How to French Kiss

How to French Kiss
Ahh, the French Kiss...The timeless symbol of romantic passion that we all have seen two people engaging in, one way or another. We see it in movies, hear about it from friends, see it happening at parties, and read about it in books and magazines. Chances are, if you haven't experienced it, you want to. It is an exciting and intimate moment between two people who are attracted enough to each other to kiss. French kissing can come quite naturally to some of us, and can intimidate the rest.

If you are interested in French kissing, I also highly recommend the Intructables on the site How to Kiss and How to Make Out. Both are very informative and helpful to those curious about kissing and hit all the topics that should be addressed. Not sure how to kiss? Well, French kissing shares many of the same principles as normal kissing and making out as far as technique, but if you are interested in gaging body language or how to work up to a French kiss, take a look around.

In this Instructable, I aim to focus on the French Kiss alone. The French kiss is not a science, but rather an art that is open to interpretation for all who are interested. There is a certain amount of skill involved, but it is mostly instinct that will come naturally with time. By creating this Instructable, I hope to help you be a confident, compassionate, French kisser and alleviate your nervousness about kissing.
 
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Step 1The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly

The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly
There are some standards of things that are fairly constant across the board that I will go in to depth about. The definition of a French kiss, as defined by wikipedia, is "a passionate romantic or sexual kiss in which one participant's tongue touches the other's tongue (or lips) and usually enters his/her mouth." Well, I think we all knew that much, so I hope to be able to teach how to French kiss well. We have all heard horror stories about "bad kissers" and obviously do not want to be labeled as such. Read on to find some "Do's" and "Don'ts" of French kissing.

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Jan 9, 2012. 1:51 PMxPandalovex says:
so im not sure what snogged is..but! im like 13 and i have kissed plenty of guys. im not to young in my book. i have kissed them on the mouth, cheek and french kissed. some have been very akward, slimy, bad, and rarely awesome. but according to these guys my lips are so soft they are mushy. ;o
Jan 26, 2012. 7:43 PMlalaluppsy says:
your lips are never mushy i havent kissed a guy well like french kiss!
Jan 26, 2012. 7:41 PMlalaluppsy says:
Okayy im 12 and i never kissed a guy like french kiss but i have kissed a guy like a peeck how can i actually have a guy look at meeh and ask me out so i can french kiss? plz answer something?!
Jan 4, 2012. 11:22 AMtaraaaa says:
okayy,,im 16 and ive never kissed a guy before but the other night i kissed a guy who is older so he has kissed a lot of girls and im worried that he may have thought the kiss was bad,,he must have been comparing me to the other girls he kissed! also,,when i kissed him he immediatly started putting the tongue in and i did the same so our tongues were like forced together,,,how do i prevent this from happening again?! what are you supposed to do if both of us are pushing our tongues out?!?!
Mar 11, 2009. 4:17 PMmaz^_^ says:
ooh mii lipz look juzt like dat
i muzt have gewd lips
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atleast datz wat iv been told
_ :) ;)
Dec 22, 2011. 5:34 PMInsaneReality says:
you need to learn to spell.
Dec 21, 2011. 12:29 AMInstructable04 says:
SSSSSSooooooooooooooo, would anyone suggest french kissing a 13 year old girlfriend for the first time??
Oct 8, 2011. 3:28 PMPera Bozic says:
I am 21, and I have never kiss a girl. So...
Dec 10, 2011. 9:20 AMkitty0236 says:
Don't be like 'i'm 21 and i haven't had my first kiss yet' The best comes to the ones who wait! You'll know when its the right time, and it'll be the best. When your young, you can be silly, and kiss anyone, and its not that nice, but when your older, you know who you really love, and it will be the best first kiss ever!:) I wish i waited till i was older:/
Dec 10, 2011. 9:20 AMkitty0236 says:
Don't be like 'i'm 21 and i haven't had my first kiss yet' The best comes to the ones who wait! You'll know when its the right time, and it'll be the best. When your young, you can be silly, and kiss anyone, and its not that nice, but when your older, you know who you really love, and it will be the best first kiss ever!:) I wish i waited till i was older:/
Nov 28, 2011. 2:16 PMshortywillruletheworld says:
im in sixth grade and i have never kissed a guy and almost all of my friends have i feel like the young one who never does anything social
Sep 28, 2009. 11:40 AMxPaRaMoRE.RoCKeR.T_Tx says:
lol im onle 12 and iv already snogged 2 boys xD
im not even that popular!
its weird cuz the most popular cutest boy in my year loves me like
crazy
and we go out xD
everyone is so jealous C;
im so lucky.
hopefully im gonna french kiss him like this tomoz
so
wish me luck!! :D lol
p.s. dont say im too young
Nov 4, 2011. 5:28 PMautumn_hardin says:
SWEET! i snogged a girl >.<
Jun 29, 2010. 7:27 AMprincessrad111 says:
;A; im 13 and i never kissed a guy..
Jul 26, 2011. 11:44 AMsupertoria12 says:
I know what you mean. I'm 16 and I've never had a first kiss either. Or a boyfriend.
:'(
Sep 9, 2011. 3:37 PMShany120 says:
I'm around 20 years old (don't like to say my age) and I've had a boyfriend, but were not together any more and i haven't ever kissed. But, i haven't met anyone i really like yet, I'm giving it time.
Feb 1, 2010. 11:26 AMtreyxwifey1 says:
hahaha. your too young ! and why you sitting on heree braggin ? lmao
Feb 25, 2011. 9:01 AM66490168 says:
Hi u too young,
Dec 29, 2009. 7:22 AMnikky ilysm says:
i am 12 and i have snogged bout 10 guys and they were all hot a popular

ps don't be afraid if you have never snogged and the boy has don't be scard i am telling u from experience but other way round
Jan 7, 2011. 3:05 AMsmeeves says:
You and paramore rocket are both too young haha.

