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This is going to be complicated... because there's more than one way and there's more than one kind of phonecall or conversation for an ex to want to have...

I could really do with a female collaborator to make this instructable more useful and make sure it is one sided...

*A small addition, some of this advice would probably help with people you don't get along with, thanks to shaunak for that little nugget.

Step 1: They call you...

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So say the ex in question calls you up, probably withheld number (it's an ex thing they know you know them but still...) The hello will tell you alot about how the conversation is likely to go.

Your phone rings, you pick up, you say hello and you hear a sad/unhappy hello and you say hello again as you normally would and get back another sad/unhappy hello which has a breath or sigh in between answers and replies. Your call could go a few ways, they may start talking then burst into a slew of painfully accurate abuse, profess their undying love for you or have quite alot of bad news in general that prompted them to call you. It's usually best to start out with something quite innocuous like 'how are you?' or 'what have you been up to?', at this point and at every point try not to be offhand, I don't know why but it makes an ex incredibly angry. However if they sound agitated or very upset it could be worth asking 'is everything alright?' but this could all come back to something like 'NO YOU SON OF A B****, YOU RUINED MY LIFE/BROKE MY HEART/I THOUGHT YOU CARED' Usually if you want to get a real conversation going for whatever reasons with an ex that is angry like this you should try getting them to talk about what's been going on since you broke up or ask them about something that makes them happy, just don't say something stupid like 'So how are you after I dumped your sorry a**?' (not something I've come our with but worth avoiding).

If you do get them talking to you civilly try to keep the conversation a bit lighter, and if you do get on to the topic of your relationship then don't bring up the bad times or ask heavy questions until appropriate, otherwise you run the risk of killing the conversation.

Even if you just want to be friends again or get to a point where you can be in the same room as eachother without everyone else being awkward, it's a good idea to talk in person so if you are getting along well then maybe ask them for coffee or lunch. Best do that at somewhere more neutral, not either person house, but somewhere you used to go could be a nice touch.

If you get this far you're probably into the realms of speaking to them well enough to re-establish a friendship or a relationship.

Look how angry they are...
 
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DannyS113 days ago
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MaryL269 days ago

When I married my husband I was already pregnant and so I didn't have a job. He had a really good job though so I was able to stay home and take care of our son when it was born. When we had our second child we moved to a bigger house, but then strange things started to happen. Things would fly off the walls and doors would slam at night. Our oldest son talked about seeing figures and hearing voices. We consulted a medium and they said the house was haunted. After living there about a year more with only minor occurrences we moved out. That was when the bad luck started to happen. Everything started to fail, with my husband's job, our money and our luck in general. I went back to the same medium and they told me that a spirit had followed me and placed a curse upon me for disturbing it and not being respectful in the previous house. He tried to remove it but was unable. The misfortune kept going on and getting more severe as I tried to search out someone to break the curse. But when I found Dr. Grea he finally did it. Things started turning around almost immediately after he cast the spell and have been great from there! This was really a miracle for us, Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

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emum18 days ago

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emum18 days ago

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I am so filled with joy because of what Doctor Azua Atete did for me with his spell. I have never seen a Doctor so kind to restore marriage with his spell. My wife and i broke up years ago because we were always fighting,she left with our 2 kids without tell me or anyone close to me where she was going, i searched every where looking for her but i couldn't find her. One day my friend came to my office and told me about Doctor Azua Atete's powerful spell so i immediately contacted him for help and he told me that my wife will come back to me with our 2 kids begging me on her knees for forgiveness within 12 to 16 hours after he has finish the preparation of the spell. I want to tell the World that Doctor Azua Atete is a God on Earth because everything happened just as he said. My wife is back and we are both living happily with our kids. Here is my number +1512-430-1539 YOU CAN CALL ME TO CONFIRM. Do you need help of any kind than contact Doctor Azua Atete today via email: doctorazuaatetespelltemple@outlook.com or via website: http://drzazazworldofpowerfulspellwebscom.webs.com or Whats App or call him: +2348068784784

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ElizabethF22 months ago

When I married my husband I was already pregnant and so I didn't have a job. He had a really good job though so I was able to stay home and take care of our son when it was born. When we had our second child we moved to a bigger house, but then strange things started to happen. Things would fly off the walls and doors would slam at night. Our oldest son talked about seeing figures and hearing voices. We consulted a medium and they said the house was haunted. After living there about a year more with only minor occurrences we moved out. That was when the bad luck started to happen. Everything started to fail, with my husband's job, our money and our luck in general. I went back to the same medium and they told me that a spirit had followed me and placed a curse upon me for disturbing it and not being respectful in the previous house. He tried to remove it but was unable. The misfortune kept going on and getting more severe as I tried to search out someone to break the curse. But when I found Dr. Grea he finally did it. Things started turning around almost immediately after he cast the spell and have been great from there! This was really a miracle for us, Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

