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We've all come across this problem... You spend time with your *best mate of the opposite sex* and then you fall in love :P.. so sweet

Well telling her is actually quite easy.. Yes it is more easier said then done but with these simple tips your sure to catch a big one...

 
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Step 1: Where your at with this girl/boy

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Ok well the most obvious question is when u flirt does he/she flirt back with u?

If so its easy.. if they dont not so easy..

Now i know this instructable is about *how to tell a friend u like them* but the relationship and feeling must be strong in order for this to work

Body language: the main conversation tool is body language.. More of the conversation is through your body than your verbal communication... So be very conscious of the way each body position is posed.. Im not telling u to be worried about your body language because that looks funny :P

Ok so when your around this person you must use open and relaxed stances and expressions.

A nice calm face as the one shown below will prove to be worth while... Note the next few pictures
Palms slightly faceing outwards provide a more safer and open feeling then the crossed arms pictured afterwards.

Here are a few body language links
http://www.deltabravo.net/custody/body.php - table of some of the bod language signs
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Body_language - explanation of body language
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jamie8929 days ago

I like a guy who is my best friend, but I don't know if he feels the same way I do. Day before yesterday, I had send him a message asking him that what if I like him more than a friend? what will be his reaction?" ...he replied back saying, "Ahmmm...I don' know"...what do you think he meant by that? Is he confused? or he doesn't want to say anything as it may hurt me(if it is a negative response)?

LoomSisters1 month ago
Um I like this guy but he's part of the popular crowd. He went out with my best friend for a year and I hated them both. I was best friends with him but now we are in secondary school and we have drifted apart. I'm so confused though because his friend came up to me and said:
Matt (his friend):Are you single?
Me: No, why?
Matt: Oh it's just Will (my crush) wants to go out with you.
I was freaked out and Matt walked off. I didn't whether they were being sarcastic though. What should I do? :(
neipkatt3 years ago
i really like this guy but idk if he likes me back all of my friends say that he dose like me but im just worried that if i tell him that i like him and he dont like me then it will be weird to talk to him
but i dont no what love feels like but when im around him my tummy turns upside down and when im not around him i cant stop thinking about him is this love??
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
yes that is a serious side effect caused by love... try to notice the little thinks. if he likes you and I mean truly likes you, he will be just as scared as you are and he will drop very small hints to see if you pick up on them.
example,

say you're both in school and hes done with his work but you're not and he waits for you?!?!

if you talk to another guy in front of him that is not his friend and he gets quiet or finds a dumb excuse to leave like I gotta go water my plants?!?!

