Introduction: How to Talk to an Ex...

This is going to be complicated... because there's more than one way and there's more than one kind of phonecall or conversation for an ex to want to have...

I could really do with a female collaborator to make this instructable more useful and make sure it is one sided...

*A small addition, some of this advice would probably help with people you don't get along with, thanks to shaunak for that little nugget.

Step 1: They Call You...

So say the ex in question calls you up, probably withheld number (it's an ex thing they know you know them but still...) The hello will tell you alot about how the conversation is likely to go.

Your phone rings, you pick up, you say hello and you hear a sad/unhappy hello and you say hello again as you normally would and get back another sad/unhappy hello which has a breath or sigh in between answers and replies. Your call could go a few ways, they may start talking then burst into a slew of painfully accurate abuse, profess their undying love for you or have quite alot of bad news in general that prompted them to call you. It's usually best to start out with something quite innocuous like 'how are you?' or 'what have you been up to?', at this point and at every point try not to be offhand, I don't know why but it makes an ex incredibly angry. However if they sound agitated or very upset it could be worth asking 'is everything alright?' but this could all come back to something like 'NO YOU SON OF A B****, YOU RUINED MY LIFE/BROKE MY HEART/I THOUGHT YOU CARED' Usually if you want to get a real conversation going for whatever reasons with an ex that is angry like this you should try getting them to talk about what's been going on since you broke up or ask them about something that makes them happy, just don't say something stupid like 'So how are you after I dumped your sorry a**?' (not something I've come our with but worth avoiding).

If you do get them talking to you civilly try to keep the conversation a bit lighter, and if you do get on to the topic of your relationship then don't bring up the bad times or ask heavy questions until appropriate, otherwise you run the risk of killing the conversation.

Even if you just want to be friends again or get to a point where you can be in the same room as eachother without everyone else being awkward, it's a good idea to talk in person so if you are getting along well then maybe ask them for coffee or lunch. Best do that at somewhere more neutral, not either person house, but somewhere you used to go could be a nice touch.

If you get this far you're probably into the realms of speaking to them well enough to re-establish a friendship or a relationship.

Look how angry they are...

Step 2: You Call Them...

Now if you're the one calling them it gives you alot more control over how the conversation goes because you're intitiating it. If you're calling to see how they are or for other reasons asking how they are is generally a good start maybe something like this:

Ex - Hello
You - Hiya
Ex - oh you, hello there
You - how are you? (in happy genuine tone)
Ex - Im good, I've been busy
You - I'm glad to hear, why what have you been up to? (again GENUINE)

Again it's good just to get talking and if you where just calling to see how they were then just let the conversation run on without asking much of them other than chatting about whatever it is/was you two liked to speak about. Mayube though you called because you want to see them for whatever reason, again the reason is best left until you see them unless they say 'Im not going out with you again... 'and you just wanted to see them', in that case say why.

To get them in to a mind set for asking them out for coffee or whatever you could say something along the lines of 'it's been a long time since we saw eachother' or if they say this you could say reply 'well maybe we should go out for coffee?'
The other thing to do could just come out of the blue in the conversation and say, 'hey do you want to have coffee with me?' (I don't mean right off the bat but in the middle of the conversation maybe when you're both laughing or fondly remembering...)

Hopefully by now you know what you're doing, don't put your feet up yet though because remember that your situation is probably still delicate.

Not amused I know...

Step 3: So You Meet Them in Person

This is a continuation of step 1 or 2 for those that want to see them

If it's been a while or even just a week when you meet them do say hi and greet them with maybe a hug or a kiss on the cheek depending on how it feels but if you're not sure it's best to play it 'cool' (for lack of a better term) to avoid being awkward. If they look really well do say 'you look great 'or something along those lines but if they do look like hell be a bit more honest because fake flattery makes ex's mad (again just seems to) don't say anything really harsh but if they look rough saying something like 'you look like I feel' or 'you look like you've had a long day' in a joking way can make someone feel better (note: if they are very vain/proud/superficial fake flattery may be better).

