UPDATE: CDROM stepper motor moves up and down now! wiggle problem resolved Answered
To anyone who read my previous post about the CDROM stepper motor wiggling and not moving while being controlled by GRBL and the EasyDriver motor controller, I got that same motor to work. What I did was I completely took off the wiring system of jumpers I had made. I took off the male pins and kept only that. Then, I tinned four new 22 AWG stranded wire (which is a larger gauge than I was using previously), attached the male pins to one end, and soldered the other ends to the motor directly using copious amounts of flux and verifying resistance continuity between all wires and connections.
My Take Away:
A. The previous gauge wire was too small,
B. My splicing of the wire failed miserably,
C. The solder pins were in fact touching each other, shorting the system
I am guessing that a combo of all three (honestly, mainly B) caused the frustration. Now it is one solid wire from motor to breadboard for each of the four connections. I believe by unsoldering everything and cleaning it up fixed the wiggle jiggle of the CDrom motor. So if you are having these problems with your CDrom motor/ motor controller, check the wiring and the solder joints. I hope this helps anyone having these problems.