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A girl told me about this guy she keeps rejecting, does it mean anything? Answered

This girl told me about this guy who keeps asking her out and she told me that she keeps rejecting him. Does this mean anything, like she's interested in me, isn't, or just nothing? We're not like good friends, so it doesn't make much sense why she told me. I like her and am just wondering what this means or am I over-thinking this?


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jordanr840 (author)2010-11-18

Dude.. lol. It's never a 100% guarantee, but please ask this girl to hang out. If she ever says it again, make fun of the guy and shortly afterwards, say: "When are we hanging out?!"

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lemonie (author)2010-09-25

Next time ask her "Why do you keep telling me about this guy, do you want me to have a word with him or something?"
I can read people in front of me, but not over the internet. You'll get your answer by asking the right questions to people in front of you.


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orksecurity (author)2010-09-23

Yes, you're probably over-thinking.

If the told you why she keeps rejecting him, that may be useful information about what not to do if you're interested in her. It certainly means she doesn't want to be pestered after saying no, but that's true of most folks.

Beyond that, if you really want to know what it means, ask HER what it means. You can't read her mind; neither can we.

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orksecurity (author)orksecurity2010-09-24

... after all, she may just have been wondering whether you could explain why he wasn't taking no for an answer, or if you could suggest a better way for her to make the point. If so it means she trusts you to take her seriously, but not necessarily more than that.

It isn't always about us. Which is sometimes unfortunate, but that's life, kid.

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