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Alright i want to make somthing for my girlfriend but I'm clueless Can I have some help here? Answered

She likes a lot of things but she is more of a tom-boy she hates pink and skirts are a no-no.
I need lots of help here .  I'm not too poetic and she likes mountain dew but she likescamping and swimming but i dont want to get her clothes.


HELP!!!

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frollard
frollard

9 years ago

I thought you said it was your girlfriend. You're supposed to know about this person, care about them, and know things like this. That's normal. Doing that to strangers is where stalker comes in.

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paininthebutt
paininthebutt

Answer 9 years ago

we do know eachother it would just make it feel awkward and make her suspicous if i ask you know?

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frollard
frollard

Answer 9 years ago

Relationships ARE awkward at the start - thats the part where you learn about each other. Don't ask what she wants, ask what she likes -- then find something that fits.

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paininthebutt
paininthebutt

Answer 9 years ago

and yes she is my girlfriend

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iceng
iceng

Answer 9 years ago

May we text with her ?
You might gain insight, we would behave.

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lemonie
lemonie

9 years ago

(sigh)
Do your best to help her feel-right. That means being a good friend and trying to understand why she is dysfunctional like that.

The gift is not going to fix her head - talk to her about stuff instead.

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paininthebutt
paininthebutt

Answer 9 years ago

well this isn't to help her feel better this just a random gift of affection

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lemonie
lemonie

Answer 9 years ago

W'ref "dude are u nuts She will think im a stalker!!!!!" and the comment which you deleted, talk to her first before getting any "random" gift.

Gifts should be thoughtful and appropriate, else people wonder what the hell someone is doing giving them one. Affection isn't always felt if people don't know each other and "random" can lead to someone thinking "what are they up to here?"

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paininthebutt
paininthebutt

Answer 9 years ago

Dude we know eachother and have been going out for months she likes little things that show her i love her and if i ask her she will get suspicious See what i mean so i am her boyfriend but i just dont want to make her suspicous.

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lemonie
lemonie

Answer 9 years ago


I said talk to her (not ask her).
That is to understand her well enough that you know what she'd like, and much better than some random-internet-people...

L

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iceng
iceng

Answer 9 years ago

Some jewelry electronic.

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paininthebutt
paininthebutt

9 years ago

alright everyone we know eachother and have been going out for months but she is a little wierd and suspicous

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iceng
iceng

9 years ago

This is like an NCIS scenario Lol.

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seandogue
seandogue

9 years ago

Maybe a compass or a flint-firestarter?

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lemonie
lemonie

9 years ago


she likescampin
Get her a high-quality knife/torch/fire-lighting thing etc.
Useful is always welcome.

L

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Vyger
Vyger

9 years ago

Try asking her. i

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FoolishSage
FoolishSage

9 years ago

If you want to make something I suggest you either go for something more artistic than useful crafted out of wood (maybe a pendent or a picture frame), or something more functional than artistic out of a more robust material (camping backpack).
But anything I suggest will be relatively generic. You know her better and know the message you want to transmit with your gift.