makalove

About
i am 41 years old, abundantly curvy, intensely sensual, pansexual, masochistic, and submissive. i am owned property in a full-time power exchange relationship.

i live in Norman, Oklahoma with my Sir and our teenage stepson.

i have been actively involved in local food, sustainable agriculture, alternative energy, sustainable housing, local music, and radical politics since 2002. i currently serve as the volunteer administrative assistant to the general operations manager of the Oklahoma Food Cooperative (http://www.oklahomafood.coop).

i am passionate about cooking and feeding people. Folks in my community call me "The Soup Fairy" in honor of my habit of creating beautiful, one-of-a-kind soups and meals from whatever ingredients are on hand and feeding them to anybody i can find who's hungry. You can purchase my cookbook (and other books, occasionally) at http://www.maka.net/veni/books.html. All proceeds go to Veni's surgery fund (http://www.maka.net/veni/).

i am a healer. That doesn't mean i heal people. It means i heal myself, with the help of facilitators, and i facilitate other folks healing themselves. Currently i am pursuing a bachelor's degree in psychology, to be followed by a master's degree in counseling. i intend to offer recovery-based counseling in my community to victims of sexual trauma and their loved ones to faciliate their path to recovery. i also intend to offer counseling in my community to sexual minorities (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, kinky, leather, BDSM, polyamorous, etc.) who often need counseling for issues that are completely unrelated to their sexual orientation or lifestyle/lovestyle but cannot find counselors who don't focus on their sexual minority status instead of the issue at hand.

i am a writer, because when i'm not writing i feel like i'm not breathing.

i am an anarchist, working in my daily life and in the community around me for radical, revolutionary change.

i seek truly sustainable relationships with individuals, with my community, and with the rest of the planet.

Location
Norman, Oklahoma, USA

Age: 43

Gender: FEMALE