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I'm having trouble getting over my first love,can anyone provide me any advice? Answered

i shared ALL of my first experiences with her and I'm heart broken... really need some help here

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Boz
Boz

11 years ago

You've suffered a loss and are grieving. There are several online sites that can guide you through the grieving process. At one time, these sites were usually geared for people who had lost loved ones, due to death, but I think they can still benefit you. For many people, the loss of a loved one is the same, regardless of the reasons why, or how. Try searching for, "list of grieving" as a starting point. I think it helps to know, in advance, what you might be up against, while you're griving. in this way, you can prepare yourself, for when you're going to be going through I hope the process is quick for you ::: smile :::

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skunkbait
skunkbait

11 years ago

Ouch! That's a painful one. I'd say get out there and date others. Don't be looking for love while on the rebound, just go out and have fun. The pain will (mostly) subside with time.

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Kiteman
Kiteman

Answer 11 years ago

Agreed. There is no easy or quick solution, just time and the knowledge that things will get easier. Do not try and forget her - she's been a big part of your life - but try not to compare future girls to your first love. Do not try and recreate them in the image of your first relationship.