How to have sex

Step 8 Oral Sex

For girls...

So guys this one isn't as common, sure girls love it but a lot of people seem to be against these days, why exactly?

Anyway, there are two schools of thought here, you can either stay up a little and be all gentle and ticklish, or you can go to work... Either way a few things to remember would be, cock your head to one side, the same you kiss with is generally easier, while you're working your way down it's nice to tease and kiss her, personal choice there but... So once you're down there it's a case of just getting stuck in really, start gently, about the middle, run your tongue up and down, finding where she likes it the most. If it's nearer the top try rolling your tongue over the clitoris, it will be easy enough to find because your tongue is helpfully sensitive. If you find she enjoys being licked out nearer the actual opening then try applying more pressure with your tongue and rolling it in and out of her, for lack of a better word, hole...

This does take practice, though some get it straight away it's one of the lesser spoken of sexual acts, mainly down to most dude having something against it.

Some other things to consider, breathing, you'll find that unless you have a very long tongue or nose you'll not actually be able to breathe through your nose pressed against her thigh, best bet the trick is to breathe through your moth periodically by using a sort of smiling motion, allowing you to continue without interruption by moving your head or suffocation...

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For guys...

Well, first of all - is your partner circumsized or not? This can alter the way you perform oral sex.

As with the vagina, the penis can be stimulated in many ways. Every guy will prefer something a bit different. So yet again - ask for preferences or find them out yourself through experimenting.

Make sure you don't scrape your teeth on the skin or push yourself too hard - gagging isn't fun for anyone. And, yet again, this is not porn. Learn what works for you and your partner and go with that! ;)

Some suggestions for fellatio:

• Remember that you can use your hands and your mouth and the same time - just try to keep them working together and not against one another!
• Try focusing on different areas of the penis - the head, the shaft, a mixture of both.
• You don't have to just go up and down - try "swirling", using your tongue, etc.
• Alternate between your mouth and hands. Sometimes you'll find that your lips might get a bit numb or your forearm will start cramping if you go too long.
• Make sure you're keeping the saliva level in check - not too much, not too little. :)