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ElizabethF22 months ago

When I married my husband I was already pregnant and so I didn't have a job. He had a really good job though so I was able to stay home and take care of our son when it was born. When we had our second child we moved to a bigger house, but then strange things started to happen. Things would fly off the walls and doors would slam at night. Our oldest son talked about seeing figures and hearing voices. We consulted a medium and they said the house was haunted. After living there about a year more with only minor occurrences we moved out. That was when the bad luck started to happen. Everything started to fail, with my husband's job, our money and our luck in general. I went back to the same medium and they told me that a spirit had followed me and placed a curse upon me for disturbing it and not being respectful in the previous house. He tried to remove it but was unable. The misfortune kept going on and getting more severe as I tried to search out someone to break the curse. But when I found Dr. Grea he finally did it. Things started turning around almost immediately after he cast the spell and have been great from there! This was really a miracle for us, Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com. Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

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LanceT13 months ago

I just want to share the good news of how I got my husband back loving me more than before. I got married to my husband 6 years ago , we have a lovely child , I and my husband began facing challenges and he started telling me words that hurts so bad. We eventually broke up 2 years ago , but I couldn't cope with out him because I love him so much , so a friend introduced me to Solution Spell Temple ( SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM ) she told me she got her husband back with the help of the Solution Spell Temple , just in 2 days after they cast a spell for me , my husband began to call me and was begging for him to come back to me. For 8 months now he has been so loving and respectful to me more than ever before. All thanks to SOLUTIONSPELLTEMPLE@GMAIL.COM. Contact them with that email and get you relationship / marital solution.

LanceT13 months ago

HE broke
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I gave as much detail in my initial email as possible. Dr. Grea analysed my complex situation very carefully and responded quickly and honestly with various suggestions. I chose to go with his recommendation of a permanent solution and haven’t looked back. He gave me timings and a clear understanding of what I should expect from the spell. I was advised that it would take up to three days in my case before I started to see any change. However two days after the casting, my ex approached me and we talked through all our past problems. He is now in a stage of terrible confusion due to the feelings he still has for me.He broke off the engagement with the other woman he was with and now we are happy together because of the spell casted by Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com.

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LindsayT15 months ago

I gave as much detail in my initial email as possible. Dr. Grea analysed my complex situation very carefully and responded quickly and honestly with various suggestions. I chose to go with his recommendation of a permanent solution and haven’t looked back. He gave me timings and a clear understanding of what I should expect from the spell. I was advised that it would take up to three days in my case before I started to see any change. However two days after the casting, my ex approached me and we talked through all our past problems. He is now in a stage of terrible confusion due to the feelings he still has for me.He broke off the engagement with the other woman he was with and now we are happy together because of the spell casted by Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com.

LindsayT15 months ago

I gave as much detail in my initial email as possible. Dr. Grea analysed my complex situation very carefully and responded quickly and honestly with various suggestions. I chose to go with his recommendation of a permanent solution and haven’t looked back. He gave me timings and a clear understanding of what I should expect from the spell. I was advised that it would take up to three days in my case before I started to see any change. However two days after the casting, my ex approached me and we talked through all our past problems. He is now in a stage of terrible confusion due to the feelings he still has for me.He broke off the engagement with the other woman he was with and now we are happy together because of the spell casted by Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com.

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My Name is Damien Sofia. Seriously i flattened when my Husband of 5 years left to be with another woman in Torino. I cried and sobbed every day, until it got so bad that I couldn't bear it anymore. and i reached out to the Internet for help, until i hit on the real thing, and that is you Dr Ogba. I almost gave up trying to get my Ex Husband back and having a contented family again.. I had tried the whole lot I knew, and with your spells, blessings and extraordinary magical powers, he did all the work, and immediately after 24 hours, my Ex Husband came back to me and he was penitent for everything that he has done. And now my life is balanced and i am happy again. Dr.Ogba you do a great service to people, and I don't think many people had known about you. He is the diamond in the rough. Thank you Dr.Ogba You are talented and you give off yourself so freely like you did to me. Thank you for weaving your magical love spells for me and Damian. He is back to me just the way it was when we first met.. from the depths of my soul! I am immensely happy now. Thank you and God bless you so much sir. now my man is back to me just in 24 hours, as you have said it..wow.. i am fully rewarded. Thank you so much sir, Lots of appreciations.. Here is Dr.Ogba Email: ogbapaullovespellcaster1@gmail.com tel: +2348116144331..

LindsayT16 months ago

I gave as much detail in my initial email as possible. Dr. Grea analysed my complex situation very carefully and responded quickly and honestly with various suggestions. I chose to go with his recommendation of a permanent solution and haven’t looked back. He gave me timings and a clear understanding of what I should expect from the spell. I was advised that it would take up to three days in my case before I started to see any change. However two days after the casting, my ex approached me and we talked through all our past problems. He is now in a stage of terrible confusion due to the feelings he still has for me.He broke off the engagement with the other woman he was with and now we are happy together because of the spell casted by Re_unifyexlove@outlook.com also visit his website page via: http://reunifyexlove.webs.com.

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