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I consider myself to be pretty well on the geeky side, I am an electrical engineering student, avid member of the computer community, and a dabbler of all things technical. I have never been extremely social or outgoing, I'm not the life of the party. Normally I am the kinda guy that you would look over, especially if you are a hot girl. However I have had more than my fair share of girlfriends way out of my league. For instance, the last 2 girls who I dated seriously have both been well out of my league/social circle, who I met in completely different ways/places.

This is what works for me, I have told this to many people, and it has worked for those who followed through. Its not a magical spell to make anyone fall in love with you, but it definitely helps tip the scales in your favor.

my disclaimer is that this works for me, It might not work for you. I do not treat women badly in any way, and I have the utmost respect for women, same as men. I understand that this, or any set of guidelines is not completely definitive or sure-fire, but it is my way, if you don't agree, theres no need to wage any sort of comment war. I guarantee you some men will think I am wrong, and alot of women will. These guidelines have worked for dozens of people.
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NANCYW149 days ago
DavidW7324 days ago

Hello well what can I say
about me? This is not the first time I have give this ago? I will give it
another go. I don’t want to tell you too
much as there will be nothing for you to ask? like to make the lady’s laugh am
easy going relaxed man don’t take life to serious and if I add you to my
favourites its because I find you very attractive I'm looking for someone nice
to spend time with and have a happy life with! Anything you want to now just
ask hope to chat to you soon if I don’t reply happy fishing.

uk2k104 years ago
why is everyone on this page a liar? stop giving stupid hopeful advice to people when you know for a fact it won't work. the only way to get a girl out of your league is to be her friend. the only type of relationship that will come from all your hard work and devotion is friendship and nothing more. unfortunately, most good looking women are pawns and won't even give a person whose character is that of a saint a chance to sweep them away from their feet. besides, in the unlikely chance that one actually does get a hot girlfriend then the most likely outcome is that she would betray you becausem truthfully, a woman that lucked out in the gene pool is in a position that preys on the weak. so one has two options available: (1) face the rejection from the get-go and face the ridiculous friendship option or (2) face the betrayal

in my opinion it is better to die alone. this solitude will make you strong.

now watch some punk complain and moan about my pessimistic view. its not pessimistic. it is the truth. i've been there. and i mean that with both outcomes as mentioned above.

moviA uk2k101 month ago
Might I, to a level, be that punk you were mentioning. ? I agree that, yes, you're never going to get anywhere if you're not willing to be a friend first.
I do strongly object however, you're declaration that beautiful women prey on the weak. Yes, some certainly do, but not all--or even most--by any means. And when one does come across a girl who does, thats not the kinda of person you want to be with anyway.
I the course of dating, yes you're bound to get hurt--and if you don't, consider yourself lucky. I've been in both of those positions as well, so don't claim thats it's ignorant optimism--is realism.
Really though, the best way is honestly to be yourself--with an extra measure of kindness and courage.
Sure, some relationships can be enslaving and painful, but others are healing, liberating, and beautiful.
lylek1 uk2k104 years ago
And start drinking alcohol, once you get a girl drunk it's easy ..
lylek1 uk2k104 years ago
you right but you can pull it off .. confidence, dress and groom yourself (designer clothes), go out clubbing and dance with beautiful girls ( lucky ima good looking south african with rhythm ), get ur confidence up .. if you rich, its easy picking ..

and being alone and facing rejection levels you up, afterwards you'll be playing them. No need to fall in love, it's about getting a piece!

yeah boy!
Muscpro uk2k104 years ago
hey uk2kio
your name sounds like a second chancer and when u tried again obviously got very hurt.
Read johnpoole's story about his 'miss virginia' wife who as he says although he is such an ugly mug got them so many great grandkidz.
This wipes away your own self impressions which very few, besides the woefull - oh poor me type, will take note of.
I have friends across the globe who bond on a universal belief. Inner character brings this. No one including you is without value. Looks fade with age like most else. So clear out the mist friend and look outward not inward for friends.
Our creator taught this basic principle which has never proved false if done unconditionally.
ilpug uk2k104 years ago
i see your point of veiw. I just am more optimistic.
jdubaya uk2k104 years ago
patar772 years ago
You make it sound so easy
moviA patar771 month ago
Maybe it is... ?
Kage7 years ago
too bad ima total loser........(wamp wamp wamp plays in background)
lylek1 Kage4 years ago
Guys cmon, where's that swag! start drinking, having fun, going for random girls .. thats what I do! Confidence, I get beautiful girls ( sumtimes lol ) .. baby steps young players .. rome wasnt built in a day
moviA lylek11 month ago
I built Rome in a day...
moviA Kage1 month ago
Yeah, so am I... Wait; this is me I'm talking about? I take it back. I am the Champion Over-Lord! :D
aw cheer up. you know some fine lady is waiting for you in some strange place with other strange people. find her!
Pics or it didn't happen.
lol :P
CapnTac dabusff5 years ago
mutt256 Kage6 years ago
ya same here :(
an me :(
WhateverH2 months ago

