How to Get a Girl: a Guide for Geeks Like Myself.





Introduction: How to Get a Girl: a Guide for Geeks Like Myself.

About: I like to blow things up and/or shoot them. haha ya, thats all folks.

In this Instructable, you, yes you, will learn the secrets of landing yourself a true girlfreind.This is not a guide only for geeks, but for every guy that can say "Im single" Follow these simple steps, and the REAL ladies will flock to you. errrr hopefully. Read the instructable to find out more.

Step 1: Know Yourself

This is actually a VERY important step. seriously. I know it sounds corny and weird.... but trust me its not.

As you can see below, the photos of myself show that I truly am a geek. One of my favorite hobbies is nerf. oh yes. nothing like 2inch foam darts flying at highspeeds.

Anyways, nerfing is NOT the most uh, macho hobby. So how does a total nerd get a totally attractive female life partner?

Before you can hope to get involved with and understand a girl, you must understand yourself. Who are you really? what are your hobbies? your likes? your dislikes? Most important, what are your convictions? You NEVER comprimise your convictions for a girl. EVER.

so, do you feel like you know yourself pretty well?
If you do then we can go on to the next step.

Step 2: Express Yourself

Express yourself. I could end this step here. It should be that simple.

Expressing your self can be easy. Just find what you like doing, and do it.Find what you don' like and DON'T do that. Just let everybody know who you are and what you do and don't do.

I like playing guitar. So I play guitar.
I like metal music so I listen to that.
I do not like country music.... eww ... so i dont listen to that much.
I like nerf. I nerf.
I love guns. I shoot them.
Im kinda smart. so I talk smart. (I use large words

See, I act like me, Not like anybody else. I act like who I am. I express myself.
do the same. But, don't express yourself because I express myself. See, that would kill the point.

Now, im NOT saying that you simply dont do something just because you dont like it. for instance, back to the country music. I hate it. My girlfreind loves it. so, I learned to live with it. but i DON"T go listen to it to try to impress her. make sense? Good. on to step three.

Step 3: Get Over Yourself.

Woah. yeah I said it. You need to get over yourself.
99% of all guys deal with pride. We tend to think we are amazing.
Guess what? the world does not revolve around you. I know, new theology huh?

"look at me.....i look good in a tux." now while its not bad to look dang sexy in a tux, let the girls compliment you. dont' do it yourself.

side note: I drive purple car... how loser is that?

If you want to get a girl, you need to be humble. If you seriously think that you deserve a girl, think again. Most girls deserve a guy that will think more highly of her than they do of themselves, a guy that puts her first. Be that guy. Don't fake it. Do it.

Still think your ready for a woman??
cool. the next step is a good one.

Step 4: Finally! Get a Girl!!!

So, you know yourself pretty well, your not afraid to express yourself, and your not an arrogant jerk. Awesome. lets go find some laides!!!

tips on finding a sweet girl:

1. Apply this instructable in public. For instance, while hanging out with your buddies.

2. Don't have split personalities. Girls catch on to those really quickly. this goes back to the "be yourself" part. new people. Unless of course your trying to get a girl that you already know. girls are everywhere.... go meet some! They don't usually bite.

4. Talk. Seriously. Talk to girls. Some of they are actually pretty cool. They usually want to talk, and just need some help getting started.

Onto the next step.... The big move. Asking her out.... !

Step 5: Asking Her Out.

This is the only part of this instructable that is actually scarry.

so, you like this girl that you met, and you have really gotten to know her well. You act yourself around her, and treat her with respect. It seems that she has taken a liking to you as well..... are you ready to ask her out.... well lets find out.

Things to do before you ask her out....

1. Review. Think about it. Do you really like her? Alot? Enough to be stuck with her for a long time? good.

2.Ask your self "Do I have a chance?" this is actually a fair question. Sometimes you can fall for a girl that just hates your guts. In this case its best to just move on. if she doesn't hate you.... you have a chance.

3.Don't plan a dialog. things never go that way. honestly. they dont. Not to mention that they always sound so cheezy.

So... your ready to ask her out.... but how! ready for the answer....

Just do it.

Yup once again its that simple. Just be like "hey, I really like you and getting to know you has been great. Do you want to date?"

If she says yes, congrats!
if she says no, oh well. at least you still have a awesome female freind!

So, as you can see in the photos below....
A guy like myself(GEEK!!!!!) can manage to score a beautiful girl. You just have to be yourself. The whole instructable boils down to that.




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what happends if she is a year older then you

And before you say it if my crush gets mad at my friend and doesnt like him for a week or two no,no no no i put her and all of my friends first i just want her to be happy

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Girls are easy if you know how, find mike suliau on facebook her technique work greats.

I have a crush on this one girl at school she is only 3 hours younger than me. I've already told her i like her. Me and my best friend both like her. She says she likes him although she has been afully nice to me for the past month and i always put her first. What should i do she is very confusing put that in mind.

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I have sort of had the same problem and have known my crush for a while now. I had said to a couple of my friends a few weeks ago and when one of them was about to speak about something relating to me the other friend thought that it was that I said that I liked her (with her in the conversation) as I wasn't in their class at that time and we are all good friends. She said that she is already going out with someone and it has been a bit awkward since to explain although the next day after they said to her she asked me at lunch and I said that I liked her. Anyway we are still friends at the moment 3 days on. Any thoughts on what to do next?

How'd it go my dude... ?

i'm straight up fugly, what do i do about that?

I a glad that you made this. I am very confident that it helped many people out there. I agree with your advice, and it is accurate as well as simple to remember.

Personally, my struggle is that I unintentionally have many different versions of me. I don't know which me to be. I have a me for one friend, a me for another, a me around my family, a me around my teachers, a me around my dog, etc. I even have different mes around just me. I don't have multiple personality disorder, but I feel I come pretty close. I thankfully don't have the memories being specific to a personality thing.

One last thing, It doesn't matter if you can be immature at times, that just makes you more interesting.

Sorry for the long comment, I just have lots of different things I wanted to say.

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Sound like you're over-complicating things. How old are you bud?

I probably am. I would not like to publicly reveal my age but I'm on the young side.

Hey guys, I used to be a loser nice guy who had no success when it came to girls. But I eventually got fed up and changed my life. I'm starting a blog to help guys turn their lives around and bang girls. It's called and until it's all ready, I'll be happy to help any guys with advice from a pro for free.

Hey I made a video about this with some personal tips I used to get my fiance. thanks for the amazing tips as well they will definately help people out.

I am 11 and had a girlfriend before. That did not go so well. What do I do now that I like someone else?

I'm quite shy and don't know many girls but there is one I like but don't know very well I told her u like her and she said I'm ok with bieng single

Umm im a 14 and it worked

did not work. i got my penis stuck in a toaster ;-;;;; and my girlfriend left me for a taco

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I need help with the asking her out part, i have no gut to walk up to a girl and ask her out. I have people ask a girl out for me. I swear they also HATE me. I have asked out like 12 girls in my whole life (i'm 14) and they all said no, no joke! I can't tell why, i'm really good at engineering. I guess girls just care if you have a six pack abs these days.