I'm a retired marriage and family therapist, a career that was a great home for my mind, heart, soul. Before that I was a tech writer in the electronics industry, before that a dropout of grad programs in mathematics, biochemistry, electrical engineering, and creative writing. I have been living with my partner, also a woman, in a committed relationship for 31 years. She teaches mythology and loves to travel. I love stability and staying home. I love our two Samoyeds Nikki and Misty (died at ag…