My girlfriend's father caught us making out in her backyard at 1:00 am. He was pissed. What should I do? Answered
My girlfriend and I have a very happy relationship. We couldn't see each other during the day, but decided we really wanted to hook up that night. Her parents go to sleep at 10:30, and she decided to sneak out and I'd meet her in the backyard, since her house is in walking distance.
I told my parents I was going for a walk around the block. I left at 11:00 pm and said I would be home by 11:30, which is the curfew when minors have to be off the streets.
I get to her house and 11:10, she quietly sneaks out and we meet up. I had intended to leave and be home on time, but soon found ourselves making out under bright moonlight and we just couldn't bring ourselves to end it.
Soon I start getting phone calls from my parents. My cell phone is vibrating in my pocket but I didn't pick up. Quite frankly I was too lost in the moment to care.
I ignore the calls for a while. After a long time, we're both terrified to hear the back door open and her father come out!
He says, calmly but obviously pissed. "---- come inside. And you best go home."
I slip away without a word, obviously pretty spooked.
I get to the end of her street, and check my cell phone. It's 1:00 AM!!
My parents called the police and reported me as missing! I got to the end of her street, and a police cruiser picks me up for being out after curfew.
They contact my parents. I wasn't arrested because I explained to the officer the situation, I was with my girl, we lost track of time, honest mistake, apologies, etc.
My parents call my girlfriend's parents. Her folks are obviously not happy with me.
I've had my cell phone service disconnected, and my girlfriend doesn't have Facebook, e-mail, or any way for me to contact her.
I need to know----
1. How to make amends to her parents
2. If we can continue our relationship with her parents hating me
3. How to manage this whole clusterf**k situation
Please any advice will help! This just happened yesterday so I need to act. I'm really crazy about this girl and we have a great relationship, it'd be a shame to lose it.
Thank you so much to everyone!