Again getting talking is the big thing because there's likely to be more awkwardness in person, but once you get a conversation going try your best not to attempt to steer it, even if you have intention and want to get them onto a topic pushing the talk a certain way can put you back to square one of silence.

If you find yourself sitting in silence smiling awkwardly making a joke about it can help alot just saying something like 'hmmm this whole not talking thing is fun' or ' I love these awkward little moments when you really don't know what to do or say', another alternative is to make an odd noise or do something funny that made them laugh. Think of what you always wanted to say when everyone gets in a lift together... (at this point I should mention I'm very embarrassing to be around if you're self conscious) I always get into lifts and when there's other people there noone speaks I just love saying something really stupid for badness like 'looking at someone and going 'psst everybody be really quiet we're in a lift'

Basically something to break the silence...

When you're there enjoy yourself you're likely to have a good time once both of you drop your guard a bit.

Step 4: You're Out With Your Girlfriend/boyfriend and Bump in to Them

This situation generally results in both parties attempting to upstage eachother with their respective partners. Try your best not to sink in to this because it just makes things worse for you and your ex and has the potential to damage your current girlfriend/boyfriend's relationship with you.

If your ex starts saying things like 'this is bob heee's (if they're playing that game the ee sound gets elongated in he/she) an instructables moderator (yeah I know odd thing to use but have to work instructables in....) Rise above it and reply something along the lines of ' that's great I'm glad to see you happy' (try not to do this with malice but if you must make it subtle)

If you really can't stand being within a mile of your ex just be quick saying something like 'yes this is so and so, we're just on our way back to mine/hers/his', the ex will most likely get the message or if not they just won't want to hear much more anyway...

Step 5: You're at a Party...

Ok this one always happens at some point and it can be really bad so I might aswell start with worst case scenario...

You're at a party and you've either just pulled a member of the opposite sex (or same I suppose... have to be politically correct and whatnot...) or you were just chatting someone up. You turn round and there's your ex glaring at you from the end of the room. This is definitely not the time to give a wave and a wink, don't make eye contact and pretend not to see them, yes they will still be around later but whens the rage or disdain is fresh you're way more likely to cause a scene/ruin someones party. Later on when you undoubtedly bump into them on your way out of the toilet or something say 'Hi I didn't know you were coming tonight' in a happy tone, this is not anything more than catching them out a bit to help defuse your situation. Be friendly and polite and save the fight for your phone if it's going that way. Don't get all high and mighty or gloat, that's called poking the bear and it always ends up in tears or stripping (not the kind that makes people think yay)

Ok maybe you arrive at a party and see your ex the minute you come in to a room, if you're on good terms then you're fine just remember that they're around and subtlety and consideration are sensible and apparently makes you a good person. (apparently)

Right, same scenario but you're on bad terms, either fresh break up or just general hate of eachother (strong word choice I know), it could be best to leave them alone or just sort of say hello but leave it if you get that 'you're balls are mine / you bottomfeeding bitch' vibe from them. If you can manage to speak nicely then be appropriate (for lack of a better term) and don't make anybody cry / get mad, the goal isn't to 'win' anything here it's to survive with all limbs intact (yes girls for now we'll call that a limb)

Step 6: The Bad Bits...

Right during writing this I've had three calls from an ex that won't leave me alone, we're talking stalking...

So there comes a point when enough is enough and you need to get on with your life in peace, this may involve any number of things (remember a restraining order is cheaper than a hitman)

If an ex will not stop calling even though you believe you have made things clear about leaving you alone check this list about things you said:

- All word used were firm and clear cut (Over, No, etc.)
- You were firm with them (Tone and use of language, no ahhhs ummms and maybe's and with confidence behind them)
- You made no accidental allusions to hope etc for relationship
- Don't ever say you miss them even when you do (not to be mean but it's sending convoluted messages)
- You said this in a calm manner, not gentle but if you say it all when you're angry they'll think you said it in anger and didn't mean it...)
- Don't go back on yourself, repetition is fine but going back on your words is bad...

