Introduction: How to Get a Girl: a Guide for Geeks Like Myself.
In this Instructable, you, yes you, will learn the secrets of landing yourself a true girlfreind.This is not a guide only for geeks, but for every guy that can say "Im single" Follow these simple steps, and the REAL ladies will flock to you. errrr hopefully. Read the instructable to find out more.
Step 1: Know Yourself
This is actually a VERY important step. seriously. I know it sounds corny and weird.... but trust me its not.
As you can see below, the photos of myself show that I truly am a geek. One of my favorite hobbies is nerf. oh yes. nothing like 2inch foam darts flying at highspeeds.
Anyways, nerfing is NOT the most uh, macho hobby. So how does a total nerd get a totally attractive female life partner?
Before you can hope to get involved with and understand a girl, you must understand yourself. Who are you really? what are your hobbies? your likes? your dislikes? Most important, what are your convictions? You NEVER comprimise your convictions for a girl. EVER.
so, do you feel like you know yourself pretty well?
If you do then we can go on to the next step.
Step 2: Express Yourself
Express yourself. I could end this step here. It should be that simple.
Expressing your self can be easy. Just find what you like doing, and do it.Find what you don' like and DON'T do that. Just let everybody know who you are and what you do and don't do.
I like playing guitar. So I play guitar.
I like metal music so I listen to that.
I do not like country music.... eww ... so i dont listen to that much.
I like nerf. I nerf.
I love guns. I shoot them.
Im kinda smart. so I talk smart. (I use large words
See, I act like me, Not like anybody else. I act like who I am. I express myself.
do the same. But, don't express yourself because I express myself. See, that would kill the point.
Now, im NOT saying that you simply dont do something just because you dont like it. for instance, back to the country music. I hate it. My girlfreind loves it. so, I learned to live with it. but i DON"T go listen to it to try to impress her. make sense? Good. on to step three.
Step 3: Get Over Yourself.
Woah. yeah I said it. You need to get over yourself.
99% of all guys deal with pride. We tend to think we are amazing.
Guess what? the world does not revolve around you. I know, new theology huh?
"look at me.....i look good in a tux." now while its not bad to look dang sexy in a tux, let the girls compliment you. dont' do it yourself.
side note: I drive purple car... how loser is that?
If you want to get a girl, you need to be humble. If you seriously think that you deserve a girl, think again. Most girls deserve a guy that will think more highly of her than they do of themselves, a guy that puts her first. Be that guy. Don't fake it. Do it.
Still think your ready for a woman??
cool. the next step is a good one.
Step 4: Finally! Get a Girl!!!
So, you know yourself pretty well, your not afraid to express yourself, and your not an arrogant jerk. Awesome. lets go find some laides!!!
tips on finding a sweet girl:
1. Apply this instructable in public. For instance, while hanging out with your buddies.
2. Don't have split personalities. Girls catch on to those really quickly. this goes back to the "be yourself" part.
3.meet new people. Unless of course your trying to get a girl that you already know. girls are everywhere.... go meet some! They don't usually bite.
4. Talk. Seriously. Talk to girls. Some of they are actually pretty cool. They usually want to talk, and just need some help getting started.
Onto the next step.... The big move. Asking her out.... !
Step 5: Asking Her Out.
This is the only part of this instructable that is actually scarry.
so, you like this girl that you met, and you have really gotten to know her well. You act yourself around her, and treat her with respect. It seems that she has taken a liking to you as well..... are you ready to ask her out.... well lets find out.
Things to do before you ask her out....
1. Review. Think about it. Do you really like her? Alot? Enough to be stuck with her for a long time? good.
2.Ask your self "Do I have a chance?" this is actually a fair question. Sometimes you can fall for a girl that just hates your guts. In this case its best to just move on. if she doesn't hate you.... you have a chance.
3.Don't plan a dialog. things never go that way. honestly. they dont. Not to mention that they always sound so cheezy.
So... your ready to ask her out.... but how! ready for the answer....
Just do it.
Yup once again its that simple. Just be like "hey, I really like you and getting to know you has been great. Do you want to date?"
If she says yes, congrats!
if she says no, oh well. at least you still have a awesome female freind!
So, as you can see in the photos below....
A guy like myself(GEEK!!!!!) can manage to score a beautiful girl. You just have to be yourself. The whole instructable boils down to that.
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