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Have u ever had your heartbroken if so tells us what happen and how you got over it Answered

This forum is about  heartbreak i know everybody has been through it, so share with us how you got over that point in your life,and what you learned from it. Remember dont give names and keep it clean.

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caarntedd (author)2012-09-18

Time. Just like getting burned, you eventually heal, but the scar remains.

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monsterlego (author)caarntedd2012-09-18
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arretamador (author)2012-08-02

Before I go on, I want you to know that your forum is a great idea and it offers a valuable form of support that most people need (a some point in thier life, we all love dont we?) thus, the negative replies to your question don't sound like they are from emotionally intelligent people. A few are obviously written by adolescent boys and "meatheads". If I were you i would feel embarrassed for them because they sound kind of dumb when you think about it. Therefore, I am going to ask you to ignore them and remember that "they look like idiots and you do not".

Healing a broken heart is not a problem that has one solution, because everyone experiences emotions in their own way. We are all different from each other in complex ways that we will never understand. This is why we cannot know how to heal a broken heart due to the complexity of human emotion. However, there are options available that can help ease the pain.
What I did was to physically move to another state and started a new life there. It was extreme and it was not the first thing I tried to heal myself. It was the final option I felt that I had and it was a hard thing to do. However, it worked and after three months I started to slowly let go of the pain I was feeling. I started to forget how sad I was because I was too busy adapting to a new job and a new life.

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cinderellato (author)arretamador2012-08-08

Good for you and I hope you continue to heal.

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Hazeleyes101 (author)arretamador2012-08-02

Thanks for taking the time to read and understand my forum..The decision u made to move to another state seems like a good decision for you.I wish you well and bless u

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cinderellato (author)2012-08-08

OMG.........A broken heart question.....Well yes, I have had a boken hear,t but I was in my 40s when it happened. It is the most aweful experience and that is a fact.....It took me 6 months for the ache(real physical pain) to go away, 5 years to stop thinking about him and now 10 years later I realize it was a blessing. I will always love a man who was an alcoholic and gambler, whose problems kept us broke. Crazy but the breakup was the best thing for me. Good luck to anyone with a broken heart.

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Goodhart (author)2012-07-03

We are the miracle of force and matter making itself over into imagination and will. Incredible. The Life Force experimenting with forms. You for one. Me for another. The Universe has shouted itself alive. We are one of the shouts.

Ray Bradbury

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ilpug (author)Goodhart2012-07-12

Ooh, can I be FUS ROH DAH?

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caitlinsdad (author)Goodhart2012-07-03

A shout out to ya. May the Force be with you.

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Hazeleyes101 (author)2012-07-01

Caitlinsdad this is for you how about you make you a life and stay of mine.....get it.... if you didnt im telling you to stop telling me that my forum is in the wrong place dont you know i know that.

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blkhawk (author)Hazeleyes1012012-07-02

We do not mean to hurt your feelings but Instructables is for those that make things and share what we know. Sometimes the regulars discuss off topic things but this might not be the place to write about matters of the heart. Like Caitlinsdad said you should keep this topic in Facebook.

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caitlinsdad (author)blkhawk2012-07-02

Thanks for thinking of me as irregular.

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blkhawk (author)caitlinsdad2012-07-02

I think you are a veteran! :)

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Goodhart (author)blkhawk2012-07-08

maybe if you ADD arian to the end of it :-)

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Lithium Rain (author)Goodhart2012-07-08

What's the trinity got to do with it?

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Goodhart (author)Lithium Rain2012-07-08

Trinity? Sorry you lost me there. I posted adding "arian" to the end of veteran (thus making veteranarian) :-P The spelling isn't correct, but it pronounces the same

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Lithium Rain (author)Goodhart2012-07-09

:) The debate over Arianism (or the "Arian heresy") caused a deeply divisive controversy in the early church regarding the nature of the trinity.

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caitlinsdad (author)Lithium Rain2012-07-09

Well over on "Iron Mischief", the debate over "Who's Robot reigns supreme?" caused a deeply divisive controversy in the early church regarding the nature of the trinity, Eric's, Kiteman's, or Nachomahma's.

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Kiteman (author)caitlinsdad2012-07-09

What is this "Iron Mischief" of which you type?

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caitlinsdad (author)Kiteman2012-07-09

PM Lithium "Iron Maiden" Rain or was that Ms. Thatcher?

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Goodhart (author)Lithium Rain2012-07-09

Aye, so you missed the veteran-arian pun I was shooting at?

If you look at church history, the trinity wasn't introduced to christianity until around the 4rth century AD.

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Lithium Rain (author)Goodhart2012-07-10

No, I got it. Just making another one.

Yeah, the council of Nicea came after Constantine, some time after the start of the church (very roughly c. 300 if my memory of Western Civ 101 serves - 325? YES, I checked, 325 :D).

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Goodhart (author)Lithium Rain2012-07-10

understood and yes, that means my memory is still solid :-)

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Goodhart (author)caitlinsdad2012-07-06

hmmm an irregular regular ?

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themoose64 (author)Hazeleyes1012012-07-07

I can't tell what you are trying to say. Use grammar or this doesn't make sense

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caitlinsdad (author)themoose642012-07-07

Payback is heck. Seems you have learned the power of the Force. Welcome to the dark side.

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themoose64 (author)caitlinsdad2012-07-08

YES! Being evil is sooo much more fun than the good side. Mwahahaaha

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blkhawk (author)caitlinsdad2012-07-07

"You are a traitor and part of the Rebel Alliance. Take her away!"

Darth Vader

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Goodhart (author)blkhawk2012-07-08

Um C-dad welcomed her TO the dark side ;-)

Small point but kind of important :-D

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Kiteman (author)Hazeleyes1012012-07-02

If you want people to stay out of your life, don't post your life on a public forum.

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Kiteman (author)Kiteman2012-07-02

(And don't you have a more important forum topic to pay attention to?  Maybe that's part of your problem...)

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caitlinsdad (author)Hazeleyes1012012-07-02

You had me at hello.

1. This is the internet.
2. You can use the reply button.
3. If you came here looking to be self-diagnosed, this is probably the place to do it.
4. Welcome to Instructables.
5. Geez, no one around here can take constructive criticism. *sigh*

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supersoftdrink (author)2012-07-10

Nope. People who make stuff tend to be the ones to first take things apart (gotta see how things work).


Some of those things that we take apart can sometimes get broken in the process.


I don't have enough experience in healing heartbreak to offer solid advice, but if bandaids aren't cutting it, try cyanoacrylate. It's great for many things.

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monsterlego (author)2012-07-06

Time heals everything ;)

...Or do you mean its physically broken, then i recommend you go find medical attention

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Hazeleyes101 (author)monsterlego2012-07-06

It's not broken like that omg (really) its getting better.

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lemonie (author)2012-07-05

An answer: Get out of yourself.
Too much of the time people get trapped in thinking about themselves all or most of the time.

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Hazeleyes101 (author)2012-07-01

Exactly thats what i want to rebuild my heart..

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Goodhart (author)Hazeleyes1012012-07-03

even the original Jarvik heart is a little more complex then most of us deal with here.

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Goodhart (author)2012-07-01

Maybe she wants to "build" a new heart :-)

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blkhawk (author)Goodhart2012-07-02

Doctor Strangelove is in the house! :)

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Goodhart (author)blkhawk2012-07-03