If they still don't leave you alone sometimes it takes you to make them hate you, this can be cruel I know it's like telling kids there's no santa but in the end it's better for everyone if they end up just thinking 'well he/she's a bitch/prick'. If they tell you things about you like you're amazing at such and such or I always thought that you were really good with monkeys (we need monkeys) then disillusion them with you, because when they say it they're very likely to be wrong (they pick things that you really can't fathom sometimes) Just be frank, honest and a bit of a jerk, not too much but enough of one that they don't just say you're modest.

Changing your number has minimal effect, you'll bump in to them somewhere and you have to go to all the effort of telling everyone you changed your number. Barring their number may be an option and would send a message to them.

Getting on with your life and being well and happy could also help alot, though you may get the obligatory 'how could you just erase me from your life?' (in fact I got that half an hour ago...)

I know it sucks when an ex calls and doesn't leave you alone, usually all starts civil, right?. When it all turns nasty and they start trying to make you mad or say things that just aren't true it's easy to get angry but do your damnedest not to get really mad, mine started telling me i turned in to an asshole followed by but what did I do? well i was good to you... (in reality a malevolent bitch who tried to manipulate me and hated not managing to) and eventually I cracked causing about a grands worth of damage to my house and furniture in all while on the phone telling her exactly what i thought, this is why we don't get mad kids... If you know they are go out to the street so you just look like a lunatic and don't go for the punching bag, you'll end up with a broken ceiling joist and a ripped punching bag...



Step 7: Right Well...

I think I've covered a decent amount but this is a work in progress because I'll have missed things and moderators if anything's offensive please don't unpublish, instead just say and I'll fix it, as I said I could do with a female colloborator or someone with a stable life and ex's...

Remember they're not all lunatics...

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with the maximum sex i want, and that always make me sick, until i went
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and now my husband and i are enjoying sex like never before, all thanks to
dr usobo contact the great man on his email drusobospelltemple@gmail.com
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with the maximum sex i want, and that always make me sick, until i went
online and i saw the profile of doctor usobo, i complain to him and him
assured me that my problems will be over, he help me with his herbal cure
and now my husband and i are enjoying sex like never before, all thanks to
dr usobo contact the great man on his email drusobospelltemple@gmail.com
1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
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not good in bed at all when we have sex he is not always able to satisfy me
with the maximum sex i want, and that always make me sick, until i went
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assured me that my problems will be over, he help me with his herbal cure
and now my husband and i are enjoying sex like never before, all thanks to
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1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
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with the maximum sex i want, and that always make me sick, until i went
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assured me that my problems will be over, he help me with his herbal cure
and now my husband and i are enjoying sex like never before, all thanks to
dr usobo contact the great man on his email drusobospelltemple@gmail.com
1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
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not good in bed at all when we have sex he is not always able to satisfy me
with the maximum sex i want, and that always make me sick, until i went
online and i saw the profile of doctor usobo, i complain to him and him
assured me that my problems will be over, he help me with his herbal cure
and now my husband and i are enjoying sex like never before, all thanks to
dr usobo contact the great man on his email drusobospelltemple@gmail.com
1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) If you want a child.
(5) If you need financial assistance.
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ChartyC (author)2015-01-07

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obohenekekele@gmail.com the spellcaster i meet online who help me to cast a pregnancy spell that make me got pregnant, He is a man who enjoy helping people he have help me and most of my friends and today we are happy we have kids we can call our own,email the great DR oN obohenekekele@gmail.com for all kind of problems like BRING BACK YOUR EX, DIVORCE, GOOD JOB.. and you will be happy you did

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ChartyC (author)2015-01-07

I'm charıty chooce from USA. i have been married for 13years without a child birth,i have visited different homes in search on how i could get pregnant,it seems like i have wasted all my time visiting those homes...In short,I m very happy today i now have kids i can now call my own and i want to say a very big thanks to DR OBOH HEKEKELE of
obohenekekele@gmail.com the spellcaster i meet online who help me to cast a pregnancy spell that make me got pregnant, He is a man who enjoy helping people he have help me and most of my friends and today we are happy we have kids we can call our own,email the great DR oN obohenekekele@gmail.com for all kind of problems like BRING BACK YOUR EX, DIVORCE, GOOD JOB.. and you will be happy you did

