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If you are not amongst the estimated one-percent of people that are completely asexual, then chances are you would like to have sex. Unfortunately, not everyone who would like to have sex can do so. There are many factors prohibiting an individual from having sex, including, but not limited to: unwilling partners, religious convictions, immaturity, impotence and a lack of funds. If you are an individual that cannot have sex for whatever reason, then it is fair to say that you need some other form of sexual relief.

Making out is not only a great alternative to sexual intercourse, but can provide practice and familiarity that will prepare both you and your partner for the big deed.

What follows are practical instructions for making out. They cannot possibly be the definitive instructions for doing so since "making out" differs throughout history and cultures as well as from person to person (individual differences in the definition of the term are vast and wide). Not to mention, I am by no means a making out expert. However, I promise that I will try to do my very best.

WARNING: This Instructable may contain material or imagery that may be considered objectionable by small children and adults ashamed of their own sexuality.
 
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Step 1: What is making out?

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Making out has been defined as such:

make out - kiss, embrace, or fondle with sexual passion;

What this means, in short, is that making out is to engage in sexual relations without going so far as to actually engage in sexual intercourse.
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majity2 days ago
A lot
majity2 days ago
I will like it aloy 3
<3
majity2 days ago
Make you next video
gmessenger10 months ago
Hehehehe! Good sense of humour :-). I thought this was 'cute'.
artworker11 months ago
Liked the flirt thing! This is a old school thing you are saying! Nobody flirts like that any more (bad). Good job in reminding that.
SupremeAT2 years ago
I have heard comments from girls and this comment is very repitive amongst girls "I would like a kiss to be spontaneous or random like it could happen at any time rather than planning for it." - So I would have to agree with the co writer as well....
ilpug2 years ago
Well, this has a good amount of useful suggestions that will help a total beginner. That said, well, after a few sessions, one might begin to notice a few flaws in this guide. Namely, nothing about the clitoris, a little more on how to initiate the whole process, and a disclaimer about differing social norms in other countries.
Dammit that's not how it happens and possibly never (if not rarely) is what happens... If that was the way stuff worked I might have slept this weekend, the weekend before that and before that and so on... I think it's a great instructable and is worthy classroom material, It could make a generation of teenagers alot less messed up. The only problem is it makes assumations and a kind of formula for the whole thing, It has never ever worked that way for me or anyone I know, the steps have zero order in practice and nothing will stop you and your partner from breaking every rule in the book once things escalate... Sorry for seeming harsh if I did, this is a good instructable and I suppose the steps are in the most sensible order, except the torture game lasts at least ten steps... or seems to lol. also americans are confusing, you have strange terms that change area to area... also watermelon is wrong, in public is fine if noone sees you lol...
American English is a funny thing. It's important to remember how enormous and populated the US is. We are a nation of immigrants who incorporated their traditions and languages into local culture and a national identity. That national identity varies from location to location, but is generally unified by the ideal of "being American." Just to keep it in perspective: the British Isles can fit inside of the State of Florida. Florida originally was a Spanish Colony. Southern Florida has oodles of Cuban-Americans and people who explicitly identify themselves as Cubans only, in spite of the fact that they are US citizens and have lived here for decades. I use to live in the UK, and there are a lot of words that have very different meanings between American and English. There's actually a linguist who wrote a book that translates many words and idioms between the two nations (partly in jest, and partly seriously.) In most medical schools, there are specific books and dictionaries on what different idioms mean for a general population. It's a crazy mixed up place that is full of (generally) open and curious people. Don't believe that what you see on the TV is the complete story, nor that tourists in NZ is a representative example of the US.
ilpug leebryuk2 years ago
Seems to me that I can understand talking to slang-using Europeans much easier than I can to some of my friends... That said, I am located in Nothern California, a place with many small "Dialects."
exactly as long as you don't believe we ride around in stagecoaches i believe we have eachother sussed... I figured this out after attempting to teach a girl from georgia and a girl from alaska slang....
EMO BARBIE5 years ago
WELL THAT DIDN'T TELL ME NOTHING
double negative!
Oh snap!
So it told you everything?
afridave4 years ago
quite frankly you may as well just go all the way and have intercourse cos the quicker you get all that should we shouldnt we nonsense out of the way the quicker you can get down to having a real relationship (or not) .
brian2506 years ago
We should all share,life is tooooooooo short.
Amen brothaa 
bluepearl4 years ago
sorry to ask this it may be dump but hey, how exactly do you nibble the ear, is it by tongue?
from experience i've found that guys seem to engoy having their ears nibbled
abadfart4 years ago
i like the cuddling but my girl friend isn't so big on it
jaythedogg5 years ago
I grinned IRL at: "Repeat until she climaxes (or pretends to do so)." Then I LoL'd
breath or you'll die lol
Literally ROFL, i couldn't stop laughing at that.
"Flirt" is most likely not the best term to use here. Flirting is done somewhat playfully, and not used to "advance" your position or chances. I agree with the step, not the title. Perhaps "Get Comfortable".
it how they would feel to that person if they are ready and there parter is ready too so they can do it and just be your self and have a good time it away help me even I'm dating
Nudo645 years ago
wow maker faire? love that event!!!
Pyrossian5 years ago
Ignore the hateful comments u didnt just answer the basic question u gave me enough to do with my girlfriend for a while :D do u have any instructiblrs on sexual oscolation? (like from kissing to make out to heavy petting to sex). Although it was described here it was really lightly touched (pun not intended) Either way thanks a lot after 2 months with my girlfriend I'll finally be able to make the make outs more pleasurable :D
Dillster5 years ago
this stuff doesn't even tell me anything
Emma!5 years ago
making out is pretty simple its basically french kissing and can lead to more. but some people are afraid to kiss someone. this is simply because they think they cant kiss and will screw it up. kissing is pretty basic stuff. dont be scared just go for it !!
Just bang em
once, a wise man said

"Why? Because we can."
what if i want one person and cant get her to like me back and i cant stop thinking about her
let her go if she doesn't love you then she's not the one' find some one that you like and find someone who likes you okay.
update i managed to get her < my first girlfriend > but we broke up after her Halloween party still hang out with her some times even though it gets weird still have some feelings for her but she is no were near girlfriend material now her best friend likes me i like her back but i don't want to repeat what happened last time because her friend is actually a lot of fun when you live were i live having fun is rare and enjoyed to the maxxx
Where do you live blow blow land to the maxx
i did get something valuable from my last girlfriend a higher look on life better self astyme and with her experience she tought me the sweet spot to making a French kiss taste and feel nothing sort of amazing !!!
is it just me or is doing this to a woman is like trying to start a generator. If you dont get the whole sequence right then your just going to be cold and in the dark the rest of the night.
lobo_pal5 years ago
Lack of funds? Nice.
i had a girl friend and wen she tried to kiss me i got scared and i went home and she kept on calling me and i wudnt answer the phone i was scared and i still like her but she broke up with me and she moved to cali and she called me this morning and we talked for 5 hours but i want to go back out with her wat do i do
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