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ARGH NOOO!!!! Romance[Love.Lust] = Pain!!! {suffering.unhappiness} = : ( ... Answered

As some of you may know, I've had a crush on a gal for quite awhile.
For the past while I thought I had it good, she's been awful flirty as of late, and seemed to be dropping hints all over the place. So yesterday, I mustered the courage (and resources :p) to ask her out. Guess what? I was turned down flat. I was rejected. Scorned. Publicly humiliated (I did in front of a group of friends, FSM knows why...).
Either it was adrenaline, or it was the FSM, but I didn't feel to bummed out. But now (last night, this morning) that I've been thinking about, I feel like the warm hand that stole my heart hath hurled it down and stomped upon it with an icy stiletto... WWWWAAAAAAHHHH!!!!!!!!!!! *runs to refrigerator and sobs*

And the problem is, in all my misery and self pity, I think it's possible that I like her even more, *sigh* what is unattainable is what a guy seeks....
WWWAAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!! *runs back to refrigerator*
All the world is muck and gloom...

So now what? Gain her love? Forget and be miserable?

Discussions

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Kiteman
Kiteman

12 years ago

Keep trying until you either get the message or you get a restraining order ;-) Maybe next time, though, try it without an audience - she may give you the same answer, but she may also be more inclined to add a reason or two.

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

I could really do without a restraining order...

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 12 years ago

Yes, but I think Kiteman is correct for a couple of reasons. Who knows, maybe she felt pressure from peers, or whatever. In any case, in private, she will definitely be "more inclined" to give an answer as to why not. Doesn't mean she will or won't, it is that you have better odds that way.

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

I'm gonna see her tomorrow, I'll try to ask her again, wish me luck! Man I hope she wasn't listening when I described how to make a taser...

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 12 years ago

yes, good luck, remember, she is human too, and has some of the same fears, and feelings you do (she will not pull out a flame thrower and eliminate you :-) ). I would stay away from the subject of explosions and things like that LOL

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

AGH!!!

I waited until we were temporarily alone (it was at the library), and asked again if she'd go out with me. She leaned in close and went all soft eye (I really thought I was gonna get smooched) on me. I leaned in and she started to whisper....

Then SLAP!!!!
Yup there I was, thinking how good life is then whamo! I got slapped Obviously my confused expression amused her, she giggled and walked off, walking very sexily away...
WWAAAHHHHHH!!!!!

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

HOT! =P

LOL sounds like a keeper :]

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Yah LOL, I've been wondering what she would look like in leather with a whip in hand 8]

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

WHAT THE H3LL???

LMFAO

what happens on ibles, STAYS on ibles :]

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Oh... I suppose you don't have a thing for leather? Or pointy ears?

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

lol where did the pointy ears come in??

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Elf ears rock!

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

LOL d00d!!! one of my friends has ONE elf ear... we always make fun of her for it lol so who's this chick you're diggin? she real hot or something? XD

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

No wonder you don't have a girlfriend...
Heck yes she's hot, and quite nice if she's not making you feel like a rotter or slapping you. You can see a real bad picture of her here. Oh yah I'm in the blue stripy shirt and I hadn't slept for days so the weird looks is called sleep deprivation...

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

.... THERES LIKE 50 PEOPLE IN THAT PICTURE HOW'M I SPOSED TO KNOW WHICH IS HER? ... whoops... caps were on :]

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Shes on the left in red and black.

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

far left? with the red vest?

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Aye

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

*chokes, gags, reaches for medicine, swallows 3 large pills, convulsions slowly wear off, restoring normality...*

MAN, when you said it was a real bad picture of here, i dint know you meant THAT bad :]

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

LOL, muhahaha I have defeated you! Long live Trogdor Strongbad!

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

...

read on, my sorry opponent, read on...

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 12 years ago

Sounds a lot like she is what some call a "tease". Someone that likes to play with the emotions of others for her own amusement. She has a bit of maturing to do, sadly.

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 12 years ago

I agree. Leave it as a lost cause. At least you tried, so no regrets needed.

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

*sniff* you are right, a brief chapter of my life comes to a close. Now hopefully when I meet a another she, she has'nt read this, it would be terribly embarrassing...

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 12 years ago

What I mean by "such a one"; is someone that knows (not right away of course, but later in the relationship) what you suffered may feel compassion for you.

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Goodhart
Goodhart

Reply 12 years ago

Well, who knows, such a one may be endeared by the contemptible way you were treated *shrug*

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bobbyk881
bobbyk881

Reply 12 years ago

Bummer dude. But shes not your type. I've Just been heart broken and your not going through what I am. When you get a girlfriend and you want to brake up with her for some reason DO NOT I repeat DO NOT tell somebody to tell her that your over her. That happened to me and my heart is still broken from that. Be careful. If you found a girl that you really really fancy and you sware you wanna marry her and she fancys you back, and you two are going out she just maybe want you to feel that she likes you but she doesn't really like you nor love you she might break up with you for a stupid reason just so she can go out with some one else. It might give you suicidal thoughts. Trust me. I had gone through this and it hurts so badly. But do go out and see if you can find "her" you know she out there some where. Thanks for listening, bobbyk881

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Takeshi_Kovacs
Takeshi_Kovacs

Reply 12 years ago

... I know their kind. Stop chasing her. :P

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Reply 12 years ago

Good luck!

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Hmm I'll give it a go...

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Baron A
Baron A

Reply 12 years ago

Dude I feel for ya! Girls are soooo soo confusing/amazing. I tried to forget about and get over my crush. BUT, i fancied her again. and more i think!!! WHY WHY ? girls are so complicated.

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finsterkoenigstan
finsterkoenigstan

12 years ago

Carve her name into your liver. Nothing says love like deep organ tissue damage. Remember, it's on the right side, just below the ribcage.

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Doctor What
Doctor What

12 years ago

Write your name in gasoline on her lawn, to remind her how much she misses you.

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

dont forget to light it, to symbolize the fire of your love ;]

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Doctor What
Doctor What

Reply 12 years ago

If you just leave it unlit, it will kill the grass in the shape of your name for weeks, maybe even months. Also, stand outside her window with a boombox that is playing a track of you saying, "If we can't be together, the bomb will explode" over and over and over.

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Hmm not bad... I would probably get arrested for harassment though.

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

LOL. that last one found me off guard, man

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Juklop
Juklop

12 years ago

Murder her.

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Argh no

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Juklop
Juklop

Reply 12 years ago

Why not?

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

Legal issues + I couldn't kill a person just because they rejected me.

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Juklop
Juklop

Reply 12 years ago

I would.

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

*sigh* starts locating you through your IP to call the cops...

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Pat Sowers
Pat Sowers

Reply 12 years ago

wtf is wrong with you?

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Labot2001
Labot2001

Reply 12 years ago

FINALLY!!! someone who has sense!!! ;]

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Pat Sowers
Pat Sowers

12 years ago

I know how you feel my girlfriend dumped me the other day and OMG it hurt!!!!!!! There are reasons why but I shouldnt tell you. P.S. it was nothing I did to her

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KentsOkay
KentsOkay

Reply 12 years ago

What dumped you for your brother LOL?

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Pat Sowers
Pat Sowers

Reply 12 years ago

That aint funny man!! you have no idea!!!! she didnt leave to go with someone else!! She left for a reason that has a very sad story behind it!!!!!

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bobbyk881
bobbyk881

Reply 12 years ago

Why did she leave?