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Nicolef2 (author)2015-01-06

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Nicolef2 (author)2015-01-06

I'm Jenny Kehoe from united states, i have been married for 14years without a child birth,i have visited different homes in search on how i could get pregnant,it seems like i have wasted all my time visiting those homes...In short,I m very happy today i now have kids i can now call my own and i want to say a very big thanks to DR ugono of dr.ugonospelltemple@gmail.com the spellcaster i meet online who help me to cast a pregnancy spell that make me got pregnant, He is a man who enjoy helping people he have help me and most of my friends and today we are happy we have kids we can call our own,email the great DR on dr.ugonospelltemple@gmail.com for all kind of problems like BRING BACK YOUR EX, DIVORCE, GOOD JOB.. and you will be happy you did,

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Nicolef2 (author)2015-01-06

I'm Jenny Kehoe from united states, i have been married for 14years without a child birth,i have visited different homes in search on how i could get pregnant,it seems like i have wasted all my time visiting those homes...In short,I m very happy today i now have kids i can now call my own and i want to say a very big thanks to DR ugono of dr.ugonospelltemple@gmail.com the spellcaster i meet online who help me to cast a pregnancy spell that make me got pregnant, He is a man who enjoy helping people he have help me and most of my friends and today we are happy we have kids we can call our own,email the great DR on dr.ugonospelltemple@gmail.com for all kind of problems like BRING BACK YOUR EX, DIVORCE, GOOD JOB.. and you will be happy you did,

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Leila FranktonG (author)2014-12-23

what are wonderful work Dr ogun has done for me and my children, I am Mrs. Leila from Canada, my husband left with three kids and go for another woman, I tried all my possible best I could to get him back but it was not working out at all, one blessed day I read many reviews concerning Dr ogun and this make me feel so good that this is the end of my problem, I was so impressed with the reviews I read concerning him, and this gave me the motive to email doctor and call him so I explained everything to him, he told me that he promises me with his words that after three days my husband will come back to me, I thought it was a joke and I was so annoyed while he did not do it instantly, so I decided to have some patients, and wait patiently for him, to my own surprise mu husband really came back when we was about to have breakfast, he has never had breakfast with us before, he apologized for his wrong and have breakfast with me and our kids, we were so happy to have him back again he our lives, and he has promise to spend all his days of his life with us without any problem, what are wonderful work Dr ogun did for it, if you are having relationships issue this is your best time also to contact the great Dr ogun so that he also can help you via ogunlovespelltemple@gmail.com, greatsolomonalter@outlook.com call him via +2347032286452

THANKS DOCTOR

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Leila FranktonG (author)2014-12-23

what are wonderful work Dr ogun has done for me and my children, I am Mrs. Leila from Canada, my husband left with three kids and go for another woman, I tried all my possible best I could to get him back but it was not working out at all, one blessed day I read many reviews concerning Dr ogun and this make me feel so good that this is the end of my problem, I was so impressed with the reviews I read concerning him, and this gave me the motive to email doctor and call him so I explained everything to him, he told me that he promises me with his words that after three days my husband will come back to me, I thought it was a joke and I was so annoyed while he did not do it instantly, so I decided to have some patients, and wait patiently for him, to my own surprise mu husband really came back when we was about to have breakfast, he has never had breakfast with us before, he apologized for his wrong and have breakfast with me and our kids, we were so happy to have him back again he our lives, and he has promise to spend all his days of his life with us without any problem, what are wonderful work Dr ogun did for it, if you are having relationships issue this is your best time also to contact the great Dr ogun so that he also can help you via ogunlovespelltemple@gmail.com, greatsolomonalter@outlook.com call him via +2347032286452