ive done that in the past.. and its nice when a girl makes it obvious that you are more important than the other guys by ignoring guys that hit on you
It's either that or it is INFATUATION
u r in love... just say that u love him... if it is a negative return well just live with it... what i mean to say is forget about him.. find a new guy.... . bu if u really love him, then try to make him a bit jealous... wear make up.. wear prettier stuff... i did that and i have a date... so try Ur best and, u'll do great <3 <3 <3 :)
(Sorry for the english, Im Latvian..)
So.... I have this friend that I know over 10 years, but I havent seen him for 1-2 years and we started to rarely talk. Last year I started to really like him.. But I know that he will not like me, because Im not like the other girls....And we had a little fight..well i think it was a fight....
He only thinks of me as a friend....So i geave him a message that told him we have to go our separate ways. He shocked me with his reply! I read the message over and over but still I didnt believe him, but my heart told me otherwise... I just started to cry! I gave him / us another chance. I know that Im hurting myself with this... but I cant let him go... I tried to let go, but he didnt want to let go! Please help me! What can I say to him (maybe he has a girlfriend) that wouldnt be awkward latter? And maybe how can I get over him?
it sound like you're both confused.. what was the fight about?, some times its just a way to get your attention
Lovergirly2 years ago
I have a guy friend who I really really like but he teases me and messes with me I can't tell if he likes me or not.also every time I ask him who he like he says I'm not telling u. He has me confused .help?
we usually say that when we like you but are just as afraid as you to day it... next time you ask keep pressing playfully for an answer and sit really close to him and if you find a way to hold his hand to " look at it " go for it.
rokker782 years ago
I like this girl in my school and we are great friends but mainly text and Facebook eachother and she just broke up with her boyfriend and she only likes me as a friend and what should I do to get her to go out with me?
ClemensY2905 years ago
ok this will be a hard one for you im guessing ok how do you find out if a girl is single, without asking anyone or any of her friends and without checking the status on myspace theres this girl, we talk alot, she had a boyfriend like 6 months ago, but now i dont think she does but im not sure
well don't i am a girl from experience.. a boy tried to stalk me and i didn't like it.. just text her or ask her politely like "hey .. i was wondering.. r u still going out with _______________?"SHE WILL only think that ur curious or wanting to date her but stil.. it's worth the while . she might be single.. if she says she is single .. then bring her flowers candies chocolate.. she might think it's cute and date u !! i hope that's better than stalking .. :) goodluck! <3 <3 :P
I think the only option you've left yourself is stalking her.
agreed
or asking her. but stalking always works!
"without asking anyone"
79robbie973 years ago
Hey, I really like this girl, i liked her once befor then we became friends and i tried to convince myself that were only friends. Ive knowen her since i was 4, and were great friends. and now i like her again. but i dont want to tell her how i feel because if she doesnt like me back then im afrid we wont be friends. Can i have so help?
XbeerrootX3 years ago
Okay so i really really like my female best friend and i wanna tell her how i feel but idk. I met her two years ago and i started to like her a bit, but she had a bf already so i backed of and stayed a friend. Her and her bf broke a while back and my feelings for her came back, but i kept them at bay by telling myself she is just a friend, but over the last couple months the feelings came back much stronger than ever. Over the last year we have become really close and talk to eachother everyday on the phone and always go to eachother for advice. I wanna tell this girl how i feel about her, but im not sure if thatz the best choice or not HELP D:
You should definitely tell this girl she might be feeling the same way! If she is your best friend there is a reason for that. She might be feeling the same way about you! Next time you have a chance tell her it will only make your relationship stronger. Relationships are more fulfilling when they grow out of a friendship! good luck let us know what happens
neipkatt3 years ago
im not good enough to ever get the guy i want....
life sucks
elmo595 years ago
I've been good friends with this girl since we were 9 or 10 and I've always had a thing for her. We're now 16 and 17 and neither of us have had significant boy/girl friends in that time. I really like her and we're going on holiday together soon (our families are friends). I don't know whether i should do anything. Help!
Just look at your body language. Does she look like she's flirting?
zmendez3 years ago
Ok i have a girl tht i liked for the pass year, or so, she hadnt been dating for some time, and i want to ask her out, but the problems is tht idk if she is really into me and on the other hand my ex is somewhat neutral... so plz plz plz plz plz plz HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Jackie243 years ago
what should i do if my best friend is dating my ex-boyfriend and she tells me they want to plan to kiss. and no one knows they r dating expect me and another dude and she tells me not to tell anyone but she keeps on trying to make me jealous and it made me explode so i told three people and one of the girls told my friend and another girl told her friend and my friend keeps saying it is not true and they think i am a huge liar now and i dont know what to do plz someone help me i am only ten and i have no one to help me!!! plz plz plz give me some opinions!!!
Well I have this friend (u don't need to kno his name)that I've had since year 4 and now I'm in year 6.him and I have been very close friends but since year 4 everyone in my class says that we r made for eachother.I didn't like him that time.now I'm in year 6 people r still saying that.My 2friends kept on saying that I wanna kiss him and on that same day I had a dream about the boy.the next day I had feelings for I'm till now.I'm going on a trip as a year group to fairplay house .I've been planning to tell him on the trip(the trip is for 2 half days)but I don't kno how to or wat to say !! I'm so scared
I'm in middle school and there's this girl who i am just kind of friends with. She is like reallllllly popular and i realllly like her... How can i ask her out? Great 'ible btw!
same with me
BOMBOMBOMB (author)  mynameischeese5 years ago
Lol hey mate sorry for the late reply. Yeah this happens quite a bit. Now your gonna have to work hard on this one. if your kind of friends well then it can work. Just get yourself around her. You know talk to her as much as you can. But remember dont change yourself to get her to like you. Cause if a girl needs you to change so she'll like you. Then stuff her she's not worth it.. Remember the social status bar is there to be broken. Just because its socially un acceptabel doesnt mean you cant do it. Change whats acceptable.
oh yea, and theres this really annoying girl who i am 90% sure likes me but i need to tell her i don't like her. how do i do this without hurting her feelings?
there is a girl like that who likes me!! it is annoying and i don't like her.... what should i do?????? please help
hey, i have this "problem" with a guy.. :/ sry not with one.. 'cause some of my friends have love feeling, but i wouldnT hurt them.. and i wanna keep our friendship what should i do? anybody.. boys if u have any idea, please help me (: thanks a lot
Lawlho ChantaLL4 years ago
Break it to him gently. That's what i would want, as a guy. Or just ignore the subject, and when he asks you, flat out say that you're just friends.
Bring a guy, I would say:

a) Say nothing. Cruel, but sometimes best

b) If there the macho-I-Don't-care-screw-the-world type, break it to them, nicely. might be worth pursuing another date, to gently let them know

Good Luck!
just tell him that you dont want a relationsship with hima atm. don't leave it too long or he will think about it loads and eventually develop feelings for you, if not already. hury hurry
well, just go upfront and tell her that she is a nice person but you dont have those type of feelings for her. (the nice person bit is integral, it will calm her down before she even gets pissed off.)
ok thanks
have you ever told a friend u like her? thanks for the advice!
I think its funny to see what guys do about girls. Here is a tip for any guy out there : be yourself and if you mess something, dont worry. :)
cdsmall14 years ago
i m doing this for my sis just so you know she likez thiz guy he said " i like u" she walked away wat doez she do plz help
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