The main advice: don't bear in mind, that she's out of your league! You're the best man on the planet and she's with you - that's all. Make her happy, be charming. Practice is the best way to add self-confidence! Maybe, on-line dating in, Concord https://kovla.com/datings/us/concord/ for example, will bring you some flirt skills? Or, even real love! Anyway, don't ever give up! Good luck!

BrianS173 months ago
watson1214 months ago

I think i found my hero:):)

mnbvmc1 year ago

Why "this" pic? They're too average for words. Theyre the kind of average with a hint of conventional, average beauty, making them even more average. On the other hand, there's a lot of stunning beauty which is completely unconventional (but not "in the beholder", but something of an individual class).

BrianM3 mnbvmc1 year ago

Agreed, they are quite average. I think this girl would be a better example...


great advice about not being a jerk or a nice guy. Being in the middle also makes you intriguing. i'll have to say though that the idea of women being out of your league is where the problem begins. once you start thinking this way, you're automatically putting her on a pedestal and lowering your value. not a great way to start.

Great insight about straddling the line between being a nice guy and a jerk. If you do this well enough and in addition, show a little bit of your mean and vulnerable side every now and then, you will become very intriguing to her because you don't fit in either the nice guy or the jerk categories.

tgurda3 years ago
"How to Pick Up Girls" works and it works on girls that you might have previously thought to be "out of your league". Buck up buddy cause I'm here to tell you - they are very much attainable. Let's jump in and read a bit about "The Face" First Free tip: right now read this & it's just the beginning for how to pick up girls... ATTRACT WOMEN TIP: Your facial expression will get you started on How to Pick Up Girls or shut you down instantly. If your expression is one of sadness or blank, negative or anything besides what I’m about to share then you’ve lost before you even entered the room. Getting started NOW:
How to pick up girls requires some homework. Practice what I’m about to share as much as possible until you get your best at this. Your facial expression needs to be self confident and a little happy. You don’t even have to be smiling but i do recommend a slight smile or a slightly happy face. Depending on your mood and type of day you are having – this may not be apparent unless you are consciously making it happen.

Best to you,

Tom Gurda
dben41 tgurda1 year ago
Agreed. i feel like if you go into the situation with the mentality of "she's gonna like me and this will be an enjoyable conversation" you'll succeed, and the facial expression will come naturally.
dben411 year ago
These are all true principals! I'm starting to date a girl who was runner-up Miss-Utah, and is awesome in every way. I am also a computer guy, a CS major. I felt intimidated by her accomplishments and I know that she could get any guy she wanted. But after reading this, it makes me feel like I'm on the right track. I really liked the line "if you're stessing out, your trying too hard, if she's stressed out, your trying way too hard." I think that really set the vibe for making things work now. :) I'm just gonna go with the flow. And if it doesn't work out, I'll be that much more prepared and confident to date the real Miss-Utah.

Just be yourself truly is the best policy. And be sincerely interested in her, and not just her looks.
johnpoole4 years ago
that is so funny.. but a lot of truth.. i am an ugly as a mud fence.. my wife was miss west virgina the year we met. it may not last, but we have a dozen great grand kids that would be surprised if it doesn't..

you want a date with a stone cold fox.. ask her out.. she is no different then you or the other end of the looks pool. be yourself, make her laugh. polite doesn't hurt.. do not pretend to be something your not..
Perfect advice in your last paragraph - right on accurate.
HollyMann2 years ago
Being funny helps too. Not acting too serious - too over-the-top - that stuff can scare women off. If you're nervous and it shows - that's ok - it is sweet. If you're interested in someone and you think it's worth pursuing - get the nerve to go up to her and chat. Life is too short to walk away on that! ;) BUT, do not call and text her constantly once you get the number ...that = overwhelming or obsessive - take it easy and keep it light.
this is soo true

i used these steps and now im dating blonde blue-eyed TWIN MODELS
ugly dudes get ugly gilfriends, just lower your standards
It's kinda funny the "hot" girls in the pic AREN'T EVEN HOT. ROFL
lylek1 SirClem4 years ago
I was thinking the same thing lol ..
you really got issues if you got to resort to the web on how to meet girls
dont say that you are ugly dudes you should be able to believe in your self OK. my name is hamza from ghana
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