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As a member of the International Guild of Knot Tyers, I'd recommend unlaying that rope being careful not to release the twist in each chord - just lift it away. That way you can lay it back together again so the metal's buried in the centre of the rope.
JFDI as told. What you wear under the pack frame is up to you, the torsion on the frame from that weight and distance may be considerable, and break spine spurs if carried directly on the bones as a corset does, causing permanent disaility.
Stitching or contact cement - or both
Seven Archangels, Michael, Raphael, Gabriel, Uriel, Saraqael, Raguel, and RemielAdd a tensor stop within the wing an inch or so below one hinge to limit it's spread. All you need is to screw a short piece of elastic to limit the throw, or wire and a catch.