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KeffiB (author)2014-12-01

Hello readers
HIV has taken so many lives so do cancer, I
was having them both, I contacted Dr.Ajagbo,
and I told him that I have HIV and Cancer. He
told me that my case is a special case. That
the items he needs will be much. I asked him
how much it will cost me. He told me that it
will cost me $150 only, I was only having
$100, and I told him the amount I have. He
told me that after the cure I should promise
him that I will pay back the remaining $50, I
told him that I will. He prepared a cure for me
and sent it via Courier Delivery Service; I
managed to pay for the delivery and legal
practitioner that signed the goods for the
transfer to my country. I received the parcel,
it was a portion, I drank it as he instructed
me to, and I went to do a test I was healed, I
was tested HIV negative and the cancer was
no more,please help me thank him, I
haven???t seen a person like him before, I
have paid him back in 3 fold, you can get
your healing from him and him alone, contact
him now Ajagbospelltemple@gmail.com if
you don???t have email kindly contact him
via his mobile phone number on
+2348156759423.

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KeffiB (author)2014-12-01

Hello readers
HIV has taken so many lives so do cancer, I
was having them both, I contacted Dr.Ajagbo,
and I told him that I have HIV and Cancer. He
told me that my case is a special case. That
the items he needs will be much. I asked him
how much it will cost me. He told me that it
will cost me $150 only, I was only having
$100, and I told him the amount I have. He
told me that after the cure I should promise
him that I will pay back the remaining $50, I
told him that I will. He prepared a cure for me
and sent it via Courier Delivery Service; I
managed to pay for the delivery and legal
practitioner that signed the goods for the
transfer to my country. I received the parcel,
it was a portion, I drank it as he instructed
me to, and I went to do a test I was healed, I
was tested HIV negative and the cancer was
no more,please help me thank him, I
haven???t seen a person like him before, I
have paid him back in 3 fold, you can get
your healing from him and him alone, contact
him now Ajagbospelltemple@gmail.com if
you don???t have email kindly contact him
via his mobile phone number on
+2348156759423.

author
KeffiB (author)2014-12-01

Hello readers
HIV has taken so many lives so do cancer, I
was having them both, I contacted Dr.Ajagbo,
and I told him that I have HIV and Cancer. He
told me that my case is a special case. That
the items he needs will be much. I asked him
how much it will cost me. He told me that it
will cost me $150 only, I was only having
$100, and I told him the amount I have. He
told me that after the cure I should promise
him that I will pay back the remaining $50, I
told him that I will. He prepared a cure for me
and sent it via Courier Delivery Service; I
managed to pay for the delivery and legal
practitioner that signed the goods for the
transfer to my country. I received the parcel,
it was a portion, I drank it as he instructed
me to, and I went to do a test I was healed, I
was tested HIV negative and the cancer was
no more,please help me thank him, I
haven???t seen a person like him before, I
have paid him back in 3 fold, you can get
your healing from him and him alone, contact
him now Ajagbospelltemple@gmail.com if
you don???t have email kindly contact him
via his mobile phone number on
+2348156759423.

author
KeffiB (author)2014-12-01

Hello readers
HIV has taken so many lives so do cancer, I
was having them both, I contacted Dr.Ajagbo,
and I told him that I have HIV and Cancer. He
told me that my case is a special case. That
the items he needs will be much. I asked him
how much it will cost me. He told me that it
will cost me $150 only, I was only having
$100, and I told him the amount I have. He
told me that after the cure I should promise
him that I will pay back the remaining $50, I
told him that I will. He prepared a cure for me
and sent it via Courier Delivery Service; I
managed to pay for the delivery and legal
practitioner that signed the goods for the
transfer to my country. I received the parcel,
it was a portion, I drank it as he instructed
me to, and I went to do a test I was healed, I
was tested HIV negative and the cancer was
no more,please help me thank him, I
haven???t seen a person like him before, I
have paid him back in 3 fold, you can get
your healing from him and him alone, contact
him now Ajagbospelltemple@gmail.com if
you don???t have email kindly contact him
via his mobile phone number on
+2348156759423.

