0Dr.Bill 11 years ago This can be a very hard Q. I like what EMIT has to say too. He doesn't beat you does he ? If he does don't stay. Find a way out. I always heard that, "The way to a mans heart is through his stomach." I think though being supportive goes a long way because, being a man myself, we are a lot like children. We or I like to reassured sometimes a lot.