhascheezburger.com is awesome!

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Tamaresque made it!(author)2009-10-16

I agree.  Wonderful way to have hours of laughter!

BTW - the cat hair problem: my bro solved the problem of cat fur in thebaby's room by putting a screen door on to keep the cats out (but allowthem to hear the baby, air the room, etc.).

I have 2 goggies (Ihascheezburger talk) and keep their fur out of mybedroom with a gate.

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funwithfire325 made it!(author)2007-07-31

i like your kitty

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lemonie made it!(author)2007-08-01

It's a pest, keeps pawing my leg and coating me with hair. The keyboard is hairy, everying is hairy... L

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mailkd7 made it!(author)2007-08-08

Yeah, My laptop is extremely hairy. I've told the members of my family that are allergic to pets to stay away from my laptop.

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Esmagamus made it!(author)2008-08-19

My cat hates when I work too much, so, he lies down on the keyboard or on my notebooks, trying to make me stop for a while.

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katschy made it!(author)2009-10-15

I finally put a cat bed just to the left of my desktop keyboard -trained the cat to lie in that when he wants attention.  He'll liein it and sleep; but sometimes he'll stretch out over the edge of it andlet a paw or two rest on the back of my hand as I work.  :)

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xilefakamot made it!(author)2009-05-08

Anything in my bedroom that is fabric and darker than mid-blue is absolutely coated in cat hair. I put it out the window and the birds take it.

(By the way, the fur is on everything but you can only see it on those surfaces)

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lemonie made it!(author)2009-05-08

Since I posted this I've been relieved of the kitties - someone else's problem now. L

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dudaott made it!(author)2007-11-22

Dear lemonie, just turn on your vacuum cleaner, and enjoy your cat THE MOST!. By the way, I'm owned by eight cats....

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darthdarth4 made it!(author)2008-05-19

yeah, you don't own cats cats won you. it's funny

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RoddyTheGreat made it!(author)2009-04-17

i saw on a birthday card: whats the difference between cats and dogs... dogs have owners, cats have staff.

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lemonie made it!(author)2009-04-17

Yes. You ever see a cat fetch a stick...? L

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dpsilver made it!(author)2009-06-01

yes i have cats can be trained just like dogs

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Richie15 made it!(author)2009-10-04

Care to tell us how?

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lemonie made it!(author)2009-06-01

Well done then! L

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darklucifer made it!(author)2009-05-30

my cat won't leave me alone, no matter what i'm doing. all she wants to do is sleep on me.

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trikkedaddy made it!(author)2009-07-27

like me wife...you may be doing it right! :0) They love attention from what I have seen and when you give them what they want, they can't get enough. Good for you, but sorry for lack of sleep.

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lemonie made it!(author)2009-05-30

Yes, they can be pests like that. Shut the door and ignore her (if you can) L

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treesneedtobehugged made it!(author)2009-06-08

cats are the best. i volunteer down in a humane society every Sunday and clean all the cat and dog cages

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lemonie made it!(author)2009-06-08

That's very good of you, plenty of people will donate to these societies (my dad saved coins for "the nice pussy-cats") but it needs someone to put the time in. L

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