How do I balance a friendship and a girl? Answered
I have a problem with a friend and a girl. My friend and I both really like the same girl but he has had a previous relationship with her. I'm not sure how she feels about him, though. Anyway I really want to ask her out but so does my friend and since she broke up with him and he still has feelings for her I feel like it might be wrong to ask her out and that it would really hurt our friendship. I also told him that I would back off at least until he asked her out. So my question is should I ask her out at all and if I do should I wait until after he tries like I said I would or should I just tell him I shouldn't have said that and that I plan on asking her out soon? Thanks.