Girfriend says she wants to keep her options open? Answered
We have been dating over one month and I see here twice a week. . Tuesday after she cooked me dinner and while she was rubbing my back and watching tv, she said there is something I want to get out in the open. She said she wants to keep her options open. I said did I do something to offend you? She said no. She said she has a lot of fun with me and the sex is fantastic. She said I didn't freak her out in the bedroom or anything. Some nights we do it twice and then in the morning. Last week she gave me a pair of her panties she had just wore. Before she droped the bomb, we were making out and getting worked up , then she said she just started her period. When we first dated she was towards the end of her period and we had sex. Then she said she is cramping. It probably has been about a month since her last one. We also talked about what was going on this weekend. She said she has plans friday with a girlfriend and they are going to check out some art. I asked for sat and she said yes. I asked her if there is sombody else and she said no. She went to her counselor the night she threw out the options statemant. Could the counselor have influenced her? I took her some concerts tickets that I got for free. When I left she said I know I really pulled the blanket out from under you so you might want to take the tickets. This announcement was such a shock to me. She told me she is co-dependent and last weekend she was able to spend fri home alone. She got divorced last year after ten years and says she talks to him twice a week. He was an alchoholic. Then she dated a guy for about a year then me. Between that guy and me was two weeks. She acutually pursued me. She found out my email from one of our friends. I'm thinking if she came after me, she was single. She keeps telling me it's nothing I did. She also mentioned that I'm Liberal or conservative or something like that. We never talk about politics. Is she wanting somebody who is more political? She called me a few days ago to see if we were still on for sat. She said she is calling because she thought I was mad at her. I said I wasn't. I feel like its going to a little awkward tonight. I'm afraid to have a talk with her when we get together tonight. What should I do? I don't want to be her 2nd option.