0Instructable04 9 years ago This is excaclly my problem man. My suggestion would be to make her something really nice or even buy her something for a special occassion (Like Christmas) and read her feelings as she at leasts tries to say "Thank You". Smile and slowly go through the steps to kissing her described all over instructables. My girlfriend is the same, she makes me do ALL the work! No, she lets me organise the dates. No, she lets me work out when we're going to kiss (And I still havn't done that yet!). The only thing you have to be sure about is that she likes you that much to go through this. Good Luck!