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Ok, so you asked for it. This will be a bruitally honest guide to some things you can do (as a Female pursuing a man) to promote feelings of love for you from a man.
Please keep in mind there will always be a degree of "Chemistry" involved but this guide will explain some actions you could take to "Mix the chemicals up" a bit.
WARNING: I will do my best to keep this PG-13 but it will contain some sexual references.
Please also note that this is a no B.S. tutorial. Some of this will come off a bit sexist and entirly what you can do for him to encourage attraction.
Please keep in mind there will always be a degree of "Chemistry" involved but this guide will explain some actions you could take to "Mix the chemicals up" a bit.
WARNING: I will do my best to keep this PG-13 but it will contain some sexual references.
Please also note that this is a no B.S. tutorial. Some of this will come off a bit sexist and entirly what you can do for him to encourage attraction.
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Ask, most any man about going for a girl and he will probably reference the "league" the girl he is going for is in, or the 1-10 scale. This same idea applies for women. the only difference is(baring the few "exceptions") men go after women generally plus or minus 1 there league, women on the other hand can quite easily date plus 3 or more there league. For example if you would consider yourself a 6 on the 1-10 scale you could reasonable pursue a male 8 or 9. keeping in mind the more above your league the man the more you will need to put on the table.
to keep this tutorial to a reasonable length and within the PG-13 standard, I will recommend you keep within plus 2 your league or below.
to keep this tutorial to a reasonable length and within the PG-13 standard, I will recommend you keep within plus 2 your league or below.
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Herpes type 1 is usually found orally and herpes type 2 is found genitally. It IS possible to pass type 1 to a partner's genital region and visa versa, though the latter is much more unlikely.
As far as the frequency of occurrence (in the US) it is estimated that 70% of the population over the age of 12 has oral herpes (specifically type 1) and an estimated 25% that have genital herpes (specifically type 2).
This means that 1 in 5 people in the US over the age of 12 have genital herpes, or about 45 million people. 1 in 4 people in the US will contract a sexually transmitted infection in their lifetimes.
While the statistics sound scary, its important to realize that just because someone has an STI, doesn't mean that you will get it as well. Modern medications, like Valacylovir, if taken daily as suppressive therapy and paired with a condom reduces the risk of transferring it to around 4% (man to woman) or %2 (woman to man). Its all about being responsible with your body (whether you have an STI or not) and educating yourself about so you can take the proper precautions.
Also, in many cases someone who has had an outbreak will never have one again or they will decrease in severity as time goes on and your body builds antibodies to fight the virus.
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My doctor told me it was Shingles, and that it's part of the Herpes Simplex II family of viruses, so I'll have to go with that.
It's a disease you can get any time of life, it's not limited only to children.
So annoying!
Loving your new site aswell Lisa! Ladies, check out her site, theres some really good info: http://howtomakeaguyfallinlovewithyou.info/
And to LisaHarris, your guide at www.truthsaboutmen.info is BRILL, thank you! =]
The poor guy has just written a totally useful account of how to 'make' a guy fall in love.
Surely you fellow women were also just browsing the net or looking for tips and were not expecting a knight to wisk you off your feet on your way to work in the morning?
I found all the tips and hits insightful and apriciate the insider opinion. (exactly what I was looking for)
I very much doubt any other women reading this could have tried to believe this article would solve all problems and ensure a perfect relationship - he is an author not a god!!!!
I was looking at this sight because I love my man and despite being positive he is in love with me I was looking for ways to make him feel apriciated. I love making my man feel like a man and I love making him happy, this article mearly points out things in the hope to highlight to us women the small things we often forget about.
Women are not perfect specimins we are the same as men. We want the same final out come as they do we just have a different thought pattern and different sensitivities.
Yes men hide thing from women, but don't kid yourself that you are open and honest to the core. I know for a fact I would never open up or share a personal life thought or experience with someone whom I believed was not particularly interested or wanted to make me feel 'less special'
If I wanted to be complimented by my man I would not wear my (I think) cute black skirt because although he would never be mean enough to tell me he hates the skirt he is not going to compliment me!
If I want to feel lusted by him I turn him on.
If I want to feel appriciated by him, I ask about something majorly important and sit and listen even when he bores me witless knowing it makes him happy.
I didn't mean to write so much I was just annoyed that people can be so blaming when others are trying to help.
Just try to think from your man's point of view. For example - this author - do any of you really, and I mean really think he wrote this to try to give women bad advice? No!! He was trying to help, even if you think he was wrong in what he has said, that doesn't change the simple fact HE was tryinh to HELP!!!!
Ladies if you give your everything into making your fella happy and dedicating him all your love and things are not amazing between you then he is probably the wrong fella. Otherwise he will see and apriciate what you do (men always see they just pick their moments to let you know) and recipricate in the best way he knows how.
Anyway thanks author - totally apriciated the read and your tips. I got exactly what I was looking for out of your article, and I hope these negative comments do not discourage you from writing like articles in future.
And thank you LisaHarris, I absolutely loved the guide on your website. Ladies, check it out, it helped me out loadssss.
xx
I've read through some of the comments and it's clear that there is a misunderstanding from what men 'Actually' want. Women tend to think along the lines of 'You've got to be good looking' when actually men like independent women. There are so many things that women are unaware of!
Nevertheless, great article.
Lisa Harris - www.truthsaboutmen.info
its from a comedian, but i can tell you that what he says of the men is totally true, specially the nothing box.
On a dating website, I don't ask too many women out. They need to make the first move and send me an email. That's how I tell their confidence level. And I've met some very nice women this way. Now that I know what I want, my relationships have been much more satisfying.
The ability to make other people feel good is powerful. A woman can't do that if she is self centered.
Yes, this guy is sexist, but feminist are the same thing just applicable to a different gender.
People are unhappy in their marriages or anything else because of their own faults and false expectations, not anyone else's. Bottom line, if you want a person, you have to offer similar qualities, know how to make them feel good, and circumstances have to allow for a relationship.
http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/2008/08/make-him-fall-in-love-feminine-art-of.html
http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/
And then there's the reality that a lot of these things do work to get a guys attention - and believe me you don't have to do all of them either, most guys are so not used to being treated like a man by any women (starting with their mothers!) that just doing one or two of them warms their cockles enough to open their hearts and minds...
Of course when a man does love a woman, we know he'll take a whole lot less than all of this just to be in her company - but that's a whole new question of whether that's love or codependency!
Anyway, thanks for a thought provoking ible.
http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/2008/08/make-him-fall-in-love-feminine-art-of.html
http://theartofbeingfeminine.blogspot.com/
I read everything. I read your entire article and all of your comments. It was like watching a car accident- I couldn't seem to tear myself away.
I'm well aware you can't make a man fall in love with you. I'm a married adult. Furthermore, I didn't search this article, I saw it as a "related" article at the bottom of the page. I was hoping to find some sweet things I could do for my husband to show some appreciation. Instead, I read an article that comes off as crude, immature, and outdated to me. I am assuming that isn't your intention, and that you are trying to be helpful. I'm not against having respect and giving favors/being thoughtful, but I do expect it to be mutual! Seriously!
I think my comments, and many of the others, are written trying to help *you* out. You don't have to take any of the advice, but it wouldn't hurt you to really consider some of the criticism instead of being so rude.
Your girlfriends and ex-girlfriends are not oblivious to the fact that you would like someone to give you bjs and soothe your fragile ego day in and day out.