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ho do i ask girl out Answered

theres a girl called faith in my class that i like i want to let her know that i like her( ask her out) but she is quiet and i havent talked to her much i am in sixth grade so yeah wat do i do



9 years ago

you ask her like this:would you mind to go with me to eat something? that is more simple than what paulcauchon said :)


9 years ago

i have found that the best way to do it is to be straight forward and confident


9 years ago

First off, get to know her. Try to find out who her best friend is or what kind of music she likes to listen to. Not only will this give you something to talk about with her when you two get to hang out, but will help you know if you really want to get into a relationship. Plus, knowing her better will help boost your confidence.

Secondly, have a plan of what you want to do after you get your yes. She'll want to know what you guys are going to do together. Doing homework together, getting a soda after school, or watching a favorite TV show together can all be good places to start.

Finally, and most importantly, remember that  you can do it. Women, even in sixth grade, know and can sense confidence. If you're not confident, you might end up stumbling along your words and that won't work out too well. Speak clearly and with a purpose. It may help to go over what you're going to say to her if you think you'll be nervous. Sometimes when I haven't known how to talk to a girl or I've been a bit scared to do so, I've even pretended to be confident until the scary bit was over! Take a few deep breaths to calm yourself down before you talk to her.

What seandogue said is a very good sentence to begin with. I'll quote it here:
"Hi Faith, I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to get a soda pop?"

If she says yes, tell her what you had planned for the time you two are going to spend together.

If she for some reason says no, keep smiling, thank her for hearing you out, and go on with the rest of your day.

Do not lie to her to make her like you.
Do not ask her out through a friend.
Do not stare at the floor when you talk to her.

Do practice what you'll say.
Do smile.
Do look her in the eye.
Dospeak clearly and confidently (but don't yell at her).
Do be calm.
Do be yourself.

Remember, chin up, chest out, and keep smiling. Let us know how it goes!


9 years ago

"Hi Faith, I'd like to get to know you better. Would you like to get a soda pop?"

this is said while ___smiling___, which can be a little difficult when you're feeling awkward...just remember smile and try if you can to look her in the eye, even if she doesn't do the same. Many shy folk have a tough time with eye contact.

There ya go. good luck!


9 years ago

I think you should try to get to know her first.