In my relationship I've learned that talking to each other is mighty important and can lead to all sorts of improvements.
And one more thing: I repeat, there are all kind of women, so the hints I give may or may not work with your girl. Please don't be dissappointed if it didn't work.
Step 1: Women are spiders
When you get to know a "normal" woman, you immediately get caught in the net. If you have a girlfriend of your own, you will be observed by Miss Spider. If your'e gay and consider yourself lucky for having a boyfriend, you'll still be observed but you are much more safe. If you want Miss spider to be your girl, well, you'll have to go deeper into the net...
There are murderously cunning traps in it and you have to be very careful, since, the deeper you get in, the difficult it will be to get out. That is, if you can get out.