author
KeffiB (author)2014-12-01

Hello readers
HIV has taken so many lives so do cancer, I
was having them both, I contacted Dr.Ajagbo,
and I told him that I have HIV and Cancer. He
told me that my case is a special case. That
the items he needs will be much. I asked him
how much it will cost me. He told me that it
will cost me $150 only, I was only having
$100, and I told him the amount I have. He
told me that after the cure I should promise
him that I will pay back the remaining $50, I
told him that I will. He prepared a cure for me
and sent it via Courier Delivery Service; I
managed to pay for the delivery and legal
practitioner that signed the goods for the
transfer to my country. I received the parcel,
it was a portion, I drank it as he instructed
me to, and I went to do a test I was healed, I
was tested HIV negative and the cancer was
no more,please help me thank him, I
haven???t seen a person like him before, I
have paid him back in 3 fold, you can get
your healing from him and him alone, contact
him now Ajagbospelltemple@gmail.com if
you don???t have email kindly contact him
via his mobile phone number on
+2348156759423.

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best.temple.1 (author)2014-11-08

I
am happy to report that my wife and I are now happily back together. I
have to say it was effortlessly done! Within 72 hours, My wife is back
in my life. My wife left me a year ago.with my two kids The longer she’s gone, the
more I see what a jerk I was. At first, I blamed her for leaving. I told
her she was ‘wrong’. In fact, I slapped Scripture on her, trying to
guilt-induce her any way I could. My anger make me only to pushed her farther away.
I can’t believe the way I acted. My wife gave me chance after chance,
and I ignored her.

I contacted Dr Ogbodu and within a few minutes of speaking with him, I
realized that Dr Ogbodu was the one person whom I could completely trust.
I just wanted to thank you for all your help! and I will always be using Dr.Ogbodu for further
work in the future because he really put smile on my family again. We are now blissfully celebrating our Birthdays
together. Thank you
so much!!!
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JamesW6 (author)2014-11-05

My name is Kate Williams. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man Dr emua brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i should not worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so i contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i did them all, he told me to wait for just two days and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully did what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away, since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that's why i want to say a big thank you to Dr emua This great man made me to understand that there's no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can also CONTACT FOR ANY KIND OF PROBLEM Like

(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/ men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) Herbal care
(10) Help get people out of jail
(11) Marriage Spells
(12) The Miracle spells
(13) The beauty spells
(14) CHARM PROPHECY
(15) The Spell of Attraction
(16) Evil Eye Spells
(17) Kissing Spell
(18) Remove Spells disease
CONTACT HIM NOW AT:dremuahelphome@gmail.com OR CALL HIM ON +2348143101585

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JamesW6 (author)2014-11-05

My name is Kate Williams. i want to use this opportunity to thank my great doctor who really made my life a pleasurable one today. This great man Dr emua brought my husband back to me, i had 2 lovely kids for my husband, about 3 years ago i and my husband has been into one quarrel or the other until he finally left me for one lady. i felt my life was over and my kids thought they would never see their father again. i tried to be strong just for the kids but i could not control the pains that torments my heart, my heart was filled with sorrows and pains because i was really in love with my husband. Every day and night i think of him and always wish he would come back to me, until one day i met a good friend of mine that was also in a situation like me but her problem was her ex-boyfriend who she had an unwanted pregnancy for and he refused to take responsibility and dumped her. she told me that mine was a small case and that i should not worry about it at all so i asked her what was the solution to my problems and she gave me this great man phone number and his email address. i was doubting if this man was the solution, so i contacted this great man and he told me what to do and i did them all, he told me to wait for just two days and that my husband will come crawling on his kneels just for forgiveness so i faithfully did what this great man asked me to do and for sure after two days i heard a knock on the door, in a great surprise i saw him on his kneels and i was speechless, when he saw me, all he did was crying and asking me for forgiveness, from that day, all the pains and sorrows in my heart flew away, since then i and my husband and our lovely kids are happy.that's why i want to say a big thank you to Dr emua This great man made me to understand that there's no problem on earth that has no solution so please if you know that you have this same problem or any problem that is similar, i will advise you to come straight to this great man. you can also CONTACT FOR ANY KIND OF PROBLEM Like

