I have been married for 40 year, have two children who are living away from home in other parts of NC. I have been married to Joe since living moving from RR. in 1969. We own a small home in Jamestown, N.C. that we have lived in for about 28 years and are now retired and living alone and enjoying our small garden and lots of fishing and lots of canning, cooking, freezing . Some of my friends call me the "farmer's wife" since I married a man who was completely country and I was from the city.…