0Wolf Seril 11 years ago 1ST- STOP YELLING!!!!!1!!!!eleven!!!!11!!!1!! 2nd- make them repeat it. Try tying one shoe for them (slowly!), then have them do the other. Doing it for them all the time will never work. 3rd- only use one method. If you have been doing the bunny-ears method, keep doing that. If you are doing it the traditional way, keep doing that (although i find the bunny-ears method is much easier, even for fully grown adults). I didn't learn how to tie my own shoes until 3rd grade because my parents didn't follow the second and third steps. They never all-caps yelled at me, though.