I had first g/f and first kiss which escalated into first everything, starting when i was 18.

(Yes i know i am late. Regardless, 12 is too young. Dont you have to go through puberty first?)
Sep 24, 2011. 2:07 PMleecopp10 says:
I found it hard to learn how to french kiss, til i found this post thanks, but if you want to learn how to seduce at the same time check this out i found!
Sep 24, 2011. 12:21 PMsswanzy says:
am 18 and have never ever kissed a gal !
Sep 12, 2011. 10:11 PMsfancov says:
you know kiss second communication between lovers you can take it easy without
violation ways or in embarrassing ways .... but i think she is cute female hhhhhh
Sep 5, 2011. 12:00 PMlgloria says:
i was bit conscious about the kiss but your ice cream idea really help me out.. in dos and donts during the kiss
Aug 26, 2011. 1:13 PMgverma1 says:
again many thanks to you for posting steps by step guide.
your article is really informative.However i was looking out for French Kissing Videos. and i found here on this site. French Kiss Guide.
i am engaged. and want to try this on my partner. let see how it goes ;) . wish me luck. :)
Aug 22, 2011. 5:29 PMrdobski says:
Hah im not braggin at all,i had my first kiss when i was 11,which wasnt too long ago,see it was just like a kiss a simple one.
The reason why im not bragging is because it was at school.I wanted it to be more romantic like a second stage kinda kiss or third,I mean my first kiss is by the guy i love,and he loves me to death,hes promised every single way,so theres this fair soon so.. i have to try and get his lips locked on mine.. :)
Aug 6, 2011. 11:11 PMpmalepe says:
people im 14 soon i havent done it yet,, i want it 2 be extremly speacial.. theres this boy Devon his in grade 11 dammit his good looking i want 2 do with him but not sure
Nov 12, 2010. 12:40 PMX.ILoveeYoou.X says:
I am 13 an haven't had my first kiss yet. There is one boy who knows I haven't and he said he can make it different, but I am really nervous as I don't know how to do it :S Please help.
Aug 6, 2011. 11:09 PMpmalepe says:
hey.. im Palesa im also 13 turning 14 soon.. i havent done it yet but i have had so so so many chances to .. but i want it 2 be special but im nervous.. so have u done it yet
May 17, 2011. 10:43 AMtetheredcat says:
If you're that nervous about it, you probably aren't ready yet.. take your time and stop stressing. It's supposed to be fun. and if you're worried, then it won't be!
Apr 4, 2011. 5:36 PMederusha says:
Its ok im only 11 and I've had my first kiss its not hard and not embarrassing that u haven't had it yet. you really dont pucker u just touch lips the first time.
Jun 30, 2011. 8:47 PMNotYou11 says:
okayyy so having your first kiss isnt even weird jus dnt kiss in some awkward place..for example kissing at the movies is the best place. thats where i had my first kiss n yes it was a french kiss jus make sure that the dude knows how to!
Jun 6, 2010. 2:55 PMjc2010 says:
ok my boyfriend wants me to kiss him and i do! its just that ...well i have never kiss someone before and im kinda of nervous :/ any help on wat to do???
May 27, 2011. 4:53 PMbstanger says:
Don't be nervous! Here's a good thing to know: First kisses are ALWAYS awkward. That perfect romantic-comedy movie kiss never happens. So just keep positive, and you'll get better. If he's a good guy, he'll still like you. And if he doesn't, dump him!
Sep 16, 2010. 4:58 PMrobyn4jonnhyD says:
just get in there girlfrieeennnddddd, the tounge and everything, maybe get him to slip the finger
Aug 21, 2010. 6:03 AMkurokaichikun says:
To start off, tell him you love him. Now for the kissing part. When you guys are going to kiss be sure you two are in an environment that you guys feel comfortable in. It is also best if you guys are in a private area because you guys wouldn't want it feelin' akward for both of you. When goin in for the kiss, just STAY RELAXED and close your eyes and thank god for this wonderful moment. Its also best for you guys to take the kiss nice and slow, just make sure its a kiss you two will remember forever. (I know this is kinda late but i hope this advice will help you in the future) Good Luck ;)
Nov 1, 2010. 1:05 PMjane91 says:
Good points ... the setting is very important and you could know how to kiss well but for any sort of kissing ... especially a first kiss between two people it's good to be somewhere where you can relax, take your time, and not be in a big hurry. I would also add that it's good to start slow and build up the kissing so you start getting close, hugging, maybe a quick peck on the lips and then build to more passionate kisses. There is also good information at http://www.kissing.bz  Enjoy your kissing!
May 18, 2011. 7:44 PMkalyn1 says:
that looks hot
May 12, 2011. 11:37 AMhowtokissinfo.com says:
Its been far too long since Ive had my tongue sucked lol.Did I just say that in Public.?
I wonder what they call French Kissing in France?
Oct 28, 2010. 7:52 AMmisspopularityxxx says:
i luv kissing , shifting and snogging guys !!!
I've been with my guy for about a week and I've
slept with him some might call me a slut lol

ps dont worry we used a condom xxx
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