(1) If you want your ex back.
(2) if you always have bad dreams.
(3) You want to be promoted in your office.
(4) You want women/ men to run after you.
(5) If you want a child.
(6) You want to be rich
(7) You want to tie your husband/wife to be yours forever.
(8) If you need financial assistance.
(9) Herbal care
(10) Help get people out of jail
(11) Marriage Spells
(12) The Miracle spells
(13) The beauty spells
(14) CHARM PROPHECY
(15) The Spell of Attraction
(16) Evil Eye Spells
(17) Kissing Spell
(18) Remove Spells disease
CONTACT HIM NOW AT:dremuahelphome@gmail.com OR CALL HIM ON +2348143101585

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DaniC1 (author)2014-10-05


i broke up with my girlfriend for
another girl about a month ago. during
the break up i was there for my ex, as
i knew i broke her heart, but i really
did care for her. when i realized i did
not have feelings for the girl i left her
for, i discovered i do have real feelings
for my ex. anyways, I'm in the process
of mending a broken relationship.
about two weeks ago i told her i
wanted a second chance because i
really do care for her even though i
broke her heart. i have given her space
over the past week as i have said my
part. i asked her to lunch today and
she accepted. we went out and had a
good time. we went to lunch and on a
walk, but i didn't mention getting back
together as i didn't want to force
anything on her, we just hung out and
i tried to show her i care. she came
back to my house and met my parents,
which she never met while we were
dating. when she left i didn't hug her
or anything. i simply told her i had a
good time. my question is, now what?
do i text her or do i let her text me? i
want to give her space, but i want her
to know i really do care about her. any
advice would be appreciated.contact email:doctorbalaya@gmail.com
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BenL1 (author)2014-08-07

A few days back, i realized i have made very big mistake. by break up with girlfriend, in the first place i overreacted. now i want my girlfriend back. But the big question on my mind is how do i get her back, it was a very big situation for me to get her back. All thanks to DRM.OBOM the great man was able to bring back my girlfriend just in 2days. i have been trying for 4weeks and some days to get her back for, but just in 2days DR.OBOM, now we are together again as one. It’s possible to get your ex back, to getting your ex back quickly, contact DR.OBOM on homeofsolutions1@gmail.com or call +234703319835

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aimee88988 (author)2013-10-13

You seem to have dumped a lot of people !! Idd like to add that much of this works with people with whom you just cant get along, not only ex'es. Great work.

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allaboutmyriches (author)2012-01-09

all right i broke up with my old girlfriend a couple weeks ago. i dated for about a week then ended it because i wanted my ex back. how do talk to her about getting back together because she's been dropping hints that she may want me back.

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nathan733 (author)2011-05-18

im guessing you been there before?

author

Yeah, always seem to be there somehow... Every now and again I manage to almost take my own advice too...

author

ya ive been there to. ;)

author

Haha, it's all good in the end...

author

ha will not for me so far.

author

Yeah but if I keep saying it maybe it'll happen ;p

author

ya maybe.

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bassclarinet23 (author)2009-11-16

J.D. (Zach Braff)! I love Scrubs.

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Ninzerbean (author)2009-07-06

Speaking from being on the receiving end of a break up, I would like to add that the dumper should tell the dumpee that they are sorry as often as possible. Especially if they cheated and lied and hid their money and didn't treat them fairly in the divorce. The lack of constant apologies makes the dumpee want to extract one at every chance by bringing up a list of past stupidities and making the dumpee seem not at all lady-like for behaving like a petulant child. I'm over it now but it would have been faster if I gotten some compassion from the dumper.

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I can't turn around and just agree, having been on the business end of a gun because of a certain woman and her generally psychotic ways, I can agree on parts of that but at the same time there are times when the dumper was in the right. You do have a point, and I'm glad you got over it but at the same time it's not always the case, it gets messed up when the dumper isn't who did all the wrong but did some, also I guess I pointed this more at ex's in general, like girlfriends etc. and never gave much thought to even more serious chunks of life, I'm glad it applies to some extent but honestly if you think it's not enough I'd be happy to contribute to a collaboration on the likes of ex wives, especially after the last few days.

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