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Theres a girl in my school that likes me. What should I answer her with if she asks me out? Answered

She is also one of the most popular girls in school, she is very nice, caring, and cute. I also don't know if I should ask her out first. She's a really close friend and I don't want to ruin our relationship. I didn't really even know that she even wanted a think to do with me since today. If I do become her boyfriend, I would get a LOT more popular. But then, I only thought of her as "just a friend" till today. Please help!

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ThirdEarthDesign

2 years ago

If you don't ask her out will you look back at this moment with regret and see it as a missed opportunity? If you can answer that, you may have your answer.

I would say follow your heart, but not for the purpose of increasing your popularity.

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rickharris

2 years ago

1. If she asks try saying OK sound good.

2. Stop worrying what other people think

3. We as humans tend to spend our lives worrying about things that might happen. As we get older we realize that the reality is they very rarely do happen. The following principle has worked well for me for the past 60+ years " If you can do something about it - DO IT - If you can't do anything about it STOP WORRYING."

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Kiteman

2 years ago

Similar questions to this have been asked here many, many times. Search the Answers section to get a lot more responses, but, generally, if you want to ask her out, do so.

If you're bothered about the relationship deteriorating, talk to her.

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NicholasY5Kiteman

Answer 2 years ago

Well I really don't want to make a mistake, because if I do then it will get across the ENTIRE school very fasy.

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KitemanNicholasY5

Answer 2 years ago

That's the risk of following your heart.

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iceng

2 years ago

You don't drive yet I'm assuming.. So start by eating lunch with her and tell he you obviously like her ... a lot. Let her respond and listen then build the conversation on what she said from there..

Girls are smart they will give you a hint from "i didn't know" to "I like you a lot too !"

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NicholasY5iceng

Answer 2 years ago

can I just build up the conversation and THEN say i like her? But even if I did it would have to be at recess because I never get the chance to sit with her.

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John Gray 1

2 years ago

Tough question where you live is it customary to ask the father first.

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Vyger

2 years ago

What does being popular have to do with getting an education? Schools are paid for with tax money with the specific purpose of making dumb kids smart and educated so they can become an asset to society. Why are you working so hard to defeat that purpose?

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Josehf MurchisonVyger

Answer 2 years ago

High school is a great place to meet a future wife, I met mine in school 42 years ago.

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Josehf Murchison

2 years ago

Ask her out.

If she says "yes" she is interested in you as a boyfriend.

If she says "No I don't think of you that way." she means it.